Do you ever fantasize about being the opposite sex?

[Nudeslave83]

@HoldYouDown

I've always been happy to be a man, but sometimes I wish I could have the female experience of showing off my body and being desired on a more physical/visual level than most men are. But when I think about the downside to all of it, I'd rather just be a dude.

This is something I have often thought of myself as I find the female body so much more attractive. I have always been fascinated by the ideas sexual objectification. It's a bad thing and yet I'm kind of wondering what it would be like to experiencing it, of having a female body and having people view me primarily in terms of my body.
Maybe that's partially the appeal of my other scenario that I described in my other thread about a world where certain men are allergic to clothing and it sort of flips the sexual status quo on the head because now men are the ones being sexually objectified.
@Abbafan

Not really. Though I have enjoyed some stories written from a female point of view. I don't really put myself in their shoes completely, but I suppose that is still in the ballpark of what you're talking about. In my mind though its more like a woman is describing what happened and I'm the audience.

I enjoy stories told from the female point of view and when I am writing my own stories I like having female characters and becoming completely immersed in their heads as it feels like living a female life almost vicariously through them.
@Easyvirtue

Every morning when I awake and caress my chest exciting my nipples, I wish I was reaching down to feel a beautifully manicured pussy to finger and later be fucked senseless!

What I really hate most about being male in many ways is just being hairy I would like to have soft smooth skin and breasts and a vagina. It would be interesting to have a totally different body and totally different plumbing. It's something I often fantasize about when I touch my own body as I imagine it as female.
@BrightShinyGirl

I don’t really fantasize about it, but I do wonder sometimes what it would be like. Being able to walk around freely without having to be aware of my surroundings. Being able to dress as sloppy as I want. Not having to work to get other men to take me seriously.

I can definitely see those as the downside of being female. But then I don't get out of my house much and when I do I am rarely alone. I definitely don't put much effort into my appearance and nobody really cares about that but it would be interesting to experience what it's like to be female and two dressed really sexy.
I'll admit one of the hard things to deal with is not being taken seriously just because of my sex. As sort of a shy awkward nerd and intellectual I am used to being respected on that level and it would be kind of frustrating to have to deal with people just looking at my breasts and judging me on that.

Peeing standing up would be cool. Oh, and I’d really like to experience sex from the male perspective. The thought of having an erection and sticking it in a wet pussy is mind-blowing. I’ve tried to imagine what it must be like, but it’s just too strange.

I would definitely trade peeing standing for multiple orgasms any day! I think it would be fascinating to have different plumbing and see what it's like to lose the ease of peeing wherever I want whenever I want. In fact one of the interesting things would be learning to adapt to being female after having lived with a life of male privilege. Whenever I see the challenges that women faced it always felt like something I should be experiencing instead.
I definitely think I would rather have a pussy though. I feel like I would still be strictly lesbian but it would be weird to have different equipment down there and I think that everybody probably has fascination about that.
@Dapperguy

Do you ever fantasise about being a used tampon?

No but I actually did have a story idea what I thought it would be funny if a guy wished that he was surrounded by pussy and then he gets transformed into a tampon!

 

[Nudeslave83]

@AllenJames

One of my longest lasting fantasies would be to have the capability to fully switch back and forth from female to male - and explore all of the possibilities of each.

It's interesting that similar to what I mentioned except I thought it would be interesting if you change once and there is no going back and you are forced to deal with it. It would be interesting to deal with being turned into a female into a world where most people could go back and forth but where I have to spend the rest of my life exclusively female.

 

[bimwiguy1963]

I have often wondered what it would be like to switch bodies with my wife, and given a free weekend to do whatever I want.

 

[HoldYouDown]

Not really but kind of. Occasionally when I masturbate I’ll be working through a fantasy and will sometimes try and put myself in the point of view of a woman.

Years ago I found a guided hypnosis-type recording online to this effect. It slowly built up to imagining one's self as a woman. I can't remember if it went to orgasm or what. Maybe I'll try to find it.

 

[Nudeslave83]

@HoldYouDown

Years ago I found a guided hypnosis-type recording online to this effect. It slowly built up to imagining one's self as a woman. I can't remember if it went to orgasm or what. Maybe I'll try to find it.

I have tried that before and I also did one thing where I tried to see what it would be like if this fictional thing that my friend thought up had happened called the great shift where magic would spontaneously change the sexes of various different people, and it was interesting to explore. I have also explored female lives through past life regression and it's very fascinating I have found. I even wrote an entire novel about my experience.

 

[steamboat610]

Id love to get the real feeling of being fucked in my pussy and have my tits bouncing, I'd be such a whore if switched with my mind now.

 

[Wal6202000]

I think about it all the time. I am so jealous of the ability of women to have multiple orgasms. I would never stop touching myself.

 

[GessoOfJess]

As my body started breaking down and normal m/f sex was no longer an option, I've had to learn to think like I'm in a lesbian relationship when it comes to sex.

