Masculine men, this is your thread.

[RobLivesInTexas]

On the LGBTQIA+ forum, there are many threads about "sissydom" and the desire to be a sissy. This desire is foreign to me, and, I think, to many gay and bisexual men. On one thread, the comment was made that masculine men don't post on forums like this and are mainly concerned with getting their rocks off. Suck, fuck, cum, go. Maybe that's true for many, but from my own personal experience of sex with other men, the best sex has been relational, even if it was only a brief relationship, The emotional side of sex is, in my opinion, powerful.

I would like to see posts from other masculine men who also have no desire to be a sissy, or even to be with a sissy. I'd like to test the waters to see if the comment referenced above is true, or if, as I suspect, other masculine men do actually post on forums like this.

So, masculine men, are you out there? And are you in touch with your emotions without losing your sense of masculinity? It will be interesting to see if this thread goes anywhere.

 

[Daxt3r]

We are here.
We are numerous.
We are men.

 

[vidmin]

Masculine man here, bottom, enjoy the company of other masculine guys,

 

[saintcero]

I have a plaid shirt

 

[SexyInMy60s]

I’m not sure I understand the why we would need to draw a distinction between masculinity and sexual preferences. I suspect there are lots of us here who look and act quite masculine every day but who like to give pleasure to another guy as much or more than we want to receive it. Being masculine doesn’t just mean being a top in my humble opinion.

 

[cumuncut]

My preference is for hairy muscled men.

 

[none2_none2]

On the LGBTQIA+ forum, there are many threads about "sissydom" and the desire to be a sissy. This desire is foreign to me, and, I think, to many gay and bisexual men. On one thread, the comment was made that masculine men don't post on forums like this and are mainly concerned with getting their rocks off. Suck, fuck, cum, go. Maybe that's true for many, but from my own personal experience of sex with other men, the best sex has been relational, even if it was only a brief relationship, The emotional side of sex is, in my opinion, powerful.

I would like to see posts from other masculine men who also have no desire to be a sissy, or even to be with a sissy. I'd like to test the waters to see if the comment referenced above is true, or if, as I suspect, other masculine men do actually post on forums like this.

So, masculine men, are you out there? And are you in touch with your emotions without losing your sense of masculinity? It will be interesting to see if this thread goes anywhere.

Welcome back to the forum, Rob.

While I have no desire to be feminize or to feminize other men, I think that for some reason extremes tend to be emphasized in the m2m world way more then they should. I've noticed that many from the feminized world of men tend to de-emphasize the positive traits of real women (family), and over-emphasize what I rarely see -- a sex craved creature like the porn industry would like you to think women are. Then on the other extreme that I don't care for are these guys who think m2m is all about sex (getting off), no physicial attraction, and (HEAVEN forbid) some emotional connection. I'm sorry, but I don't see cock-obsessed, but male-heart no-interest men as some kind of valid non-gay/non-bi sexuality identity. I see it as an extreme character flaw that I just wouldn't have time to interact with such individuals if I were free or wanted to do so.

I never pulled out an engagement ring when I was single and on the prowl. I never expected a man with family commitments to dump them all for me, but to think I didn't imagine that one day some loving man cared enough to choose me would also have been a lie. I'll have been with my better half 21 years this coming Labor Day. We have our ups and downs, but I wouldn't trade him for anything. He is my better half. He is the one who makes my life something I enjoy every day.

I love doing thing for him if I can. I tend to do the laundry for instance. Not because I'm effeminate, but because it is something I can do for him. The only gender bending I wish were possible were for 2 men to be able to create life. It's not about feminizing myself or my partner, but I wish m2m love led to something that last past our lifetimes. Sex is about bonding and pro-creating, and sadly the latter isn't an option for m2m relationships. I am infertile, so it wasn't in the cards for me, but I do know that something is missing in that I did not continue on my life because I couldn't sire kids. My partner did. I think it is part of his goodness. I couldn't imagine loving a guy that didn't like kids (and as an extension of that -- animals).

That is my only regret. However, I couldn't imagine life without him if the creator said I get a do over, but could be fertile, and sire kids in such a do over if I never met my partner. My heart would have a big hole without him.

 

[RobLivesInTexas]

Welcome back to the forum, Rob.

While I have no desire to be feminize or to feminize other men, I think that for some reason extremes tend to be emphasized in the m2m world way more then they should. I've noticed that many from the feminized world of men tend to de-emphasize the positive traits of real women (family), and over-emphasize what I rarely see -- a sex craved creature like the porn industry would like you to think women are. Then on the other extreme that I don't care for are these guys who think m2m is all about sex (getting off), no physicial attraction, and (HEAVEN forbid) some emotional connection. I'm sorry, but I don't see cock-obsessed, but male-heart no-interest men as some kind of valid non-gay/non-bi sexuality identity. I see it as an extreme character flaw that I just wouldn't have time to interact with such individuals if I were free or wanted to do so.

