Anyone have the urge to receive but not give?

I admit to being solely a receiver , I am str8 but have been trying to find a bate bud. That in it self isn't easy. I have found that most all that I have talked to want so much more as in full on gay play. I just have no desire at all for men but enjoy watching porn, talking getting naked and strok'n watching each other. I wish I could find someone that doesn't want a return I would gladly let him suck all he wants but around here it just don't happen:(. It ain't easy believe me.

Where is around here Cosmic?
 
I admit to being solely a receiver , I am str8 but have been trying to find a bate bud. That in it self isn't easy. I have found that most all that I have talked to want so much more as in full on gay play. I just have no desire at all for men but enjoy watching porn, talking getting naked and strok'n watching each other. I wish I could find someone that doesn't want a return I would gladly let him suck all he wants but around here it just don't happen:(. It ain't easy believe me.

It is a familiar lament. Those who just want to suck cock and swallow, can't find a good guy who just wants his cock sucked. I had such an arrangement for three years but it came to an end recently when I sold my winter home. I miss my buddy more than the winter home. By the way, I was the giver and loved every second of it.
 
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this thread might be more fun if there were some positive stories... seems the opportunities are not liming up
 
I sooo agree with you. Being married myself, if I could find someone needy I would be thrilled for his company and make every attempt to take care of him when he needed it. A secret partnership.

Geez... Where have you guys been all my life? 45 str8 in LTR in Western MA... I'd love to find someone that knows how to suck a cock and isn't looking for reciprocation.
 
In experimenting with other men, I have found that, although I love getting head form women (and transwomen), I just don't enjoy it form men - but I do love cock in my mouth, being shoved into my throat, or in my ass (even though it does get painfull there).

I've had a couple of ongoing FWB things with married men - one who I saw and sucked off once a week for about a year, another who would meet me for BJs and to fuck my ass a few times a week for a few months before he moved.

These were, sexually speaking, very rewarding, and I came many times after each visit - and often during (particularly when being fucked bareback).

One of the nice things about these guys is that we knew each other long enough to feel comfortable going without condoms, and they elarned the things that really get me off - having my head pushed down on a cock as my man thrusts up into my mouth, pushing the head of his cock into my throat, and the second guy would come two, or even three times - starting by feeding me a load, then having me suck him hard again so he could push me down onto my knees and fuck my ass form behind, calling me a slut and whore as he drilled my ass until he shot his hot load into me... usually causing me to cum inside the panties he liked me to wear.
 
One of the nice things about these guys is that we knew each other long enough to feel comfortable going without condoms, and they elarned the things that really get me off - having my head pushed down on a cock as my man thrusts up into my mouth, pushing the head of his cock into my throat, and the second guy would come two, or even three times - starting by feeding me a load, then having me suck him hard again so he could push me down onto my knees and fuck my ass form behind, calling me a slut and whore as he drilled my ass until he shot his hot load into me... usually causing me to cum inside the panties he liked me to wear.

Sounds like heaven to me
 
I'm one that fantasizes about sucking and getting fucked. I prefer not to be sucked, but that may or may not change in the future. Right now I just wish I could find someone who would be willing to help me fulfill my fantasies...
 
I'm one that fantasizes about sucking and getting fucked. I prefer not to be sucked, but that may or may not change in the future. Right now I just wish I could find someone who would be willing to help me fulfill my fantasies...

Place an add on the personals thread. I am sure there will be many willing guys with hard dicks for your wet mouth.
 
I'm definitely more of a giver than receiver. I've only been with women and I love eating pussy I feel the need to don't everytime wife and I get intimate (which isn't often) but then would like to have sex after she cums from my tongue. I'm also bi-curious but would suck a cock and not need to be sucked, I could jerk off after and be Happy. Although I think a 69 would be fun one day
 
luv to be giving this to a receiver

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Just say yes

Saying yes to the offer of a blow is good starting point to enter the world of bi-sexually men .

There plenty of oral bottoms who just want to suck.

After seeing how fun they are having you just might be the guy in your knees with a cock in your mouth.
 
Well

The older I have got the more curious I have become. Think now though that any fantazy I have will go unfulfilled........still much prefer the fabulous females.......but just once.......or maybe twice lol
 
Saying yes to the offer of a blow is good starting point to enter the world of bi-sexually men .

There plenty of oral bottoms who just want to suck.

After seeing how fun they are having you just might be the guy in your knees with a cock in your mouth.

Fantasize about being sucked off.
 
