I know you weren't. I'm sorry. I should have explained that I was worried that I had made him sound like a jerk.Lea
I was not calling your husband a jerk, I meant that as a general thing...that we CAN be jerks. Sorry if it was taken otherwise
Hope things get better. PM me if you need to vent. OK?
I will send you a message if I think I need advice. Thank you. I received a lot of messages already, and like the replies I got in this thread, every single one was helpful. I have taken some of that advice and used it, and a lot has happened since I last posted in this thread. Things are looking up for us. I won't go into details here. I feel like I've made too many comments in this thread already.
I owe a big Thank You to all of you who have provided advice. It has really helped, so Thank You!