Does real life CFNM happen? Do women ever enjoy being in that position?

[Luv4hotwives]

I've been looking at CFNM content recently. Never did before, but I'm finding its fun!

I've had some experiences and near experiences that looking back, were really hot.

But the more I thought about it, it's hard to imagine actual CFNM situations playing out organically, after all how many situations are there where a man is going to be naked in which women are around? The few I had, were when I was young. There was a close call when I was a little older, but it didn't work out and that was a weird unlikely confluence of things.

Have you as a man or woman experienced it? How did it happen? If you're a woman do you like being in that position? What do you enjoy about it?

From a guys perspective, well mine at least, it's fun mixture of feelings. Vulnerability, a power imbalance where she can see everything and knows exactly what you have down there. And I like that feeling of being at a woman's mercy.

 

[Oshkosh60]

I had a friend with benefits situation and the friend asked if I wanted to paint a bedroom in her basement. i said I would do it for her and after we had gotten the paint, I went downstairs, disrobed and started to slap the paint on the walls. She came down and found me there buck naked painting her walls. She laughed. She stood there and watched for a long time, occasionally slapping my backside and giving me the occasional tug. She loved it. I loved it, And it was a pleasant way to do a reallly mundane task. After finishing the room, I showered and we made love. No, unless you have some sort of relationship with the person you're stripping down for, I don't think it is going to happen or should happen as anyone else would call 911 on your naked butt. But she was game and thought it was great fun. She was also about 20 years older than I was and she blushed a few times at first but then became a very hands on type of supervisor that afternoon.

 

[Lady2020]

Never.

 

[Luv4hotwives]

I had a friend with benefits situation and the friend asked if I wanted to paint a bedroom in her basement. i said I would do it for her and after we had gotten the paint, I went downstairs, disrobed and started to slap the paint on the walls. She came down and found me there buck naked painting her walls. She laughed. She stood there and watched for a long time, occasionally slapping my backside and giving me the occasional tug. She loved it. I loved it, And it was a pleasant way to do a reallly mundane task. After finishing the room, I showered and we made love. No, unless you have some sort of relationship with the person you're stripping down for, I don't think it is going to happen or should happen as anyone else would call 911 on your naked butt. But she was game and thought it was great fun. She was also about 20 years older than I was and she blushed a few times at first but then became a very hands on type of supervisor that afternoon.

That sounds like a really hot experience! Thank you for sharing! I expect most people's stories to be something similar. Most cfnm situations in porn or erotic lit are either convoluted situations that would never happen in reality or would be basically an assault if you were naked in those situations in real life. Your experience sounds just absolutely so much fun. Did you ever hook up with her again?

 

[Luv4hotwives]

Since bringing it up I'll share a couple experiences.

One I was 18 and visiting a female friend. I had moved away and she had been telling me to visit. I drove up and hung out, but wasn't planning on staying long. I slept over one night, but the next day said I should be getting back. She wanted me to stay, but I didn't have extra clothes. I had showered, but didn't want to spend another day in dirty clothes. So she told me she'd wash my clothes and had me follow her to the washing machine. She opened it up and said, "toss them in." As I stripped down I paused getting to my underwear. She said, "you can throw those in too." When i hesitated she added "But you don't have to if you're uncomfortable." And she started to close the washing machine, but I shrugged pulled my boxers down and tossed them in. She stiffled a small giggle. She was trying not to look, but saw her glance down several times. I don't remember what was said or done the next minute of so of me standing there naked, but eventually she stole another glance and said, "I'll get you a towel so you don't need to feel embarrassed." When the clothes were ready she watched as I removed the towel and got dressed.

Another time, cfnm nearly happened, but was kind of a missed opportunity. I was helping my exes brother and his girlfriend move. Now, his girlfriend had asked a couple times by then if I had a small penis, so I'm guessing my ex had said something. That day I had just thrown on some loose workout shorts. I remember thinking to myself, I should really tie these so I don't flash anyone, so I did. Later as I was helping to carry in some heavy furniture, so my hands were totally occupied, the girlfriend grabbed the front of my shorts and tugged down hard. She attempted several times, until it probably got awkward for her. She said something like, "awe, I was going prove you had a small penis." In hindsight I'm kicking myself for tying the string on those shorts. It would have been a perfect cfnm and sph situation.

