New Member Introductions

[bala7400]

We are swinger ( wife swapping ) couple from India. I'm 48 years old retired Art professor wife 38 years old house wife.

We are always open to chat. Especially me. Wife is busy to house work and lack of English knowledge.
I love this forum

 

[Nightbird]

Hello, so I am not new here although I might as well say I am new because I've been away for several years. I'm Canadian and have been described as a decent writer. I'm single and looking.

 

[Red_22b]

Hi, I'm Dave. 43 from Ireland. I am happily married to my beautiful wife and have been browsing literotica for many years. I've written a story and have a sequel to it in mind. But god am i nervous about posting it!!!

 

[Anders_W]

Hi,
My name is Anders.
I'm 54, at the end of a 25 year relation (which is sad, but we're quitting very amicably, it has just run it's course for the both of us).
Oh - definitely not a native English speaker, so please cut me some slack there.

What am I doing here?
I like reading / writing, but untill last week it had never occured to me how arroused I could get from exchanging texts (and some photo's, that might have helped a little as well).
In looking for a less commercialy aggressive environment, I stumbled on this site.
And here I am, 50+, learning new things about myself - and rather shy about it.

So, hi everyone, hope I'm welcome here.
(and you all don't think "oh no, not another old sad insecure git")
Bye for now (presses send before changing his mind)

 

[BDSMnovice]

Howdy folks! Long time reader of hard-core BDSM-themed stories, mostly from smaller niche sites. Finally got into reading again and now have started writing short stories. This is how I discovered Literotica. Looking forwards to it!

 

[bala7400]

Hi,
My name is Anders.
I'm 54, at the end of a 25 year relation (which is sad, but we're quitting very amicably, it has just run it's course for the both of us).
Oh - definitely not a native English speaker, so please cut me some slack there.

What am I doing here?
I like reading / writing, but untill last week it had never occured to me how arroused I could get from exchanging texts (and some photo's, that might have helped a little as well).
In looking for a less commercialy aggressive environment, I stumbled on this site.
And here I am, 50+, learning new things about myself - and rather shy about it.

So, hi everyone, hope I'm welcome here.
(and you all don't think "oh no, not another old sad insecure git")
Bye for now (presses send before changing his mind)

Heartly welcome

 

[Olderguy51]

Hello there, I'm a 51 yr old man, been married for just over 6 years to a great woman who is 12 yrs younger than me.I am a transplant from the U.K. ( been in the U.S.A. for 15yrs). Have been on and off this site for a while. Living in South Texas a few miles from Port Aransas.

 

[bala7400]

Hello there, I'm a 51 yr old man, been married for just over 6 years to a great woman who is 12 yrs younger than me.I am a transplant from the U.K. ( been in the U.S.A. for 15yrs). Have been on and off this site for a while. Living in South Texas a few miles from Port Aransas.

Welcome friend

 

[ariadel]

Hi everyone! I'm a 25 year old Dutch guy. I have been on Literotica for a while enjoying the nice stories. I'm looking to get active in the community and forum more now since I have a bit more free time on my hands at the moment. I'm hoping to explore my sexuality a bit more here and chat with some likeminded people. Feel free to hit me up if you ever fancy a chat or want to know a bit more about me.

 

[OhioCpl740]

New couple here. Married 10 years, both 32 from Ohio. Love to do anything outdoors and always find a way to make it even more fun for everyone.

 

[bala7400]

New couple here. Married 10 years, both 32 from Ohio. Love to do anything outdoors and always find a way to make it even more fun for everyone.

Welcome into Lit. Family

 

[bala7400]

Hi friends, I’m a 35 year old man living in Texas. My main hobby is boxing. All the men in my family have high sex drives and I’m no exception. Which lead me to this outstanding site. Nice to meet y’all.

Welcome. Nice to meet you too.

