Faithfully married people who are turned by the IDEA of adultery/cheating?

[wifewatcher1997]

I did enjoy being there watching and participating with the wife and a lover but I always felt she was holding back. I truly wanted to be hidden without their knowledge and just experience her letting go and having fun with another man. But the 3-way fun...is so hot!

My husband loves knowing that I fuck other men. He often gets to watch. I love making eye contact with him while a man is deep inside of me.

 

[wifewatcher1997]

You're not wrong. Men are much rougher with me when my husband isn't around. It's one of the main reasons I meet up with men without him.

I'd also like being the man having fun with someone's wife...with him there or not. Just haven't had that fun! Thanks for the perspective.
Also thought it would be fun being in the hotel room next door or listening from the hallway during her rendezvous with lovers. I just imagine her being loud and having a blast.

 

[Bbl87]

My husband loves knowing that I fuck other men. He often gets to watch. I love making eye contact with him while a man is deep inside of me.

I'm not into the cuckold/hotwife thing from the husband role, but descriptions like this are part of why I find the idea of being the boyfriend/bull/lover/whatever term you prefer in that dynamic very intriguing. Also a similar idea in a cuckquean dynamic.

 

[Mtnmike]

I should add that I am insanely turned on by the thought of my husband fucking another woman. I think I'd be hurt if he really did it and didn't tell me, but the idea of him doing it and then telling me or asking if I taste the other woman on his cock... yeah, that does it for me. And I loved watching him fuck my girlfriend.

Then you are in the small percentage of woman, thank you for your honesty & outlook, it is refreshing to hear.

 

[TheDubbs]

I think about it often. I’m a decent looking guy but haven’t strayed outside our marriage, despite both the opportunity and desire to do so. I love my wife and would never leave her, and sex with her is still fucking amazing. But what can I say? It feels like an awful waste of a life to never have a few new experiences. I wish I could.

 

[Steve99699]

We have been in love for many years, dated for almost 8 and married for 40. She enjoyed having sex with other men in college, although she told all of them that she was devoted to me and they were just for fun. After we became engaged, she did not have sex with anyone else. After we had been married about 10 years, I asked her if she missed the variety of other cocks, and she paused long enough that I took her answer to be "yes." So I gave her permission to have sex with others. She ended up having sex with a few younger men and one older man whom she met through her work at a medical office. Part of the deal was that she had to tell me all about it, and she did. I enjoyed the stories, and she seemed to get turned on by telling them. When she turned 40, she stopped the outside sex and never did it again. She still has permission.

Very hot. I'd sure like to hear some of those stories . . .

 

[Steve99699]

Jerked off one of my male friends

I'd sure like to hear and see more . . .

 

[Jcam1980s]

Being desperate to experience sex with a pregnant woman, and several close friends are currently pregnant, i can't say for sure i wouldn't consider it if the opportunity presented itself. It's just such a tease when they're around, looking perfectly knocked up with that glow, the bigger breasts etc, especially when one in particular still dresses pretty sexy.

 

[gtnlynn]

Very hot. I'd sure like to hear some of those stories . . .

I will gladly share her stories in messages.

 

[gbhl44]

my NJ catholic wife had been faithful for most of our marriage. she was a virgin when we got married and, until about 4 years or so ago, i believe that she had never even seen another man's cock.

but in the past few years, she has slept with two different guys .... one older and one younger. and both connected with our catholic parish, including a priest.

she has no idea that i know about her affairs, and it is a real turn on.

 

[raceryz]

It started out as fantasy talk during and after sometimes, but after about two and a half years it led to accepting an invite to a swingers party. Not exactly cheating since we both went off with other partners at the same time. But still, a step in that direction. We are still deeply in love and committed to each other. We now have an agreement to talk about any mutual opportunities that come up in the future. But our deal is no behind the back stuff. We have to get approval first. Not sure where it might lead. I hope it doesn't lead to lying and cheating for real. That would really suck if our kinky play fucked up our marriage. It is a risk though. We know we're playing with fire so we try to keep our commitment to open, free of judgement communication open at all times.

Sounds like you are aware of the risks and rewards.

 

[Booboobear84]

I won't cheat, but I have made audios about it because it is a serious fantasy (I haven't published them, but I will share).

