Phone Sex: A thing of the past?

[amigayorbi]

I have had many a good times with plain old phone sex. I guess it is not a thing anymore, is it?

The excitement and nervousness when you chat for the first time, and slowly ease into it and get comfortable! I just loved the chemistry and the build up.

One instance I remember where an older woman called me from the corner of her room while she was moving houses and there were many people in her house moving things.

Miss those times!

 

[SmokingFap]

What bizarre timing for someone to start a thread about this. I just spoke on the phone with a fabulous woman I've been chatting with here on Lit for a month or so. Very naughty chat. But we've become very close, so this morning I decided to give her my phone number and ask her to call me. She did and we had a great talk. It wasn't phone sex it was more just wanting to hear each other's voice after spending so much time just seeing each other's words on a phone screen. I still don't think I could actually have phone sex with her, because I hardly talk on the phone with anyone at all. But talking to her for a few minutes added to the intimacy of our relationship.

 

[amigayorbi]

What bizarre timing for someone to start a thread about this. I just spoke on the phone with a fabulous woman I've been chatting with here on Lit for a month or so. Very naughty chat. But we've become very close, so this morning I decided to give her my phone number and ask her to call me. She did and we had a great talk. It wasn't phone sex it was more just wanting to hear each other's voice after spending so much time just seeing each other's words on a phone screen. I still don't think I could actually have phone sex with her, because I hardly talk on the phone with anyone at all. But talking to her for a few minutes added to the intimacy of our relationship.

That is amazing! Yes the first time when you hear each other after chatting for a while! The fluttering heart beat! I am glad it still excites people! Keep at it

 

[ltlp2468022]

I have done phone sex in the past
Married women next door first time I call told her I wanted her what I want to do to her she listened I did get off I told thank you she said your welcome

 

[littlecordelera]

I'll have to say, I won't miss it. It never did anything for me.

 

[live4thebj]

Don’t think so. When I was playing the field I would have first time conversations with moms that would end up masturbating while on the phone with me.

 

[Goldenfinger]

we Still have phone sex.

 

[Bbl87]

Not as common but still happens.

The ubiquity of video chatting has kind of made it a little rarer though.

 

[RickTango]

I also miss those times. Late night, low crackling voices could provide much intimacy.

 

[womaneater58]

I enjoyed phone sex often with my g/f as I traveled often. Never tried with a stranger.

 

[dkak001]

I have had many a good times with plain old phone sex.

I can just hear it from these kids now: "So how do you fuck a phone?"

 

[Bisnjguy]

Sure there’s nothing wrong with phone sex. Especially with the option to video chat.

 

[Katykat999]

Def still happening!

 

[ThinkWrite]

Rotary phones, sadly yes!

Who doesn’t want to hear real voices via Skype et al?!

 

[HornyExecutive]

It’s a personal fave of mine, but rarely have it because finding a partner for it is elusive.

 

[Yesok1]

My ex and I had face time sex and WhatsApp video sex. Never had phone sex. It was more solo porn for each of us, saying what we'd do to the other. Or, how horny we both were.

 

[mark_j]

Phone sex hasn't gone away.. The instrument that is used has changed. Nothing more.

 

[2trains]

I have had many a good times with plain old phone sex. I guess it is not a thing anymore, is it?

The excitement and nervousness when you chat for the first time, and slowly ease into it and get comfortable! I just loved the chemistry and the build up.

One instance I remember where an older woman called me from the corner of her room while she was moving houses and there were many people in her house moving things.

Miss those times!

I absolutely love it. There is nothing like finding about kinks and growing chemistry and connection and teasing each other then leading up to the first time you chat. And hopefully your voices enhance the experience. I’ve been told by some female phone sex partners that they never cum harder. I love that

 

[Bisnjguy]

Phone sex hasn't gone away.. The instrument that is used has changed. Nothing more.

It’s even better now. Video chats are better.

 

[2trains]

It’s a personal fave of mine, but rarely have it because finding a partner for it is elusive.

Agreed, finding women that are interested is tougher now. It used to be easier

 

[HornyExecutive]

Agreed, finding women that are interested is tougher now. It used to be easier

I understand why too. Guys can be real jerks sometimes and women have different perspectives on it as a casual thing, than men.

 

[2trains]

Totally agree about guys being jerks. Some women are too. It’s a shame. I treat everyone with respect and kindness. It’s not difficult!

 

[magicalmoments]

Back in the late 1990's I met my wife through phone sex.

She had come out of a bad relationship, didn't want to be bothered with dating or meeting new guys but she wanted more than just bringing herself off with her vibrator. She had enjoyed phone sex with boyfriends in the past so she decided to put a personal advert in an adult magazine for guys who might be interested in phone sex, no meeting, just bringing each other off on the phone.

The idea was the guys would phone a message service, leave a voice mail with their best chat up lines and she would get back to those that caught her fancy. I was one of about 200 guys who replied and my voice mail caught her interest so was selected to be in the half dozen she ended up contacting.

We started off hot and heavy, me stroking my dick while she was massaging her clit on the other end of the phone. Over a few weeks our chat became more general, the sex thing seemed to fall into the back ground and after about 3 months she ended up agreeing to meet and we started dating. The rest as they say is history.

I suspect the same thing could still happen for others, even these days.

 

[Nightspeed]

I've had phone sex with the same woman for about 10 years. She's now my ex-gf and we still have regular phone sex and we both have a lot of fun and get off.

 

[Elayne_Hawke]

Omg, I miss those days. I had met someone on a chat site and we got quite close. He would call me every night and every morning and we'd talk with sweet sexy talk awhile. Making sure that we were both satisfied. It added to the mystery and I loved hearing his deep husky voice. That always got me turned on.