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Jack Dawkins
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So I happened to stumble upon a new forum recently for practitioners of AO or the Anal Only Lifestyle.
http://www.analonlylifestyle.com/
Apparently this stemmed from a similarly themed blog and tumblog.
I have to admit that as a lifelong fan of anal sex (actually, one of my earliest posts here was asking about my preference for anal), it is very interesting to read others so committed and vocal about their anal preference. Members seem to range from those who enjoy the majority of their sex being anal to those who have completely forbidden any form of vaginal penetration of stimulation in their relationships.
Interestingly also, there seems to be no strong correlation between these folks and the practice of BDSM, whereas anal and bdsm seems to have a strong tie on this board.
So, other than wanting to share this because I find it interesting and figured a few others of you would as well, I am now curious about how prevalent this lifestyle may be among the community here and to what extremes it goes to.
I'll go first. In my first long term relationship, we did start having anal sex fairly early on and she was my first. I wanted it a lot more than she did, and hence we had much more vaginal sex than anal, although quite a fair amount of anal as well. In my next long term relationship anal was introduced much earlier and there was more of it. I would say we were about 50/50 between anal and vaginal. In my third and last long term relationship we had anal sex on our first date and the majority of our sex was anal. We still did vaginal sex quite often (we had a lot of sex), but our routine typically involved starting with vaginal before finishing anally. If I had to guess, I would say 80% of my ejaculations over the course of our 4 year relationship went into her anus.
Since then I haven't had any long term relationships, but have had multiple short term friends with benefits type situations and most of these have been either mostly anal or anal only. I suppose I have gotten more insistent on my preference over time and my partners have either rolled with it or not. I have been really surprised by how many women were ok with it, at least in the short term, although there were of course also those who thought it strange or unacceptable.
Would others care to speak about their experience? I do find it most interesting as the male fascination with fucking women in the ass is quite clearly a part of the zeitgeist, but typically I find it presented as an occasional kinky sort of act and not the strict alternative that many are actually using anal sex as in their relationships.
I'm really interested to hear the experiences of others.
http://www.analonlylifestyle.com/
Apparently this stemmed from a similarly themed blog and tumblog.
I have to admit that as a lifelong fan of anal sex (actually, one of my earliest posts here was asking about my preference for anal), it is very interesting to read others so committed and vocal about their anal preference. Members seem to range from those who enjoy the majority of their sex being anal to those who have completely forbidden any form of vaginal penetration of stimulation in their relationships.
Interestingly also, there seems to be no strong correlation between these folks and the practice of BDSM, whereas anal and bdsm seems to have a strong tie on this board.
So, other than wanting to share this because I find it interesting and figured a few others of you would as well, I am now curious about how prevalent this lifestyle may be among the community here and to what extremes it goes to.
I'll go first. In my first long term relationship, we did start having anal sex fairly early on and she was my first. I wanted it a lot more than she did, and hence we had much more vaginal sex than anal, although quite a fair amount of anal as well. In my next long term relationship anal was introduced much earlier and there was more of it. I would say we were about 50/50 between anal and vaginal. In my third and last long term relationship we had anal sex on our first date and the majority of our sex was anal. We still did vaginal sex quite often (we had a lot of sex), but our routine typically involved starting with vaginal before finishing anally. If I had to guess, I would say 80% of my ejaculations over the course of our 4 year relationship went into her anus.
Since then I haven't had any long term relationships, but have had multiple short term friends with benefits type situations and most of these have been either mostly anal or anal only. I suppose I have gotten more insistent on my preference over time and my partners have either rolled with it or not. I have been really surprised by how many women were ok with it, at least in the short term, although there were of course also those who thought it strange or unacceptable.
Would others care to speak about their experience? I do find it most interesting as the male fascination with fucking women in the ass is quite clearly a part of the zeitgeist, but typically I find it presented as an occasional kinky sort of act and not the strict alternative that many are actually using anal sex as in their relationships.
I'm really interested to hear the experiences of others.