 

[ErgoPropterHoc]

Hi all, I am 48 and have been suffering from a cold Marital bed for the better part of a decade. Recently I have been actively exploring the idea of "Stepping out" and was making actual progress. Then Blam-o, a Reproductive Cancer diagnosis. I am not looking for sympathy. It is a bumpy ride and a lot of hard work (for her), but everything is going to work out fine, I consider myself to be a good guy and becoming the cliché of the turd that left his wife when she got sick doesn't sit well with me. But I am still a guy, a guy with "needs". As I was courting another person I figured out that channelling my "needs" into writing helped me moderate the disappointment and frustration of my unrequited lust. I wrote from my perspective using her as a muse to fulfil my dreams and fetishes. I posted them on Fetlife (a place I was looking) and got a couple of likes from onlyfans models. Enough said, I don't think that is the forum for me. My unrequited lust was morphing into reciprocated flirtation, I told her about my writings and, even after telling her that she was the star, still wanted to read them. One of the harder things I have ever done is let someone I care about, know my personal desires. The fear of judgment, rejection, or maybe I am just a crap writer after all. I agreed and shared them with her, stomach churning, anxiety redlining. Turns out my kink isn't the same as hers, but she was awesome about it and encouraged me to write a story for her, giving me an all too brief premise. I wrote in first person from her perspective, based on a series of assumptions I had made through flirting. I wasn't even a character - you want a writing challenge, try that once in a while". She liked it, and in the process of tailoring the story to her predilections, over chat we got close, very close. But we slid into the ethical dilemma of cheating and because we are great friends decided to keep it clean, so as not to break our bonding/imprinting (I twilight thing I am told).

"So, I have read this far why are you telling me this?" You ask.
Context: I want to share my stories, and I want them, and me, to be liked (I'm needy I know),
But there are catches:
1. The first batch are personal or personalized.
2. The last one I wrote during a recent work trip and include names and roles of real people. Names that are difficult to change due to how I have embedded them in the story,
3. I have a self confidence problem, - What if complete strangers think they are stupid.
4. She may continue to read my musings, and here is a great place to host them.

I am looking for any insight or guidance on where to go from here.
I am also a slacker and ;TLDR how stuff works here and am looking for a cheat sheet on submission, approval and feedback. I saw that there was some stuff about editing which I thought would be great for me but I didn't read that either. I will explore deeper over the weekend.

I have a 4 part series about her, me and my fantasies

A story tailored around her that includes who she is and what she likes.

A story based on plotline she suggested.

- Another writing challenge: Write a Gay plot as a straight guy. I cheated and made them Bi.



With my muse withdrawn to a safe distance and banned from future writings, my creative force has atrophied. For the future I am entertaining "Writing to spec" and have seen some forum threads containing plot ideas that might be fun.

Thanks for listening and for any future advice or feedback.

 

[ErgoPropterHoc]

Hi all, I am 48 and have been suffering from a cold Marital bed for the better part of a decade. Recently I have been actively exploring the idea of "Stepping out" and was making actual progress. Then Blam-o, a Reproductive Cancer diagnosis. I am not looking for sympathy. It is a bumpy ride and a lot of hard work (for her), but everything is going to work out fine, I consider myself to be a good guy and becoming the cliché of the turd that left his wife when she got sick doesn't sit well with me. But I am still a guy, a guy with "needs". As I was courting another person I figured out that channelling my "needs" into writing helped me moderate the disappointment and frustration of my unrequited lust. I wrote from my perspective using her as a muse to fulfil my dreams and fetishes. I posted them on Fetlife (a place I was looking) and got a couple of likes from onlyfans models. Enough said, I don't think that is the forum for me. My unrequited lust was morphing into reciprocated flirtation, I told her about my writings and, even after telling her that she was the star, still wanted to read them. One of the harder things I have ever done is let someone I care about, know my personal desires. The fear of judgment, rejection, or maybe I am just a crap writer after all. I agreed and shared them with her, stomach churning, anxiety redlining. Turns out my kink isn't the same as hers, but she was awesome about it and encouraged me to write a story for her, giving me an all too brief premise. I wrote in first person from her perspective, based on a series of assumptions I had made through flirting. I wasn't even a character - you want a writing challenge, try that once in a while". She liked it, and in the process of tailoring the story to her predilections, over chat we got close, very close. But we slid into the ethical dilemma of cheating and because we are great friends decided to keep it clean, so as not to break our bonding/imprinting (I twilight thing I am told).

"So, I have read this far why are you telling me this?" You ask.
Context: I want to share my stories, and I want them, and me, to be liked (I'm needy I know),
But there are catches:
1. The first batch are personal or personalized.
2. The last one I wrote during a recent work trip and include names and roles of real people. Names that are difficult to change due to how I have embedded them in the story,
3. I have a self confidence problem, - What if complete strangers think they are stupid.
4. She may continue to read my musings, and here is a great place to host them.

