High sex drive during ovulation - Tips?

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So it's a common thing that female sex drive is naturally higher during ovulation (mid way through cycle) and find that mine goes through the roof during this time.

As someone that has pretty much always had multiple orgasms I can keep going a lot longer and find that I need to masturbate 4-5 times a day or right after penetrative sex to relieve the high arousal state during this time. I think the husband would deserve an Olympic gold medal to keep up with me as he cant have multiple orgasms.

Any tips, tricks or experiences from other females? Do you just go with the flow and take the time to enjoy your own company more or try and get your partner to keep up with you?

Would also love to hear a male perspective/exeprience if they also find their partner has waves of high sex drive and if they can keep up with the high demand!
 
Absolutely. I get horny for no reason during that time. I can be in the mall shopping then suddenly I am horny. It gets uncomfortable if I don’t release it so I got to a ladies room or a changing room and make myself cum.
Must have felt so good to relieve yourself
 
Thirty years ago I would try to get my wife off at least once using oral, fingers, toys before even starting penetrative sex. And a vibe egg between us during, helped that out as well. Usually did the job.
Thanks for sharing! The foreplay definitely is a major help
 
something I didn’t invent or think of, but a fond memory (which I end up mentioning quite often when I wrte), is when the man is able to offer himself as a sex aide.

I had a special person who when the mood struck and it was hormone induced, I was there to lay on my back and stay still and hard, not bother her with my own hands, and let her ride me and make her own orgasm on me. Then she’d lie down on me to rest and recover afterwards.

It’s like your chapters of a play. The anticipation of realizing it might be starting, whatever signals I might sense that it might be one of those days. And sometimes it was a phone call. Get somewhere and be ready. And hope the mood didn’t wear off before we got together. (But knowing that sometimes it couldn’t be helped. ) knowing that as a special treat maybe I’d get a video as a consolation prize.

Then enjoying it as it’s happening. Struggling to play along and somehow keep still, but knowing that’s my job right then. Observing and learning what and how she does it, so that I have more knowledge of what works on her at other times where I don’t have to stay still.

Then witnessing how she orgasms. Laughing at how they’re never ever like in a classic porn movie with the loud moaning, the oh gods, calling out a name how it’s really a vastly personal experience, body tensing up, panting to catch her breath, no orgasm catch phrases at all.

Then arguably the best part. When she needs those moments to regain her senses. The intimacy. wondering what may happen next, whether a tender moment, or my turn to do what I wanted, or will she maybe just do it again.

I think being able to partake as the volunteer penis is an amazing thing. Learning to stay still and not interrupt is a skill of its own.
 
I WISH my wife had that kind of insatiableness during ovulation. 🙂

My best advice would be to take the time with foreplay, and if you can cum multiple times have him feel free to get you off several times that way. My wife is one and done, wears her out, haha, but that's what I'd do if she could go multiple rounds. Bring in plenty of toys for fun and variety too.
 
something I didn’t invent or think of, but a fond memory (which I end up mentioning quite often when I wrte), is when the man is able to offer himself as a sex aide.

I had a special person who when the mood struck and it was hormone induced, I was there to lay on my back and stay still and hard, not bother her with my own hands, and let her ride me and make her own orgasm on me. Then she’d lie down on me to rest and recover afterwards.

It’s like your chapters of a play. The anticipation of realizing it might be starting, whatever signals I might sense that it might be one of those days. And sometimes it was a phone call. Get somewhere and be ready. And hope the mood didn’t wear off before we got together. (But knowing that sometimes it couldn’t be helped. ) knowing that as a special treat maybe I’d get a video as a consolation prize.

Then enjoying it as it’s happening. Struggling to play along and somehow keep still, but knowing that’s my job right then. Observing and learning what and how she does it, so that I have more knowledge of what works on her at other times where I don’t have to stay still.

Then witnessing how she orgasms. Laughing at how they’re never ever like in a classic porn movie with the loud moaning, the oh gods, calling out a name how it’s really a vastly personal experience, body tensing up, panting to catch her breath, no orgasm catch phrases at all.

Then arguably the best part. When she needs those moments to regain her senses. The intimacy. wondering what may happen next, whether a tender moment, or my turn to do what I wanted, or will she maybe just do it again.

