PhoenixHardisty
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- Jan 25, 2021
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Am I the only bisexual person who likes to fantasize about being promiscuous but is super freaked about the reality of it?
On the rare occasion I've had a one-night stand I get crippling anxiety about STDs which makes me never want to do it again. But when I try to actually "date" guys, gay guys seem to assume I am just looking for sex because I'm bi, and the few bi guys I've met do actually seem to be just looking for sex...
I'm starting to wonder if that stereotype is rightly deserved. Given that this forum is labelled as a place for LGBT advice, but it's full of threads about sex and kinks, it seems to me like it contributes to that stereotype, and consequently prejudice against BT people.
At the same time, am I the only T-girl who is horrified by "sissy" porn? I watched a "sissy hypnosis video" and it made me feel sick; I've never had that reaction to porn before. I get that it has a right to exist, but it seems to me that it is porn (like other porn) made for a specific audience, in this case bi guys who are still in the closet, at least publicly. I think that sissy porn contributes to negative stereotypes about transgender people. I've been treated as a "sissy" by people in my real life even though that is not how I want to be treated.
Maybe I'm just a special snowflake, but I can't help but wonder how many other bi T people come to this forum and end up just feeling alone and hopeless rather than actually finding meaningful advice/help from the LGBT community
On the rare occasion I've had a one-night stand I get crippling anxiety about STDs which makes me never want to do it again. But when I try to actually "date" guys, gay guys seem to assume I am just looking for sex because I'm bi, and the few bi guys I've met do actually seem to be just looking for sex...
I'm starting to wonder if that stereotype is rightly deserved. Given that this forum is labelled as a place for LGBT advice, but it's full of threads about sex and kinks, it seems to me like it contributes to that stereotype, and consequently prejudice against BT people.
At the same time, am I the only T-girl who is horrified by "sissy" porn? I watched a "sissy hypnosis video" and it made me feel sick; I've never had that reaction to porn before. I get that it has a right to exist, but it seems to me that it is porn (like other porn) made for a specific audience, in this case bi guys who are still in the closet, at least publicly. I think that sissy porn contributes to negative stereotypes about transgender people. I've been treated as a "sissy" by people in my real life even though that is not how I want to be treated.
Maybe I'm just a special snowflake, but I can't help but wonder how many other bi T people come to this forum and end up just feeling alone and hopeless rather than actually finding meaningful advice/help from the LGBT community