 

[Oshkosh60]

She was an older woman (over 70 , me mid 50's ) who set her sights on me. I really had no interest, but one night I had a bit too much to drink and we ended up in bed. I had always been attracted to older women. So we got together now and then over the course of several months. Then the next spring I had an issue come up. I had wanted to sell my house, got an offer but when I went house hunting. I had a problem in that one deal fell through and the one where they accepted my offer wouldn't be ready for until two weeks after I closed. I was going to go on a trip, but needed to stay close to home. So I moved in with her for a few weeks and painted some rooms. We hung out for some months after that but I moved on to another relationship after that.

Yeah, you have to know the person pretty well to pull something like that off. And naked house painting is pretty fun. If you are performing other services around the house, I'll give you a tip, wear an apron if frying bacon. Enough said.

 

[LoneMilf]

Husband and I used to pretty much always be naked around the house when the children were still very young.
Once in a while, I would be dressed for going out or just coming back, while he was naked, and occasionally we used that for a bit of added spice. I wouldn't specifically go looking for it, but it's fun when it happens naturally

 

[Inthesewalls]

It can be fun. I had a friends with benefits sitch that was into that. I def liked looking at him naked. He would disrobe when he came in. He also did naked chores for me (unasked part of his thing) and I enjoyed that as well.

 

[womaneater58]

I'm pretty confidant that it won't happen to me but, never say never.

 

[Luv4hotwives]

She was an older woman (over 70 , me mid 50's ) who set her sights on me. I really had no interest, but one night I had a bit too much to drink and we ended up in bed. I had always been attracted to older women. So we got together now and then over the course of several months. Then the next spring I had an issue come up. I had wanted to sell my house, got an offer but when I went house hunting. I had a problem in that one deal fell through and the one where they accepted my offer wouldn't be ready for until two weeks after I closed. I was going to go on a trip, but needed to stay close to home. So I moved in with her for a few weeks and painted some rooms. We hung out for some months after that but I moved on to another relationship after that.

Yeah, you have to know the person pretty well to pull something like that off. And naked house painting is pretty fun. If you are performing other services around the house, I'll give you a tip, wear an apron if frying bacon. Enough said.

lol thanks for the bacon warning! That would be a very unpleasant lesson learned.

 

[Luv4hotwives]

Husband and I used to pretty much always be naked around the house when the children were still very young.
Once in a while, I would be dressed for going out or just coming back, while he was naked, and occasionally we used that for a bit of added spice. I wouldn't specifically go looking for it, but it's fun when it happens naturally

Sounds like to two have a really fun relationship!

 

[luv2custrip]

I’ve had former girlfriends sit there grinning when I was the first to get naked. They loved it; I loved it.

 

[Luv4hotwives]

It can be fun. I had a friends with benefits sitch that was into that. I def liked looking at him naked. He would disrobe when he came in. He also did naked chores for me (unasked part of his thing) and I enjoyed that as well.

Reminds me of this housekeeping service I read about years ago. These athletic looking guys would come clean your house in the nude. Apparently they did really good business.

Your fwb must have been really confident about his body

 

[Luv4hotwives]

I’ve had former girlfriends sit there grinning when I was the first to get naked. They loved it; I loved it.

Would they make you wait long before getting naked themselves?

 

[TnA4U]

Not yet for me, but if you want to test out my hypothesized enjoyment of such, come find me. I'm usually on other side of the nakedness, but sometimes I enjoy the switch.

 

[Luv4hotwives]

Not yet for me, but if you want to test out my hypothesized enjoyment of such, come find me. I'm usually on other side of the nakedness, but sometimes I enjoy the switch.

Of only you were here now I'd gladly help you experiment with it!

So you've been in cmnf situations? Those are hot too! I'd love to hear a woman's perspective, what is it like for you to be naked right there when a guy is fully clothed?

 

[LoneMilf]

Usually doesn't last very long..

 

[newhere2learn]

I've had a few such experiences. Usually with whatever woman I saw seeing at the time.

