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totallytaboo22

totallytaboo22

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Hi All,

Can you help me. Am I a Cross Dresser? I just think I have a lingerie fetish.
Yesterday in a chat room here I told a female user that I like to masturbate while wearing lingerie. She told me straight out that I was a CD! I have never identified as that and I am not into men at all.
When I was growing up I preferred lingerie catalogs as opposed to hard core porn mags.
I had one sister 5 years older than me growing up and when she started working after university coming home at weekends I first noticed her (very) sexy lingerie in her weekend bag. For many years I enjoyed the immense sexual pleasure I got from trying on her lingerie when ever the house was empty. I enjoyed the look and feel and the mental picture I painted in my minds eye on how her sexy lingerie would look like on sexy females I knew (and even my sister sometimes). I did this for many years with my sisters lingerie as well as females I shared with during University and early working life. It was all every exciting and naughty (some may say highly inappropriate!) however all very pleasurable!
Down the years all the women mentioned above as well as past girlfriends, my wife and very recently my wife's (sexier, younger) sister's lingerie have all given me immense pleasure all unknown to them!
My lingerie fetish however does not involve me wearing ladies underwear outside of masturbation. I don't wear lingerie outside of the house. I never want to feel like a woman or have any other cross dressing tendency's. It is always about making masturbation more pleasurable. I love lingerie from the 1990's and I have some nice examples today that remind me of my early days in my sisters bedroom many years ago.

So, where do I fit? Am I crossdresser and should I be happy about that or just a straight guy with a lingerie fetish to the extreme!

Thanks for reading!

T
 
There are varying degrees and motivations of cross dressing. No direct relation to sexual orientation.

Does one need to "be" a crossdresser if they occasionally enjoy cross dressing? That's more up to you. But yes, surely many would label you as such.
 
I think a lot of people tend to associate CD with gay men who like to dress as a woman but have sex with men. Rightly or wrongly you'll have to deal with that. Similarly for drag queens. They aren't all gay they aren't all straight, there's a mix.

I say you do you, if you get pleasure from wearing lingerie while masturbating then more power to you. I don't see anything wrong with it. 😊
 
totallytaboo22 said:
Hi All,

Can you help me. Am I a Cross Dresser? I just think I have a lingerie fetish.
Yesterday in a chat room here I told a female user that I like to masturbate while wearing lingerie. She told me straight out that I was a CD! I have never identified as that and I am not into men at all.
When I was growing up I preferred lingerie catalogs as opposed to hard core porn mags.
I had one sister 5 years older than me growing up and when she started working after university coming home at weekends I first noticed her (very) sexy lingerie in her weekend bag. For many years I enjoyed the immense sexual pleasure I got from trying on her lingerie when ever the house was empty. I enjoyed the look and feel and the mental picture I painted in my minds eye on how her sexy lingerie would look like on sexy females I knew (and even my sister sometimes). I did this for many years with my sisters lingerie as well as females I shared with during University and early working life. It was all every exciting and naughty (some may say highly inappropriate!) however all very pleasurable!
Down the years all the women mentioned above as well as past girlfriends, my wife and very recently my wife's (sexier, younger) sister's lingerie have all given me immense pleasure all unknown to them!
My lingerie fetish however does not involve me wearing ladies underwear outside of masturbation. I don't wear lingerie outside of the house. I never want to feel like a woman or have any other cross dressing tendency's. It is always about making masturbation more pleasurable. I love lingerie from the 1990's and I have some nice examples today that remind me of my early days in my sisters bedroom many years ago.

So, where do I fit? Am I crossdresser and should I be happy about that or just a straight guy with a lingerie fetish to the extreme!

Thanks for reading!

T
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I am similar to you. I have always had a desire to wear women's underwear since I was probably about five years old. Eventually I considered myself to be a transvestite or a crossdresser. I didn't want to be a woman and I don't have any female tendencies other than their underwear. I loved panties, garter belts with hose and bras to the extreme. I also loved wearing lingerie of any of the women that were in my life at the time. Including my mom's sister's, cousin's sister-in-laws and step daughters along with both of my wives. I would collect clothing and have a masturbation session and then I would purge. I couldn't shake the urge. As the internet came in to play I went to crossdresser sites and found that most of them dealt with men that want to be women, so I thought like you, that I just have an underwear fetish. I have no desire for fingernail polish, makeup or shoes. Very seldom when I was growing up would I ever even try on a dress. It never felt comfortable as comfortable like I do with panties and bras. I don't enjoy transsexual or shemale porn but I do like to watch men dressed as women having sex with women.
 
Thanks for all the feedback.

A few years ago I told my wife that I used to masturbate with my older sisters lingerie when I younger.
It did not go down very well. She said that it would make me feminine and that I was the male, she was the female and that's the way she wanted our relationship to be. I dont think she got that I want to remain the male in the relationship but only a male who is very turned on when he is wearing sexy ladies lingerie.

