Any other married women turned on when random men call you “slut”?

[SavannaT]

This is a weird thing I didn’t notice until my second marriage. Men being rebuffed or just feeling the urge to call me a “slut” in social situations, I found it irritating when I was single and weirdly arousing when I was married, to the point I’d rebuff men just so they’d call me a “dumb slut” or “big titted whore” or whatever variation

 

[gtnlynn]

I wouldn't be offended, but it would remind me of my slutty days in college.

 

[Handydan]

My wife loves to be called a slut when she's had a couple drinks and is horny.

 

[Veronica_Flora]

I hate when my husband calls me a slut. But it makes me tingle when the someone else does. In the right situation and context.

 

[Handydan]

I hate when my husband calls me a slut. But it makes me tingle when the someone else does. In the right situation and context.

I really don't like calling my wife a slut. But she loves another man doing it.

 

[saintcero]

I hate when my husband calls me a slut. But it makes me tingle when the someone else does. In the right situation and context.

I’m so glad you said that. I was about to call my wife a slut in the middle of sex but now I think I need to be a bit more crafty about it.

 

[Veronica_Flora]

I’m so glad you said that. I was about to call my wife a slut in the middle of sex but now I think I need to be a bit more crafty about it.

He did it for a while and every time it ruined it for me. I didn’t let him know. I just let him finish and went to bed after. But one day I just had to tell him. It feels better now.

 

[saintcero]

He did it for a while and every time it ruined it for me. I didn’t let him know. I just let him finish and went to bed after. But one day I just had to tell him. It feels better now.

What if I said, “want to get slutty with me?” That kind of makes it a joint effort.

 

[Veronica_Flora]

I really don't like calling my wife a slut. But she loves another man doing it.

I know how she feels.

 

[Veronica_Flora]

What if I said, “want to get slutty with me?” That kind of makes it a joint effort.

That could be fun.

 

[Handydan]

I know how she feels.

It's a respect thing for me. But it's a turn on for us if someone else recognizes her sluttyness.

 

[Veronica_Flora]

We aren’t there yet. I’m glad you’re able to be open like that. Maybe someday. It’s not just him though. I’m really sensitive about my promiscuous past and ways. Despite me being able to come on here.

 

[saintcero]

That could be fun.

Followed by, “Baby, I know you’re not a slut but you sure can fuck like one.”

Too far? Too fast?

Oops. Just read the previous post so I added this edit. VF might not like that approach but my wife does not have a a whole lot of history so it might fly with her.

 

[Petereater]

Has an aggressive business woman I have been call all kinds of unflattering names, most don’t effect me, it usually means I have gotten the upper hand. My ex on occasion referred to me as being a bit slutty usually in my appearance, no other man/woman has called me a slut to my face… maybe it’s time to return to my slutty ways of my youth.

 

[Veronica_Flora]

Followed by, “Baby, I know you’re not a slut but you sure can fuck like one.”

Too far? Too fast?

Oops. Just read the previous post so I added this edit. VF might not like that approach but my wife does not have a a whole lot of history so it might fly with her.

Followed by, “Baby, I know you’re not a slut but you sure can fuck like one.”

Too far? Too fast?

Oops. Just read the previous post so I added this edit. VF might not like that approach but my wife does not have a a whole lot of history so it might fly with her.

With us, there’s a history involved. The first time he called me a slut was not at a good time.

 

[babygirl4u1966]

This is a weird thing I didn’t notice until my second marriage. Men being rebuffed or just feeling the urge to call me a “slut” in social situations, I found it irritating when I was single and weirdly arousing when I was married, to the point I’d rebuff men just so they’d call me a “dumb slut” or “big titted whore” or whatever variation

I think if a guy called me that alone, it wouldn't do anything. But in public in front of others would be humiliating and probably get me aroused in a weird way. Or if a guy tells me to do something (like suck his cock) and I do it, and then he says only a slut would do that willingly without being forced.

 

[Azuldrgon]

I do my best not to use it unless we're in the middle of a super hot fuck session.
Never in public.

 

[babygirl4u1966]

With us, there’s a history involved. The first time he called me a slut was not at a good time.

What do you mean "not a good time?" Like it turned you off?

 

[Azuldrgon]

With us, there’s a history involved. The first time he called me a slut was not at a good time.

If you're insulting with it, it's never good.
Some folks prefer it only in passion situations, but it all depends.
It's not a one size fits all thing.

 

[Veronica_Flora]

What do you mean "not a good time?" Like it turned you off?

He had caught me cheating. He looked at me so disappointed and said “You fuckin slut”

 

[babygirl4u1966]

He had caught me cheating. He looked at me so disappointed and said “You fuckin slut”

Oh wow, tell me. How did he catch you cheating? Like while you were being used, or you told him?

 

[Bigspurt]

My take is that a woman who takes on a sense of wildness and enthusiasm both what she likes to do with sexual play and maybe dress up for the occasion can be and act slutty all that she wants.

 

[whatahoot]

I've always loved being called names during sex or with someone that I already have some rapport with and have him randomly call me a slut or all sorts of degrading names. That being said, if just a random guy walked by and called me a slut, I would beat his ass lol

 

[collegegirlsub]

I think if a guy called me that alone, it wouldn't do anything. But in public in front of others would be humiliating and probably get me aroused in a weird way. Or if a guy tells me to do something (like suck his cock) and I do it, and then he says only a slut would do that willingly without being forced.

Yes I agree, there is something about being called a naughty name by someone other than the man I'm dating in a public setting that definitely gets me going a bit because of the humiliation factor.

 

[Justfantasies]

This is a weird thing I didn’t notice until my second marriage. Men being rebuffed or just feeling the urge to call me a “slut” in social situations, I found it irritating when I was single and weirdly arousing when I was married, to the point I’d rebuff men just so they’d call me a “dumb slut” or “big titted whore” or whatever variation

My first wife liked to be called a slut -- she said it described her perfectly