Also had an FWB who would be in lingerie, stockings, heels, and have me totally naked for her pleasure.

I've also had a trans FWB who would have me drive to collect her, I'd be naked behind the wheel. She would then tease and touch me as I drove.

 

[luv2custrip]

Would they make you wait long before getting naked themselves?

No, not long. But I loved to stand in front of them naked while they told me how cute I was.
Something similar happened to me when I was much younger. Cannot talk about on this forum.

 

[GeorgiaGuy48]

I was just about to graduate college, and the girl I had been seeing for over a year was having some friends over to her apartment for part of the weekend. We lived in the same apartment complex but not in the same building, and I was just hanging out in my apartment watching TV, and had fallen asleep, woke up at some point and went to bed. At the time I slept naked. Sometime later, I had 3 girls standing over me ( my girlfriend, her roommate, and her friend) , they were very very intoxicated, they had turned the light on in the room and had pulled the covers off of me. They were laughing and giggling over the whole thing. So I am trying to pull the covers back over me, as they are tugging them off the bed. So I went for my shorts that were laying on the floor, but the roomate was standing on them, she quickly said. Nope, not so fast. That is when my girlfriend said, babe, just let us have some fun with this. We brought beer, so come have a beer with us. So I got up, stayed fully nude and drank a few beers with them. Fully erect, and every time I started to go soft, my girlfriend would fondle me. I had blue balls so bad, it was getting daylight, the friend passed out, the roomate went back to their apartment. My girlfriend thanked me for playing along and sucked me off before waking up her friend to go home. I went back to bed, woke up a few hours later. I later asked her about it, she shushed me and said don't make a big deal out of it, it happened. Then she asked you are ok right? I told her yes, she said good, just roll with it. The girls had fun, I had fun, you had fun, you got off. It is all good.

These days I am in a FLR, and I am naked quite a bit at home.

 

[Inthelastrow]

Not certain this situation counts as Ive related it on LIT before, but in school I had a CFNM situation. It was during a college party in a hotel. I hooked up with my girlfriend in her hotel room. Going at it she pulled my shirt off and started to give me a blow job. Off came my pants in the act. Just as she was "doing it" several of her girlfriends burst into the room. I was caught naked. The fact that she was giving me a blow jog startled them, then started a conversation amongst the ladies about how to give a blow as several of them hadn't before. So they took turn practicing on me. They really didn't even ask me, they just started taking turns as if I was prop. Didn't really mind though!

 

[LittleGuyFreddie]

I've had many CFNM experiences but usually in the form of women doctors, nurses, or massage therapist. Not a sexual situation per say, but still exciting on my end. Does that count?

 

[Erosfan]

Over the years I've had numerous occasions with CFNM. Mostly with whom I was seeing at the time. I think I remember them all. My late wife and I had many experiences with just the two of us. We talked about her sharing my love of this, but never actually got around to making it happen. She always said she didn't think she could go through with it. She had me naked whenever she wanted and there was a few occasion where we were seen playing. I loved it when she told me to lose the clothes or when she just took my clothes off. I knew I was in for some real good orgasms.

 

[HampshireBoy]

I had a few experiences when I was too young to talk about on Lit (UK legal though).

Despite losing her sexual desire with the menopause my wife loves me walking about naked, so I am frequently naked most of or all of the day at home - at least in the summer.

When I was in my twenties I was undergoing PUVA treatment for psoriasis, basically ultra-violet treatment. This would involve stripping off and standing in a box surrounded by UV tubes, which gave me a great all over tan, I soon learnt to not worry about the nurses seeing me naked. Though I was a little embarrassed when an elderly lady walked into the room when I was stood there naked, she was meant to go into another room and the nurse had left my door unlocked. She stood there with her mouth open, looked me up and down, then said nice tan and walked out lol

I had a FWB who used to insist on cleaning for me occasionally, either wearing just her knickers or nothing. She loved it when I returned the favour.

 

[markchamberlain]

What coincidence, I just posted a CFNM experience a minute ago in another thread. https://forum.literotica.com/threads/secret-creampie.1577910/post-98449528