I never pulled out an engagement ring when I was single and on the prowl. I never expected a man with family commitments to dump them all for me, but to think I didn't imagine that one day some loving man cared enough to choose me would also have been a lie. I'll have been with my better half 21 years this coming Labor Day. We have our ups and downs, but I wouldn't trade him for anything. He is my better half. He is the one who makes my life something I enjoy every day.

I love doing thing for him if I can. I tend to do the laundry for instance. Not because I'm effeminate, but because it is something I can do for him. The only gender bending I wish were possible were for 2 men to be able to create life. It's not about feminizing myself or my partner, but I wish m2m love led to something that last past our lifetimes. Sex is about bonding and pro-creating, and sadly the latter isn't an option for m2m relationships. I am infertile, so it wasn't in the cards for me, but I do know that something is missing in that I did not continue on my life because I couldn't sire kids. My partner did. I think it is part of his goodness. I couldn't imagine loving a guy that didn't like kids (and as an extension of that -- animals).

That is my only regret. However, I couldn't imagine life without him if the creator said I get a do over, but could be fertile, and sire kids in such a do over if I never met my partner. My heart would have a big hole without him.

Thanks, good to be back. And thanks for your touching story. I love hearing about a same-sex relationship that is a model for other people of whatever orientation. I do think that while one-off sexual encounters can be fun and pleasurable, having some sort of relational aspect enhances the physical pleasure. The emotional connection deepens the connection.

I think my reason for starting this thread is that there are MANY threads about sissy or feminization on this site, but not much going on about masculine men. I'm not talking about domination or submission, or even a m2m relationship where one is masculine and the other feminine. It's not even about top or bottom.

I have two experiences in my life that may illustrate my thoughts. I once had a brief (8 month) relationship with another man (it's in my story Alex and Me), and we were both masculine men, both top and bottom, giving and receiving oral, no sense of one dominating the other. It was just two men who fell in love and enjoyed great sex with each other.

The other experience is more shallow. I have another married buddy in my area. We have met with some regularity (every couple of months) for the past four years. There is no sense of loving each other, but there is a connection that is very different from a one night stand. We both give and receive oral, we've both fucked each other, we both love kissing and body contact. Again, it's just two masculine men enjoying great sex with some sort of emotional connection.

I'm perplexed by men who regard themselves as sissies sexually, whatever they may be in "real" life. But if that's what they want to do, go ahead. I would just like to hear more experiences from or about masculine men. (Pics are always welcome! ) And I'd love to hear via PM if anyone is interested in sharing.

 

[nostuff]

I am masculine, and I want my men to be masculine. Pretty simple, though I don't seem able to come up with a deeper explanation. I just wanted to say you're not alone.

 

[cubbyfire04]

Here, here! Masculine man here, and I prefer my men to be even more masculine than me.

 

[bijedi]

You can add me to the list. I also find manly men attractive. Nothing better than two masculine men who can go to a ball game together, then go home and play a little pitch and catch with each other.

 

[Mikey1970]

ok and this probably isn’t the right place to ask and not trying to offend anyone masculine,queer,sissy, what have you, but here’s my questio. And a little background information alcohol in my past distant but still I know drinking isn’t something I should do, same with smokin, anyway my question so my trans female friend goi thru a rough patch with her partner, and aside from being the the friend want me to throw em a window for you? ( made ya smile) so she disappeared for a full day turns out she went drinkin, now knee jerk dad in me wants to rage a bit

 

[Mikey1970]

continued I ended up posting my phone number asking her to call me when she sober, my question is drug and alcohol abuse is this something a cis person has to cope with, also the over emotional thing sometimes it’s a bit much

 

[Mikey1970]

Just asking for overall type information

 

[Mikey1970]

Sorry iPad acting stupid today

 

[Mikey1970]

ok and this probably isn’t the right place to ask and not trying to offend anyone masculine,queer,sissy, what have you, but here’s my questio. And a little background information alcohol in my past distant but still I know drinking isn’t something I should do, same with smokin, anyway my question so my trans female friend goi thru a rough patch with her partner, and aside from being the the friend want me to throw em a window for you? ( made ya smile) so she disappeared for a full day turns out she went drinkin, now knee jerk dad in me wants to rage a bit wtf is wrong with you! Then rational me says well that’s pain and hurt and despair and lonelines, so in the end please call me when your sober I love you. Now my question is among trans people is alcohol, drugs abuse being overly emotional like something a cis person just has deal with or is this a special case I’m looking for overalol here

 

[stargame]

To me there is nothing more arousing than being touched by a masculine man, and me touching a masculine man. I am aroused right now just thinking about it.

 

[cubbyfire04]

To me there is nothing more arousing than being touched by a masculine man, and me touching a masculine man. I am aroused right now just thinking about it.

That makes two of us...

 

[JB_betweenboyfriends]

On the LGBTQIA+ forum, there are many threads about "sissydom" and the desire to be a sissy. This desire is foreign to me, and, I think, to many gay and bisexual men. On one thread, the comment was made that masculine men don't post on forums like this and are mainly concerned with getting their rocks off. Suck, fuck, cum, go. Maybe that's true for many, but from my own personal experience of sex with other men, the best sex has been relational, even if it was only a brief relationship, The emotional side of sex is, in my opinion, powerful.

