Is your sexuality different from what your friends/family think of you?

[Lauratwq]

Yeah they have no idea that my bf watches me alot with older guys.

 

[aya_amano]

I don't think so.
They know that I'm pretty open about it and love to have sex.

 

[UK_Jill45]

My mum knows that me and hubby meet other people, not sure if she knows about my sister being involved, my sister lived with us during lockdown so I think she has her suspicions. Some close friends also know about us meeting others, a couple of them have even been involved.

 

[Katch123]

The topic has never come up , it's not like I need or want their approval anyway. However my sisters responce would be interesting to say the least .

 

[widereceiver]

And how! I’m gay but so far in the closet I don’t know if I’ll ever get out. Maybe it doesn’t make too much difference as I’m pretty old and my health is iffy at this point.

 

[screwher]

My wife and I like to keep our hotwife lifestyle on the down low. On the outside looking in we are seemingly the perfect couple. So most people would be shocked to find out about the other men Mrs. Screwher has had sex with through out our marriage. More so that she does it with my full knowledge and approval.

 

[litalicious]

Everyone who knows me knows I'm bi but a lot of people who know me don't know how active I am and hardly anyone knows everything.

 

[bobb_sledd]

My wife is aware I've sucked a cock or two. No one else in the immediate or extended family knows; they would be quite surprised to say the least.

 

[magicalmoments]

Is your sexuality different from what your family and friends think of you?

Are you a secret slut?

Have a lot of weird fetishes?

Secretly bi? Gay?

Yes. Only my current and ex wife know I'm bisexual.
Yes I was a secret slut between ages 30 and 50. again my ex and my current wife both know about this.
No, all fairly normal around here, except maybe for the titty torture fetish.
See first answer above. I think all my friends, family, work colleagues would be absolutely surprised to know I was bi.

 

[Ticklespankee]

I'm bisexual and nonbinary, and I am out to my friends and family. Most everyone knows I'm generally kinky, submissive and I've had threesomes in the past. Only a couple of close friends know about my weird fetishes.

Frankly, they probably imagine my sex life now is more wild than it really is. My spouse and I aren't vanilla, but the stuff we do is tame compared to some things I did before we met (for the record, I do not want to go back to that lifestyle).

 

[Mature4P]

No......they all know I'm a wanker

 

[gtnlynn]

Our friends and family would have been shocked at how sexually active my wife was in college and that I allowed her to have sex with others after we married.

 

[Cardinal]

Is your sexuality different from what your family and friends think of you?

Are you a secret slut?

Have a lot of weird fetishes?

Secretly bi? Gay?

Yes, isn’t that why we’re all here?

 

[PrincessxXxDarkstarr89]

Is your sexuality different from what your family and friends think of you? I'd say so, I don't really talk about that stuff with family or casual friends that often.

Are you a secret slut? Yeah, I look like a respectable wife & mother but I've done some extreme stuff in the past, like getting gangbanged once after previously having threesomes.

Have a lot of weird fetishes? I guess so, although I wouldn't call most of them weird, are mostly stuff I've done & enjoyed.

Secretly bi? Gay? That's a complicated question, I've been with other women in the past but I'm married to a man & have kids so it never comes up.

 

[travelenman]

Is your sexuality different from what your family and friends think of you? Definitely

Are you a secret slut? My family has no idea I am polyamorous

Have a lot of weird fetishes? Love porn, love writing about sexual experiences, sharing my wife, taking video of her having sex.

Secretly bi? Gay? No.

 

[bi_cpl_with_crossdresser]

Is your sexuality different from what your family and friends think of you?

Are you a secret slut?

Have a lot of weird fetishes?

Secretly bi? Gay?

Oh god, would I have some explaining to do? For all intents, my outward appearance is mostly manly. I don't watch sports but I know my way around a toolbox and can work on everything from engines to computers.

Come over to my house and would would find a closet full of dresses and lingerie and an entire shelf dedicated to my makeup. No one wold ever guess that I love to dress up and fantasize about cocks and cum almost constantly.

I am okay with that.

 

[scribe66]

The world sees what I want them to see.
Business professional, father and a man with compassion and a dry sarcastic sense of humour.

I had a lover once tell me….
You look like you should be my accountant. I was expecting vanilla and you’re anything but that.

I’m a pretty private person, so I enjoy the anonymity this site offers to discuss, share, fantasize and ultimately learn what else is out there that may satiate the sexual palate.

