That tripe should come stamped with warning labels.
Yeah, I'm of the view that pop culture indoctrinates kids with unhealthy attitudes towards relationships and sex. I am very thankful that I am not the parent of a teenage girl.
I don't believe D/s, BDSM or any other form of lifestyle is wrong. Quite the opposite. I think I'd struggle on these message boards if I did.
When I use the word 'indoctrination' I'm using it as per its definition. It is distinguished from education whereby the indoctrinated person is not encouraged or expected to question what they have learnt. While you have stressed that the child in question was taught about how other relationships work I worry that the extent of what she was told may not have been age appropriate. Imposing adult ideas on children that are not mature enough to critically assess them sounds a bit like indoctrination to me.
I just can't get past educating a child on D/s politics and protocols. That is what seems inappropriate to me, and I also can't shake the feeling that things worked out that way not because of the childs questioning, but perhaps of a mothers enthusiasm at raising a like-minded daughter.
Ok, that is fair. But honestly, I don't feel, that I personally had enough information to make any kind of judgement call on that situation. Which is why I usually don't interfere and keep my opinions ot myself when it comes to a relationship between child and parent. (Unless there is some tangible harm that I see being done.)
But alternately, I knew exactly what I was by age 12. By age 12 I knew that I would live as a female slave, despite that fact that I had been born male. And that was despite the fact that I was intentionally brought to be raised in a back woods, bigoted, inbred, homophobic area and kept in the dark about absolutely everything having to do with sex, sexuality, and alternative lifestyles.
When I think back to how I was raised, and to what I know of the Lady and her daughter that we are discussing, I would have preferred that honesty. In the end, I would have made up my own mind as to who I really am, regardless of what I was taught, (As I have proven in being me,) but my journey could have been made a lot easier with a little truth.