I would like to see posts from other masculine men who also have no desire to be a sissy, or even to be with a sissy. I'd like to test the waters to see if the comment referenced above is true, or if, as I suspect, other masculine men do actually post on forums like this.

So, masculine men, are you out there? And are you in touch with your emotions without losing your sense of masculinity? It will be interesting to see if this thread goes anywhere.

Yeah that sounds like me. Bisexual and I'm not into sissies but I don't especially like the hyper masculine type either. I like regular guys that I could imagine wanting to hang out with as well as hooking up with them.
The one-time, purely sexual interaction is something I've done before but it's not usually what I seek out.
Am I emotional? Well, sure I can be. And prefer to experience that deeper level of feeling for someone that I'm having sex with, rather than have it be only a physical thing. Sometimes it's hard to find that though, or it's complicated to figure out, so that's probably why a lot of men settle for casual.

Jason

 

[KidSpectacular]

So I’m a masculine guy with a little bisexual experience (very little but more than nothing). I’m almost exclusively attracted to fit masculine guys, while wrt women Im attracted to a tremendously wide variety of body shapes and sizes. I‘d be happy in either top or bottom role and actually would prefer the variety of both.

I could see me having an emotional connection with the right guy. In fact, I’d like to find a hot guy to explore the possibility of that.

Good thread.

 

[WerdNerd]

So I’m a masculine guy with a little bisexual experience (very little but more than nothing). I’m almost exclusively attracted to fit masculine guys, while wrt women Im attracted to a tremendously wide variety of body shapes and sizes. I‘d be happy in either top or bottom role and actually would prefer the variety of both.

I could see me having an emotional connection with the right guy. In fact, I’d like to find a hot guy to explore the possibility of that.

Good thread.

I thought I was a masculine guy until I saw your profile pic. I usually don't like men with too much muscle but on you too much looks just right. Your nice big cock may have swayed my decision a little bit.

 

[PG564E]

I am a masculine queer. Labels confuse things in my opinion. There must be lots of masculine men like me, who at different ages begin thinking what would it be like to blow a man, and have his entire load of cum glide down his throat? I was in my 50's when my mind exploded in bi-curious fantasies. My fist sexual experiences were with other boys, and I had many of them. Mutual masturbation, I liked a hard cock in my hand and really enjoyed making another male's cock shoot thick white cum.

I began watching and reading bisexual, then hardcore gay porn. The bi porn (2 men and 1 girl) turned me on, but it was the cocks of the two men who attracted me just as nice tits and beautiful girls once did. A hard cock is a beautiful sex organ and I began to desire them intensely. Soon, I was riveting on gay porn, and loved masturbating to the stories and video's. I wanted a man's cock in my mouth and knew this desire was real, not something that was going to leave my mind. I wanted it more than words can describe.

If a guy has the courage to risk everything good in his life to experience male on male sex, that guy is not a sissy. He does not walk down the street swaying his ass. He usually is more attracted to giving a man fellatio rather than pay much attention to his looks. Only speaking for myself of course, everyone is different.

I guess some people would say I was gay. Or refer to me a cock sucker, a faggot, cum slut, what have you. I don't care. I have the courage to be myself and am not ashamed at all by giving blow jobs and swallowing cum. I wanted to, I did it, and am happy as hell that I did. No one knows I am and they do not have to.

 

[stargame]

So I’m a masculine guy with a little bisexual experience (very little but more than nothing). I’m almost exclusively attracted to fit masculine guys, while wrt women Im attracted to a tremendously wide variety of body shapes and sizes. I‘d be happy in either top or bottom role and actually would prefer the variety of both.

I could see me having an emotional connection with the right guy. In fact, I’d like to find a hot guy to explore the possibility of that.

Good thread.

Oh, yes, let's explore!

 

[goodsonformom]

To me there is nothing more arousing than being touched by a masculine man, and me touching a masculine man. I am aroused right now just thinking about it.

That is so you.....*smiles*

 

[HotDamn_]

Hi! Interesting question in this thread!

I would consider myself a masculine men. I, in general, prefer women : I just love peeking discreetly at a girl walking by, appreciating all facets of her body in general. I'm also really open minded, for I have know all kinds of body types, hair, heights, weights (at the point where it could surprise some). I should also say that I'm married to a beautiful latina.

I have know since adolescence that I also liked men, but in a more secret way at first. In contrast with my openness towards appreciation of females, I tend to be truly picky about which men I like looking at. I generally prefer tall men, or at least my height (6 foot), and being muscular is a bonus. Also, and this fits particularly well the topic of this thread, I tend to prefer men who I find particularly masculine.

I always loved bisexual porn, I was never ashamed to say when a male actor had a beautiful penis-cock, and I've enjoyed communal showers pretty much anywhere (gym mainly) as a place to show off my stuff and look at other's. I always liked that in the two minutes after coming out of the public showers naked I could spot which guys didnt care about my nakedness and which were excited by it!

Thats my comment for this discussion. If other questions emerge, I'd be happy to come back and answer again!

Yours truly,
-Marc!