This was around the time I bought vintage lingerie online from the 1990's ( very frilly - satin - ivory - hi rise) very sexy panties that reminded me of the lingerie my older sister had back then.
I gave her the lingerie hoping for two things.
A) she would wear them for me (so I could finally see how they looked like on a real woman and not just me!)
B) She would suggest I wear them for her and we could have sex at the same time.

None of the above happened I'm afraid. I would love so much to be able to wear them while having wonderful sex with her.

In fact she does not even keep the 90's lingerie with the rest of her underwear. I found them hidden in the bedroom and secretly I enjoy them when she is out. Wearing them brings me back to the excitement of my older sisters bedroom in the 1990's.

I think she associates the lingerie with my sister and that's a big turn off for her. Understandable.

Does anyone see how I can turn things around so I can enjoy wearing sexy lingerie and have sex with my wife at the same time?

Thanks again.
 
totallytaboo22 said:
Thanks for all the feedback.

A few years ago I told my wife that I used to masturbate with my older sisters lingerie when I younger.
It did not go down very well. She said that it would make me feminine and that I was the male, she was the female and that's the way she wanted our relationship to be. I dont think she got that I want to remain the male in the relationship but only a male who is very turned on when he is wearing sexy ladies lingerie.

This was around the time I bought vintage lingerie online from the 1990's ( very frilly - satin - ivory - hi rise) very sexy panties that reminded me of the lingerie my older sister had back then.
I gave her the lingerie hoping for two things.
A) she would wear them for me (so I could finally see how they looked like on a real woman and not just me!)
B) She would suggest I wear them for her and we could have sex at the same time.

None of the above happened I'm afraid. I would love so much to be able to wear them while having wonderful sex with her.

In fact she does not even keep the 90's lingerie with the rest of her underwear. I found them hidden in the bedroom and secretly I enjoy them when she is out. Wearing them brings me back to the excitement of my older sisters bedroom in the 1990's.

I think she associates the lingerie with my sister and that's a big turn off for her. Understandable.

Does anyone see how I can turn things around so I can enjoy wearing sexy lingerie and have sex with my wife at the same time?

Thanks again.
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totallytaboo22 said:
Hi All,

Can you help me. Am I a Cross Dresser? I just think I have a lingerie fetish.
Yesterday in a chat room here I told a female user that I like to masturbate while wearing lingerie. She told me straight out that I was a CD! I have never identified as that and I am not into men at all.
When I was growing up I preferred lingerie catalogs as opposed to hard core porn mags.
I had one sister 5 years older than me growing up and when she started working after university coming home at weekends I first noticed her (very) sexy lingerie in her weekend bag. For many years I enjoyed the immense sexual pleasure I got from trying on her lingerie when ever the house was empty. I enjoyed the look and feel and the mental picture I painted in my minds eye on how her sexy lingerie would look like on sexy females I knew (and even my sister sometimes). I did this for many years with my sisters lingerie as well as females I shared with during University and early working life. It was all every exciting and naughty (some may say highly inappropriate!) however all very pleasurable!
Down the years all the women mentioned above as well as past girlfriends, my wife and very recently my wife's (sexier, younger) sister's lingerie have all given me immense pleasure all unknown to them!
My lingerie fetish however does not involve me wearing ladies underwear outside of masturbation. I don't wear lingerie outside of the house. I never want to feel like a woman or have any other cross dressing tendency's. It is always about making masturbation more pleasurable. I love lingerie from the 1990's and I have some nice examples today that remind me of my early days in my sisters bedroom many years ago.

So, where do I fit? Am I crossdresser and should I be happy about that or just a straight guy with a lingerie fetish to the extreme!

Thanks for reading!

T
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I am similar. I believe it is called transvestic fetishism. Very common (and very enjoyable).
 
totallytaboo22 said:
Hi All,

Can you help me. Am I a Cross Dresser? I just think I have a lingerie fetish.
Yesterday in a chat room here I told a female user that I like to masturbate while wearing lingerie. She told me straight out that I was a CD! I have never identified as that and I am not into men at all.
When I was growing up I preferred lingerie catalogs as opposed to hard core porn mags.
I had one sister 5 years older than me growing up and when she started working after university coming home at weekends I first noticed her (very) sexy lingerie in her weekend bag. For many years I enjoyed the immense sexual pleasure I got from trying on her lingerie when ever the house was empty. I enjoyed the look and feel and the mental picture I painted in my minds eye on how her sexy lingerie would look like on sexy females I knew (and even my sister sometimes). I did this for many years with my sisters lingerie as well as females I shared with during University and early working life. It was all every exciting and naughty (some may say highly inappropriate!) however all very pleasurable!
Down the years all the women mentioned above as well as past girlfriends, my wife and very recently my wife's (sexier, younger) sister's lingerie have all given me immense pleasure all unknown to them!
My lingerie fetish however does not involve me wearing ladies underwear outside of masturbation. I don't wear lingerie outside of the house. I never want to feel like a woman or have any other cross dressing tendency's. It is always about making masturbation more pleasurable. I love lingerie from the 1990's and I have some nice examples today that remind me of my early days in my sisters bedroom many years ago.