I think being able to partake as the volunteer penis is an amazing thing. Learning to stay still and not interrupt is a skill of its own.
Thanks for sharing, think you have quite an impressive feat to be able to lay there still and hard whilst she comes to orgasms and relieves herself. Think I may need another round of relieving tonight
 
my wife is gorgeous and I am incapable of intercourse. after nine years we had a house guest, he was huge and black, he joined us in our hot tub completely naked. my wife ask if he would help us out,
 
I was always really horny the week after my period. Needed to cum about every 3 or 4 hours or my pelvic area would hurt. My clit was always really swollen as well and it did not take much to cum. Sometimes I would touch it under my skirt at a stop light and could cum to relieve the pressure. Now in menopause but it seems I still have a week every month my husband calls "porn star week" as I am super horny and need a lotta orgasms. The joy of being a female
 
When my wife was pregnant she could not get enough sex. It was every day and at least three times a day. Morning sex. Afternoon as soon as we got home from work sex. Then more after dinner. She masturbated at work as well to help her focus she was so horny. She even wanted anal which we rarely did but for some reason it felt good to her and so that was in play nearly once or twice a week!!! Even fucked the night her water broke and so she was convinced the hard orgasm she had did it!!! So I can attest raging hormones do wild things to you ladies.
 
I was always really horny the week after my period. Needed to cum about every 3 or 4 hours or my pelvic area would hurt. My clit was always really swollen as well and it did not take much to cum. Sometimes I would touch it under my skirt at a stop light and could cum to relieve the pressure. Now in menopause but it seems I still have a week every month my husband calls "porn star week" as I am super horny and need a lotta orgasms. The joy of being a female
I am loving the sound of porn star week! What a great idea :sneaky:
 
When my wife was pregnant she could not get enough sex. It was every day and at least three times a day. Morning sex. Afternoon as soon as we got home from work sex. Then more after dinner. She masturbated at work as well to help her focus she was so horny. She even wanted anal which we rarely did but for some reason it felt good to her and so that was in play nearly once or twice a week!!! Even fucked the night her water broke and so she was convinced the hard orgasm she had did it!!! So I can attest raging hormones do wild things to you ladies.
Wow the night her water broke is impressive! Yes those raging hormones are quite something to deal with!
 
Just an observation. My wife and I used the “rythum” method while we were breeding. Her OB showed her how stringy and slippery vaginal secretions are when ovulating.
She came home and showed me.
 
Oh, I miss those days, so I would say, ladies, revel in it, because they won't last unfortunately. My libido was AWOL for 16 years after my kid was born (which I believe kicked me into peri-menopause). So, I would say lean into those feelings because they are WONDERFUL!!
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As for your partner, I suspect that s/he will be delighted to try to keep up with you. These are the times of legend when "she fucked my brains out." If they aren't able to keep up, chances are they are going to find a toy to use on you, because that affords them the opportunity to watch you, which I think is just as desirable as having sex. I had one ovulation spell where I just about rubbed the skin off my bf. Desperate to keep up, he handed me a pewter pestel, which was the best dildo I ever had. Unfortunately, I didn't know that when I left it behind. At the time, we were still in college, so when we got real jobs, I figured I finally has the income to purchase a proper dildo. I have been disappointed ever since.
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My ovulation cycles got really strong in my 30's. That's when I started posting pics in the amateur thread. I had a camera with an auto feature - I am really proud of the pics I took them (one is my avatar). But I found that I could really get off on the buzz when I posed naughty and shared them. It was quite erotic and very exciting. So that's what I did when I got hit with the "OMG fuck me nows".
 
So it's a common thing that female sex drive is naturally higher during ovulation (mid way through cycle) and find that mine goes through the roof during this time.

As someone that has pretty much always had multiple orgasms I can keep going a lot longer and find that I need to masturbate 4-5 times a day or right after penetrative sex to relieve the high arousal state during this time. I think the husband would deserve an Olympic gold medal to keep up with me as he cant have multiple orgasms.

Any tips, tricks or experiences from other females? Do you just go with the flow and take the time to enjoy your own company more or try and get your partner to keep up with you?

Would also love to hear a male perspective/exeprience if they also find their partner has waves of high sex drive and if they can keep up with the high demand!
I get this way too. 3 or 4 days a month it feels like my body is screaming "PUT A BABY IN ME". Just have to make do with what you have. I'm sure jumping your man's bones every chance you can will help. Happy Humping!
 
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