 

[Christy2Cum]

I wish I was a man every month when I get my period.
Most of the time I really enjoy being a woman, despite all the extra time I need for hair, makeup, wardrobe, hair removal, etc. but I would like to experience being a man if I could for a short time, maybe 3 or 4 days a month, I get to pick when.

 

[Tayloroc]

I’d love to be a woman off and on. To dress up and flirt with men knowing how crazy women make men!!

 

[Klqka]

Of course, I believe I'd make an awesome woman... then remember all the maintenance and drop it.

 

[Dapperguy]

I think about it all the time. I am so jealous of the ability of women to have multiple orgasms. I would never stop touching myself.

Your a Randy dirty Geezer.

 

[STRC]

Do you ever fantasize about being the opposite sex?

I have the office girl fantasy, I would love to work as a secretary in high heels, pantyhose, a short skirt, a nice blouse, wearing lots of makeup and red lipstick.

NO

 

[Tayloroc]

Yes yes yes

 

[Islander55]

Never had the desire to try things as a man. Too many advantages to being a woman.

 

[Erodicus]

Some years I came across a post on Lit where a woman wondered what it must be like to have a male orgasm. She said that they always seemed so intense that she was curious to know what it must have felt like to when they ejaculated. This started me thinking - what was sex like from a woman's point of view when she was having sex with a male partner? This has been an on-going voyage of discovery for me with ladies who have been keen to educate me. I'm far better informed now not only about a woman's orgasmic experience, but also in other "Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus" differences.

 

[chrisatb5]

Yes but my paycheck dropped 22% and I stopped

 

[MarksExperiences]

What? You mean I'm not? Did you just assume my identity?

 

[xdresssissytoes]

I've experienced this fantasy ever since my sexual awakening in my teens...imagining myself as the female in the porn pics and sex fiction that I read...practicing sexy poses...wearing my sister's panties and bras....being dressed sexy slutty by my bi girl friends and wife in lingerie and f-me heels...painting my toes and wearing femme jewelry.....shaving my body everywhere...growing my hair long.... using oils and massage techniques to plump up my breasts ...pumping and stretching my nipples.....learning to get fucked by strap ons, dildoes and real cocks....
Today, after many years of enjoying and getting off on crossdressing in public and for my lovers, I feel my femme side fully and let her out in some way every day.

 

[Nudeslave83]

I wonder how many guys get dissauded from being female simple by seeing the line to the bathroom...

 

[CuttingEdge]

Yes and no for me...

I have no interest in being a lady ever, but I say yes in the sense that as a writer, to write an effective novel you have to write from the perspective of the character you're deriving.

I learned this in high school. At the time I loved auto racing and wrote a story about a famous auto racer at the time. It was okay, but 100 times better when I realized it would be more interesting to write it from his wife's perspective in the emotional roller coaster of the race. Added to that was my teacher who was really surprised that I would write from the perspective of the opposite gender. Either way, both her and I are published authors of mainstream novels: 10 for me, and 4 for her.

My suggestion to everyone on here that wants that female/male perspective... WRITE. It is the true magic of the world. With a mere 26 letters you can derive ANYTHING you want. Really that is it. 26 letters, rearranged into words that is repeated about 90,000 times, creates a novel.

Explore through writing!!!!

You got this!!

 

[SloBlo69]

Do you ever fantasize about being the opposite sex?

I have the office girl fantasy, I would love to work as a secretary in high heels, pantyhose, a short skirt, a nice blouse, wearing lots of makeup and red lipstick.

Naaaah, I luv ma schlong & what I can do with it too much

 

[Nudeslave83]

@CuttingEdge

I have no interest in being a lady ever, but I say yes in the sense that as a writer, to write an effective novel you have to write from the perspective of the character you're deriving.

As a trans person I like living that life vicariously through my female character, even though s a person who writes horror I wouldn't want to be in most situations I put my characters through.

Added to that was my teacher who was really surprised that I would write from the perspective of the opposite gender.

It is curious isn't it, how so few people want to write outside of their comfort zones.
@SloBlo69

Naaaah, I luv ma schlong & what I can do with it too much

But think of all the fun you could have with a clitoris, the gift that keeps on giving (multiple orgasms)!

 

[SloBlo69]

@CuttingEdge

As a trans person I like living that life vicariously through my female character, even though s a person who writes horror I wouldn't want to be in most situations I put my characters through.

It is curious isn't it, how so few people want to write outside of their comfort zones.
@SloBlo69

But think of all the fun you could have with a clitoris, the gift that keeps on giving (multiple orgasms)!

Yes definitely, limitless fun & quivering hips

 

[live4thebj]

I wouldn't say I fantasized it. But I have been jealous of a woman's privates and the pleasures/options they have to please them with and techniques. For me it is my prostate and things to stick my dick into. I would love to have a pussy for the day to put a toy in me and play with my clit.

Don't assume I am into crossdressing or trannies, I am just jealous of a woman's options.