Let me preface my post by saying I've never done anything sexual with another guy in real life. With that said, I've been thinking (or more accurately fantasizing) about a getting blown by a guy. However, I have no desire to reciprocate. I know that sounds selfish but I'm just not there yet, nor do I think I'll ever be. As anyone felt the same way ? Does this pretty much foreclose on the possibility of getting a blow job if I don't want to give one ?
I'm the opposite. I'll suck cock after cock without getting blown. I like it that way.
 
I would not say "no", but I'd also be willing to get on my knees and give a deserving guy a good time. I'm a virgin, but I'd consider receiving anal from him if that's he wants as well.
 
I've been looking to explore with another guy and have tracked a number of personal ads in my area. Always alot of ads where one wants to give oral but doesn't want anything in return except maybe to get fucked. A true bottom then. If I was the top I'd still want to suck the bottom and get fucked myself so I guess I could be a top or bottom. I don't know that only getting my cock sucked and fucking someone would be enough for me in the moment. Same with a blow and go where I'm getting oral and not giving. Yet most ads I've found lean either you're a full bottom or a full top and not a variation of either; this or you suck or get sucked but not both. For someone with no experience it's hard to find others who want to play both giver and receiver. I may need to choose to only bottom for one hookup then top in a different hookup to experience both. Sound familiar?
 
I've been looking to explore with another guy and have tracked a number of personal ads in my area. Always alot of ads where one wants to give oral but doesn't want anything in return except maybe to get fucked. A true bottom then. If I was the top I'd still want to suck the bottom and get fucked myself so I guess I could be a top or bottom. I don't know that only getting my cock sucked and fucking someone would be enough for me in the moment. Same with a blow and go where I'm getting oral and not giving. Yet most ads I've found lean either you're a full bottom or a full top and not a variation of either; this or you suck or get sucked but not both. For someone with no experience it's hard to find others who want to play both giver and receiver. I may need to choose to only bottom for one hookup then top in a different hookup to experience both. Sound familiar?

Hang in there. If you want a buddy who wants to give and receive, just persevere. He is out there looking for you, just as feverishly as you are looking for him.
 
I've been looking to explore with another guy and have tracked a number of personal ads in my area. Always alot of ads where one wants to give oral but doesn't want anything in return except maybe to get fucked. A true bottom then. If I was the top I'd still want to suck the bottom and get fucked myself so I guess I could be a top or bottom. I don't know that only getting my cock sucked and fucking someone would be enough for me in the moment. Same with a blow and go where I'm getting oral and not giving. Yet most ads I've found lean either you're a full bottom or a full top and not a variation of either; this or you suck or get sucked but not both. For someone with no experience it's hard to find others who want to play both giver and receiver. I may need to choose to only bottom for one hookup then top in a different hookup to experience both. Sound familiar?

I am flexible too. I would love to suck a cock and get fucked but realize the other guy might want a cock in his mouth and a hard cock sliding into his ass so I would be completely flexible:)
 
I've been looking to explore with another guy and have tracked a number of personal ads in my area. Always alot of ads where one wants to give oral but doesn't want anything in return except maybe to get fucked. A true bottom then. If I was the top I'd still want to suck the bottom and get fucked myself so I guess I could be a top or bottom. I don't know that only getting my cock sucked and fucking someone would be enough for me in the moment. Same with a blow and go where I'm getting oral and not giving. Yet most ads I've found lean either you're a full bottom or a full top and not a variation of either; this or you suck or get sucked but not both. For someone with no experience it's hard to find others who want to play both giver and receiver. I may need to choose to only bottom for one hookup then top in a different hookup to experience both. Sound familiar?

That is not an uncommon fantasy.

There are lots of guys who would relish the opportunity to serve you as a personal cum recipient. You could post in the personals if you want.

My advice to you is treat him well, buy him a beer, it helps to have a modicum of connection if more is going to happen.
 
I usually prefer to give but occasionally I enjoy sitting back and letting another guy work his magic mouth!
 
Thx for the candid feedback. I'm not getting any younger and honestly wish I started exploring long ago. That's on me. I suspect my lack of experience at my age is now hurting me some. Yes, I need to be patient. That's getting harder the longer it takes to find a decent partner to share my first time with. I could have gone the gloryhole route at any point if I was really desperate to suck or get sucked but that just isn't me. At least I don't believe it's me. Maybe I'm just too picky or the guys I have corresponded with are too picky too. I'll keep my chin up. Probably easier for a cock to slide into my mouth when the time comes.
 
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