comegently
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All labels are artificial at some level.
There is no god of textiles so the idea that it's right or wrong to wear this and that is made up.
You might find in time that your femininity runs deeper than that and that you come to realise that "transgender" is a closer fit.
It's never easy but if you try to keep it secret and, say, go out secretly with Trans people, then one day your wife will find out.
Over time you will get less careful and she only has to get "lucky" once.
A friend of mine's wife got home an hour early one day. After that the only alternative to divorce is being policed by her.
Some modern wives understand. I know some of them.
I was secret until 2008 and now I work, shop, etc. as my feminine self.
There is no god of textiles so the idea that it's right or wrong to wear this and that is made up.
You might find in time that your femininity runs deeper than that and that you come to realise that "transgender" is a closer fit.
It's never easy but if you try to keep it secret and, say, go out secretly with Trans people, then one day your wife will find out.
Over time you will get less careful and she only has to get "lucky" once.
A friend of mine's wife got home an hour early one day. After that the only alternative to divorce is being policed by her.
Some modern wives understand. I know some of them.
I was secret until 2008 and now I work, shop, etc. as my feminine self.