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Very well written. A person of experience. Thank you.Why do we keep trying to convince ourselves it doesn't matter? I realize I may be considered naive or impertinent, since this is a thread for over 60 and I'm 46, and maybe I haven't gone through experiences common to an older demographic, but I have experienced my body changing due to age, and being seen differently than I used to be because of an older age, so here's my opinion, for what it's worth.
Of course age matters, the question is HOW (not why) does it matter? Unfortunately, we live in a society that allows the minority in "Hollywood" to dictate our social norms. The standard is set by an industry that makes its money on appearances and entertainment. I'm not going to make this a diatribe about the media, in all it's many forms, and I don't think it's the only problem, but it obviously has a big influence on how we see age.
In my opinion, age matters because of experience. I realize this is a generalization and that there are always exceptions, so keeping that in mind, a 65 year old man might not have the energy and stamina of a 25 year old man, but he has what it will take to keep me interested for a much longer period of time. He has life experience and knowledge that, no matter how much reading and formal education a younger man has, can never compensate.
I feel the same way about women. Older people tend to have figured out what's really important in life, and it's rarely all the "stuff" we need to accumulate when we're younger to make us feel successful. Age should strengthen our ability and capacity to love and forgive. That matters immeasurably.
I admit, it sucks to lose physical abilities that our bodies have when we're younger. I already feel a cognitive decline. The hard truth is that people who are 80, 60, 40, and 20 are different, and we SHOULD be. Our roles change, but that's not a bad thing! I think it's sad when I hear/see someone way, "I'm 62, but still look and act like I'm 30." Of course we're all still the same inside, that's the wonderful thing about it! We know how it feels to be 30, but we also know how it feels to be 70! How great is that?! That's 45 years worth of knowledge and experience and if we're wise, we appreciate what those years, no matter how good or bad, have brought us.
This has become so long and boring that only those who are over 60 and retired are going to have the time to read it, so hooray!, another reason to love getting older.
One last thing....if the issue is sexuality...well that's exactly why I prefer older men. Older men generally understand about sensuality as well as sexuality. Our bodies change, our skin sags and our ability to orgasm or ejaculate changes. It changes...that's it...it's only good or bad in how we choose to see it. I see it as different and I LOVE learning and experiencing the differences to my senses. The very best sex I've had so far was with a man who is over 60. He rarely had a full, rock hard erection, but that didn't bother me at all. He made me orgasm over and over and over and over again. He filled my senses and made me want things I never knew were inside me. I can't speak to how he felt about it, but from the woman's standpoint, it was beyond amazing.
So, OkieCowboy, don't look to me to tell you that age doesn't matter, but I would love to further discuss, with you, how it DOES.
Side note: This is not an advertisement or invitation for all you delicious men to contact me. I'm a terrible correspondent, and already have an overflowing plate, so please understand that if you send a PM, it's unlikely that you'll get a reply. It will have nothing to do with how intriguing I do or don't find you, it has everything to do with my own inadequacies.
Hi ya tweetygal... yep, it's nice to see this thread pulled out of the dark. Let's keep it alive... by the way, I am still interested in exchanging a few words of lust with ya in a pm... you up for it? PM me or I'll PM you...Ooooooh here's the thread I was telling you about Firstclassmale..... thanks for bumping it back up mdbigdee......
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Hey there
how about anyone over 60 years old that still has that "itch" checking in on this thread. Tell gender, age , approx. location & maybe a line or 2 about yourself.
Me, 60 year old married male from Iowa. Turned 60 last year sitting in a hottub in Florida. Turning 61 next weekend in Las Vegas. Wish me luck, at the tables & in the hottub!
I'd better get this done before my next birthday when another decade clicks on. Like everyone else here my mind still contemplates the joys of sex. I still make time to visit Literotica and am always on the lookout for some dalliance... in Australia. Memories remain vivid; contacts are fewer but not completely absent. The next decade begins with an 8. Not ready to give up.
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Pandora you sound heavenly!
66 years young from the Uk here!
Ohhh, and you're from Scotland, too. I you Scots!! I am dying to travel to Scotland one day. I've been to England twice (London) but never made it to Scotland. Looks tremendously beautiful with lovely people. Someday!
I have to admit Tweetygal, that I am ready for some cooler weather as well. If you are close by to Lake Como in Pasco county, they are having a nude car show in OCT. I plan on being there!