I am looking for any insight or guidance on where to go from here.
I am also a slacker and ;TLDR how stuff works here and am looking for a cheat sheet on submission, approval and feedback. I saw that there was some stuff about editing which I thought would be great for me but I didn't read that either. I will explore deeper over the weekend.

I have a 4 part series about her, me and my fantasies

A story tailored around her that includes who she is and what she likes.

A story based on plotline she suggested.

- Another writing challenge: Write a Gay plot as a straight guy. I cheated and made them Bi.



With my muse withdrawn to a safe distance and banned from future writings, my creative force has atrophied. For the future I am entertaining "Writing to spec" and have seen some forum threads containing plot ideas that might be fun.

Thanks for listening and for any future advice or feedback.

Does anyone know if there is an edit bot in the forums, My Post got chopped up, with several lines going missing.

 

[RSThomas42]

Hello everyone, I'm a new guy, a 51 year old unmarried queer dude. I'm a self-published author with two novels available on Kindle, one erotic and the other more of a super steamy romance. My current WIP is a bisexual horror novel that I'd love to post here, I have two chapters published and three pending. It's more psychosexual than erotic. Literotica might not be the ideal place for a horror novel, but my first two novels were written a chapter at a time on a forum, so it's a format that works well for me. It's great to meet you all!

 

[imamdboy]

Well i've been a member for a long time, mostly just for reading. I'm a 57 year old widower that has been married twice. The first wife left me when i was getting transferred out of her comfort zone. That wife and i were in a couple of swinging encounters; soft swap, same room stuff and nudity around friends. Then i was playing with other couples while i was single. The second wife was not interested in any of that and i was happier with her and didn't want to mess that up. She passed away and now i'm back to being single. I'll admit there wasn't much physicality due to medical issues, but s

 

[imamdboy]

Don't know what happened when i posted ^^^

the rest of the post should have been
,but she was worth it. I just don't know what i'm going to do about anything now as an overweight old man.

 

[Buffy47]

Sorry for your loss It's really difficult when it happens, you are not too old to find happiness again but it's a difficult path I'm sure.

 

[Sl1ckjw420]

Hi everyone I'm 44 and trying to see what out there im straight just got out a 10 year relationship been rough

 

[MissMaidenMinx]

I don't know what to say. I have been on and off Lit for over 10 years. Married in a vanilla relationship that doesn't satisfy the sadistic sub lurking under the surface.

 

[randallpott]

54 year old straight male. Been around here awhile but just read stories until recently. I'm in a relationship for the last 5 years now. We fantasize and watch porn regularly and have talked about threesome with another female. We have recently talked about visiting a swingers club. We are only 2 hours drive from Atlanta and I've looked at the clubs there online. I have never really experienced anything outside of me with one woman. I think it's time to see if I can handle more than that. Like I have fantasized about most of my life,

 

[bala7400]

54 year old straight male. Been around here awhile but just read stories until recently. I'm in a relationship for the last 5 years now. We fantasize and watch porn regularly and have talked about threesome with another female. We have recently talked about visiting a swingers club. We are only 2 hours drive from Atlanta and I've looked at the clubs there online. I have never really experienced anything outside of me with one woman. I think it's time to see if I can handle more than that. Like I have fantasized about most of my life,

Good go ahead

 

[dave's thing]

Good morning ️
I’m in a relationship with a beautiful loving woman but I can’t forget about men.

Hi Jenny
Welcome to the abode

 

[Booboobear84]

Good morning ️
I’m in a relationship with a beautiful loving woman but I can’t forget about men.

Nothing wrong with still liking men, perhaps you simply like both. Both men and women can be good and bad, so experiences can vary widely (though too many men, at least can be thoughtless oafs).

 

[sweetbaker555]

Aloha,
Baking and sex are both a stress relief for me. My favorite thing to bake are cupcakes ( strawberry cupcakes with vanilla frosting) and brownies as you can tell I do have a bit of a sweet tooth. I am an activities director at a memory care facility so that takes up a big part of my time but I absolutely love my job. And am engaged however my finance is currently deployed overseas so there are a lot of lonely nights and would be nice to meet someone to keep me company! Or would love to find friends to nerd out with! I am trying to get back into writing and would love to find a long term role playing partner. Please feel free to message me but will not reply to messages that contain dick pictures ( as the first message) for me a good conversation is good foreplay.