 

[FantasySharer1]

I don't like the idea of cheating on my wife through deception and it doesn't turn me on because it makes me imagine her crying and heartbroken.

I LOVE the idea of her letting me have sex with other women and encouraging it though.

And on the other side, I would love if she had a secret affair with her brother, kept it from me, and then I found out by walking in on them. And just as she is on the verge of total emotional collapse and embarrassment and apology - I place his cock back into her pussy, kiss the spot where they join, and tell them to keep going while I masturbate.

 

[screwher]

It’s a total turn on! I could never cheat on my wife. But when she did it, it brought me many hours of pleasure fantasizing and masturbating about her in the hotel room with him! Now fast forward many years later and we’re a hotwife couple. So I never going to truly feel that excitement again.

An ideal scenario would be for my wife is enter into another extra marital affair. Then just not tell me about it and try to keep it a secret from me. I thinking she meets him at his place. Or hotel rooms. Or drive off together in his car and screw in the backseat. I would definitely know the changes in any of her habits and see patterns. But those moments when she calls me saying she was ”going to be late” would be so hot. Or when I start asking about that guy she says not to worry about. But deep down I’ll know his cock is in her pussy as often as possible.

 

[Jess0224]

Last year I found myself getting involved for a while with a married man, while I also had/have a boyfriend. I’d married young, never had a chance to explore my sexuality until I got divorced. My boyfriend is an older man, and he was far away, and I felt a very strong sexual attraction to this married man. We wound up having sex three times over the course of a couple months, a couple of times in extremely risky ‘could get caught any minute’ situations. I ended it eventually, but they were honestly some of the most exciting experiences of my life so far, and I know he felt the same.

 

[UtilityCurve]

That was me first few years of my marriage. I slipped up a few times when I was dating my husband including my wedding day, but I was committed to being good after getting married. Then I met an old high-school friend and we rekindled our friendship. We exchanged pictures, then I cheated with him in a big way. Since, I've fucked countless men, still married.

One of my wife's exes was getting married and she asked if it would be cheating if she let him fuck her one last time if I knew it was going to happen

I was honest: That's something, but it sure ain't cheating.

Turns out there was more going on in that pretty head of hers: Cuckqueaning his future wife (who she didn't know) but most significantly, she wanted me to watch them (and if I could manage it, to masturbate to completion) so she could "be my porn star."

An elaborate plan, indeed. It was scary as hell, but it did work out in the end. He was respectful to her and grateful(!) to us both. I was mostly unsettled by her asking if he could come inside her bare because "it's not really sex unless the boy comes in you."

Fast forward many years (she died, young, in the interim) and another woman I told about this patiently (she must've thought I was an idiot for not figuring this out myself) suggested that my wife surely timed the encounter with great care. (100% hindsight "duh.")

 

[anniebaby10]

(44/MWM/Southern Illinois)
Are there any other married people out there who have never actually cheated on our partners, but who admit to being really just insanely turned on by the idea of breaking our wedding vows, perhaps with someone else's spouse? For me, while I hate the possible consequences of real-life cheating (although I've had some hot friendships over the years where we came closer than I ever intended) I love the forbidden, taboo, dangerous nature of that whole fantasy. Everything just feels so naughty about it! Adultery is about the most forbidden thing a married person can do in bed, and after years of marriage to a woman who has very little interest in sex, the idea of getting to just go wild in the bedroom and experience all the pleasure we've been denied for years with someone else who has felt the same way- that would have to just be incredibly hot! I don't know if we would feel shy about having new lovers for the first time in years, or of we would simply collapse into a withing tangle of raw, desperate, dirty sex. Using each other to meet our long-neglected needs together. I'm visualizing two barely-restrained dams holding back lakes of pure lust being allowed to burst together at the same time- and then I could go home to my wife with another woman's forbidden juices still drying on my married cock. Just to be desired again for the first time in years would feel amazing, and the fact that it's so totally and completely wrong somehow makes me want or even more.