 

[HotDamn_]

Is your sexuality different from what your family and friends think of you?
Well this kinda implies that we know what people think of us. Being a guy, i can honestly answer that i dont know much (and really dont give a fuck about) what people think, in general. I can be cray cray sometimes in public and some sort of provocateur just for the fun of it, but also be quiet and calm and focused so... What do people infer from this about my sexuality? God knows!
My mother knows about my sexual life because we talk openly about it. And i know about hers.
Wifey knows all about my fantasies because i dont shut up about it.
Finally, some close friends know about some sexual preferences i have because we talked about it, and if there's a beautiful girl on the street, i have no problem telling her that i find her attractive, in a gentlemanly polite way. Also, my eyes can be attracted by huge breasts or asses... What can i say? Life is about its simple pleasures, and my wife can bring me to reality with a smile so....

Are you a secret slut?
Slut? Yes. Secret? Dunno...

Have a lot of weird fetishes?
I have some fetishes, but none that i think i would find "weird". It became increasingly difficult for me to define "weird" when it comes to sex.

Secretly bi? Gay? Straight with Bi experiences, love myself watching some Bi porn and looking at cocks in porno but never really planned to have more Gay sex so... Just open!

 

[Sunnyade]

Yes very much so.

I'm very slutty in some situations.

Not so much fetish but plenty of Kinks.

Closet Bi.

 

[Islander55]

I have always tried to appear as a normal wife and mother so I think most of my family and friends would be surprised to know some of the things I have done. Nothing too spectacular. Just the usual affair or two and a one night stand while married. Once we retired we got into the swinger scene so I am pretty sure people would be even more surprised now. I do keep that side of my life very private and try to project the proper image for family and neighbors.

 

[Wonderer67]

A little of both I think.

My wife always refers to me as “mild mannered office worker by day, _______ by night. (Fill in blank with punk rocker, hypersexual, nut case, etc, depending on the audience.)

My coworkers would be shocked to know half the sexual shit I engage in. Even some of my friends. I have a good job and play that role when at work, Altho I am covered in tattoos and sort of don’t care anymore what people think of me at work. Can I get the job done? Yes. Then who gives a fuck what I look like or what my sexual practices are. I just don’t overtly advertise it at work. In fact I love going to work wearing panties underneath and/or my chastity cage. Sort of my own dirty little secret. Sort of a turn on!

But my close friends do not know everything, but I am sure they would not be shocked at my sexual kinks, fetishes, practices etc. I am a lover of life and I am what many may consider a bit of a character.

My family’s is the same- they don’t know everything but they wouldn’t be shocked. One of my sisters does know the basics. She and her bf are nudists and once over drinks I shared that my wife is my domme and my sister said she was too for her bf!!

 

[millieteases]

Is your sexuality different from what your family and friends think of you? \More than likely. My guess is most folks, with the exception of my ex-wife, would think I am your typical, vanilla, suburban type. Rather than the nudist, group sex afficionado, anally erotic, occasionally cross-dressed person I really am.

Are you a secret slut?

I would be if I got the chance a bit more often

Have a lot of weird fetishes?

Not particularly. Preferences and interests, but nothing that rises to the level of a fetish that I have to have to get off

Secretly bi? Gay?

No - as much from lack of opportunity as anything.

 

[luckyseven]

Our sex life has evolved over the years from being sexually conservative, perhaps vanilla, but when we became empty nesters, our attitude to sex changed.

My late father knew we had met up with other couples as he was having an affair with the wife of one of our closest friends. Indeed, my father wasn’t shocked at how sexually active my wife was in university and that she enjoyed sex with others after we married.

 

[bux_fan]

Is your sexuality different from what your family and friends think of you?

Are you a secret slut?

Have a lot of weird fetishes?

Secretly bi? Gay?

Yes. No one would guess I was a crossdresser.

I want to be a slut.

I have many fetishes. Some I can enjoy, many others will never happen.

Bi curious

 

[Backagainpart4]

Is your sexuality different from what your family and friends think of you?
Yes it is very different. I grew up ultra conservative and my family still is. They believe I am still as conservative as they are. I'm a teacher and extremely careful to keep my sex life private.

Are you a secret slut?
I occasionally enjoy pornography. Also love sexting if its with the right person. As for in "real" life I have never had a partner other than my ex wife. Open to exploring the possibilities but it has to be the right person and we have to share a connection.

Have a lot of weird fetishes?
None that are "weird" but I suppose that depends on how you define "weird". I have many fetishes and fantasies but most would be considered "mainstream" probably.

Secretly bi? Gay?
No but I enjoy talking with those who are to get their perspectives on things. I feel like there is much to learn from talking with a variety of people with a variety of sexual backgrounds and experiences.