eroticspank
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Interesting discussion.
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To answer the original question, if you like to dress in women's clothes I think you could be considered a Crossdresser.
I agree and I am not a fan of labels either.Correction:
'if you like to dress in women's clothes... you ARE a Crossdresser.'
That being said, I'm not a fan of any kind of labeling, so consider yourself whatever you'd like. I just believe that if a guy finds pleasure in wearing women's clothes, there's no questioning where that lands if labels are going to be applied.
It's really simple, when men dress in women's clothes, they are cross dressers, when they get naked, they are not cross dresses.....
I think the "labels" help describe what an person is interested in when they get together. Instead of going into detail about what women's clothing you wear and why you could describe yourself as a cross dresser. If you were taking hormones and dressing then you might describe yourself as transgender. Me? I like to wear woman's panties, nylons and lingerie. Gets me very horny. I am not passable and have no desire to wear makeup, a wig or a blouse and skirt. I tend to look for partners with similar interests. "Labels" help in that search.But what about if it’s just a costume?
What if it’s a woman wearing pants?
What if it’s a man in a skirt?
What if the skirt is really a kilt?
What if it’s a woman’s kilt?
What’s the actual difference between a woman’s kilt and a men’s kilt?
What if…?
Besides a bra designed to hold breasts, what article of clothing is intrinsically and historically only for females?
Are all women who wear pants cross dressers? It used to be illegal for them to do so in many places even in the US.
Is ‘style’ intrinsically connected to gender, or is it just tradition and culture? How and why should it be rigidly enforced?
Why?
How?
Why? Why? Why?….
I would agree as a starting point. I have found out that the term Crossdresser can refer to different levels of crossdressing as I have found out on this thread. You could mention it as an interest or fetish but you may want to mention more--as you did above--passable or not, if you are into men, women, or both, do you like to dress up fully and go out on the town? EtcI think the "labels" help describe what an person is interested in when they get together. Instead of going into detail about what women's clothing you wear and why you could describe yourself as a cross dresser. If you were taking hormones and dressing then you might describe yourself as transgender. Me? I like to wear woman's panties, nylons and lingerie. Gets me very horny. I am not passable and have no desire to wear makeup, a wig or a blouse and skirt. I tend to look for partners with similar interests. "Labels" help in that search.