And the funny part is, I'll bet nobody who knows me has a clue that I feel this way. I've always been the nice, quiet, responsible, "good guy" in the group. I think the fact that it feels so out-of-character for me makes it feel even naughtier and hotter. I love the thought of two good, nice married people who nobody would ever suspect doing the most forbidden and naughty thing we possibly can together! Any other otherwise good, faithful, normal spouses who (maybe) haven't ever actually cheated and don't ever plan to, but willing to admit that they secretly fantasize about risking everything for hot, steamy, forbidden sex with someone else's spouse?

I was just with my brother and his young second wife. And I kept thinking about how I would love to go down on her. We went shopping and tried on dresses and so I saw her in her bra and panties and I wanted to pull her panties aside and finger her. So I get it

 

[Illinoisguy1980]

Most of it is the lure. We tell our spouses what we want or like or need and they used to give us those things then they become content and cease then someone comes along and tempts us because they like the thrill of being the lure of forbidden fruit and test the bounds and wills. For me satin is my
My weakness. The wife refuses to wear it for me anymore even though I tell her I am aching to see her and feel her in but falls on deaf ears. So what do you do when a gesture from a stranger arises ?

 

[littlecordelera]

Most of it is the lure. We tell our spouses what we want or like or need and they used to give us those things then they become content and cease then someone comes along and tempts us because they like the thrill of being the lure of forbidden fruit and test the bounds and wills. For me satin is my
My weakness. The wife refuses to wear it for me anymore even though I tell her I am aching to see her and feel her in but falls on deaf ears. So what do you do when a gesture from a stranger arises ?

I think you have to ask yourself if your desire outweighs the hurt she would feel if she found out.

 

[magicalmoments]

I think you have to ask yourself if your desire outweighs the hurt she would feel if she found out.

Yes... The same way she asked herself how her refusal to acknowledge your simple sexual needs, that she had previously met without hesitation, might hurt you...

 

[Milflvr13]

My first wife told me that she wanted to fuck her boss and I was ok with it. He had flirted with her a lot and told her he wasn’t getting any sex at home. I actually drove her to his house once so they could fuck while his wife was away. My only regret was that I never got to see them fuck. I would have love to see them naked, him pumping his cock in and out of her pussy.

 

[frappingwilly]

In my first marriage I had the chance to cheat with a stunning lady who was way above my average. We talked loads and got on really well at work.

I wanked thinking about her so much, she was married too and married to a hockey player. Which was a turn on.

One afternoon she came to my desk and with thinking I asked her out. As the words left my mouth I was horrified and turned on in equal measure, still, she accepted to my surprise.

A week or so later I'm lying to my wife and headed out to meet my work friend. She wore the most amazing clothes and looked such a sexy lady, I was raging hard and she knew it when she turned up.

As time progressed I used to find creative ways where we could fuck. I hired a limo to drive round London while we had sex in the back, omg we had the most amazing sex.

 

[Travler99921]

After many years of marriage I developed a sexual attraction to men. I came out to my wife. It turned out she was OK with that, but she made it clear she would not accept me having sex with other women.

 

[Milflvr13]

After many years of marriage I developed a sexual attraction to men. I came out to my wife. It turned out she was OK with that, but she made it clear she would not accept me having sex with other women.

I was always sort of attracted to the thought of sex with another man but I wasn’t until I had been married for 20 years that I started pursuing it. Now all I think about is sucking cocks and being naked with men

 

[screwher]

My first wife told me that she wanted to fuck her boss and I was ok with it. He had flirted with her a lot and told her he wasn’t getting any sex at home. I actually drove her to his house once so they could fuck while his wife was away. My only regret was that I never got to see them fuck. I would have love to see them naked, him pumping his cock in and out of her pussy.

Ok this is a situation I’m anticipating being in being in the near future. My wife recently confessed an attraction to her now ex GM and that she wants to fuck him! They reconnected when he came bythe office to visit. My wife is now ready to take the plunge with him. We’re hoping he’s available. Or at least willing to see her on the sly.

I’m hoping to luck out like with her current boyfriend and get to watch when it happens. But I understand most men don’t want the husband around when he’s screwing the wife. So I’m going to have to drive her to his place. Or step out for the evening if she’s going to have him over to our place. Which Iwould prefer. There’s nothing hotter than when another man fucks your wife on your marital bed!