So, where do I fit? Am I crossdresser and should I be happy about that or just a straight guy with a lingerie fetish to the extreme!

Thanks for reading!

T
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This is very similar to me, with a couple of exceptions. Don't worry about putting a label on it. just enjoy.
 
I'd say lingerie fetish more so than a CD. While you may be cross-dressing, you sound like you're only doing it for sexual gratification more so than as an expression of yourself as a woman. I crossdress, not for sexual gratification, but to express and acknowledge my feminine identity. My primary sexual inclination is to women - I am only at the far fringes of being bi-curious.
 
millieteases said:
I'd say lingerie fetish more so than a CD. While you may be cross-dressing, you sound like you're only doing it for sexual gratification more so than as an expression of yourself as a woman. I crossdress, not for sexual gratification, but to express and acknowledge my feminine identity. My primary sexual inclination is to women - I am only at the far fringes of being bi-curious.
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Hi Millieteases..
Yes its Sexual gratification 100%
Sometimes I put on matching bra and once I put on my wife's sexy tennis skirt over her knickers and that whole combination felt very nice for about half an hour.. as soon as I masturbated I immediately wanted to take all her clothes off.
That seems to be the way it is for me..
 
This thread is awesome. I have questions about this for a lot of years. I started with wife's panties, then bought my own, along with nighties and nylons. Loved the feel and how it made me feel sexy. Started shaving my body hair. Made wearing those silky things so much better. Watched shemale porn; a lot of it. Met with a couple cross dressers and one transgender. Still like sex with women, but love sex with someone dressed up. I really haven't questioned why I feel the way I do, I know that there are others out there that feel the same. Would love to spend more time with those folks.
 

totallytaboo22 said:
Hi Millieteases..
Yes its Sexual gratification 100%
Sometimes I put on matching bra and once I put on my wife's sexy tennis skirt over her knickers and that whole combination felt very nice for about half an hour.. as soon as I masturbated I immediately wanted to take all her clothes off.
That seems to be the way it is for me..
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You remind me a bit of me when I was more in the closet, though I've always had CD propensities too.

I've always loved lingerie, especially teddies and bodysuits but also one-piece swimsuits and leotards. It's indescribable how I've always been attracted to them. When I was little I was in theater and dance and was often dressed as a girl. As I got a little older my dad put a stop to my cross-dressing, but whenever I could I would put them on, often with a skirt and just hang out. When I got older (after I turned eighteen, of course ;) ) I started getting turned on and would eventually get myself off in them. Usually after an orgasm I would quickly clean up and change back to "normal," often with a feeling of "why the fuck did I just do that?"

It was a high school cheerleader girlfriend who first dressed me in her uniform for a school event that made me realize that I was a true CD and not just a fetishist. I'm definitely both. I now identify as gender-fluid and feel most comfortable presenting somewhat androgenyously.
 
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If you only wear the lingerie to masturbate, and only in private, I'd say you are about 5% CD, but no more. A full-on CD would wear all women's clothing and wear them in public, with or without the intent to be perceived as a woman. But I agree with everyone else that labels really aren't all that important. Do what makes you happy.
 
Mmmmmm. Love those freckles and red hair I bet you look so hot in a thong
 
You just keep getting better and hotter. I want to taste you.
 
anajophl said:
I am similar to you. I have always had a desire to wear women's underwear since I was probably about five years old. Eventually I considered myself to be a transvestite or a crossdresser. I didn't want to be a woman and I don't have any female tendencies other than their underwear. I loved panties, garter belts with hose and bras to the extreme. I also loved wearing lingerie of any of the women that were in my life at the time. Including my mom's sister's, cousin's sister-in-laws and step daughters along with both of my wives. I would collect clothing and have a masturbation session and then I would purge. I couldn't shake the urge. As the internet came in to play I went to crossdresser sites and found that most of them dealt with men that want to be women, so I thought like you, that I just have an underwear fetish. I have no desire for fingernail polish, makeup or shoes. Very seldom when I was growing up would I ever even try on a dress. It never felt comfortable as comfortable like I do with panties and bras. I don't enjoy transsexual or shemale porn but I do like to watch men dressed as women having sex with women.
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Yes, early interest and fantasies as well. Have worn and borrowed clothing from sisters, mom, grandmother, mother-in-law, sisters in law, grandmother in law, sister-in-laws mother act.....it is just a fetish, though I have come to recognize that my life might be a bit better if I recognized the more gentle part of my being.
 
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