StrangeLife
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I think Snatch just covered everything perfectly. I pretty much agree with all of it.
Welcome to the board btw...
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Thanks for the welcome to AH. I'm not actually new though. I am --------------- or ------------- as some in AH call me. I created the SnatchALovingWife nom de plum a while ago for my LW stories. I was receiving too much abuse and too many holy wars against my other stories. Now, my LW detractors can rage impotently into an account I never read.I think Snatch just covered everything perfectly. I pretty much agree with all of it.
Welcome to the board btw...
He did have his moments!Heinlein was always slipping stuff like that into his novels...
Evolutionary psychology is a pseudo-science; a failure to truly investigate too deeply for fear of disrupting the narrative -- what we call "Just So" stories. It picks up some social phenomenon and tries to justify it-- which is not in any way the same as actual examination. "It was ever thus" is the cry of evopsych aficionados and to them I say-- You gotta prove that claim, big feller.I think Snatch just covered everything perfectly. I pretty much agree with all of it.
Welcome to the board btw...
Evolutionary psychology is a pseudo-science; a failure to truly investigate too deeply for fear of disrupting the narrative -- what we call "Just So" stories. It picks up some social phenomenon and tries to justify it-- which is not in any way the same as actual examination. "It was ever thus" is the cry of evopsych aficionados and to them I say-- You gotta prove that claim, big feller.
Psychology is by it's nature not an exact science. You can't make any definite conclusions regarding a persons psyche by examining the brain - you can't even prove the existence of a consciousness in there. Thus arguing from behavioural observations and logical inference is perfectly in line with recognized principles of psychological research.
But OMG, he WANTS it to be true! because it explains EVERYTHING!
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Bramblethorn said:Psychologists do stuff like that a lot. Any one trial is a random event - I'm not saying relatives will always cooperate, or strangers will always screw one another over. But run enough trials with a good design, and if there's anything to see, the laws of large numbers will reveal it. There's a reason why psych and stats are closely associated fields.
But evo-psych, by and large, looks at stuff we already know and offers an after-the-fact explanation for why it might be so. Often it's a plausible explanation, I'm sure some of them are true - but in general, it doesn't make testable predictions.
It could be that the human penis evolved the way it did because it's effective at displacing rivals' semen. But it's not too hard to come up with other explanations for why it might be advantageous that way... and some things just are. I'm yet to hear an evo-psych explanation for why homosexuality is so widespread in nature.
He did have his moments!
Evolutionary psychology is a pseudo-science; a failure to truly investigate too deeply for fear of disrupting the narrative -- what we call "Just So" stories. It picks up some social phenomenon and tries to justify it-- which is not in any way the same as actual examination. "It was ever thus" is the cry of evopsych aficionados and to them I say-- You gotta prove that claim, big feller.
Clearly I'm struggling with this topic...lots of starts and three "books" but self doubt sets in....
Im left with the question...how does a man share his wife?
The whole male matcho crap....thing
How about two guys who respect and like each other-- share a deep and fulfilling friendship with each other-- and also respect and like their wife and enjoy a deep sexual friendship with her.
I am a nerd. I also write erotica. Sometimes, my favorite subjects converge.
Im curious about ménage vs cuckold. In the mfm erotica does the married man become a a cuckold? Can a story, not, enter the world of cuckolding?
Or does a mfm need to be three new people that enter a new relationship at the same time?
But on a general note you can't simply dismiss psychology as a component of the evolutionary process, unless you consider all aspects of our personality to be acquired and discount inherited behavior of any kind. If you chose to go down that road, taming a tiger should be no harder than taming a dog - as long as you keep it away from the treacherous whispers of other tigers.
A fairly competent dude once said "God doesn't play dice."
Things happen for a reason, simply because nature is extremely stingy when it comes to resources. What works is allowed to survive and the rest can go crawl under a rock somewhere and die.
This one adresses Bramblethor's specific statements about testing hypothesis using his exact example: "...the scientists set out to unravel the psychology of the fa'afafine, to see if their altruism is targeted specifically at kin rather than kids in general."
http://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2010/02/100204144551.htm
The definition of irony should include a posting on a site who's primary purpose for existence is the promotion of dirty stories having a posting in the Author's forums beginning with "Just how does a man choose to share his wife?" and proceeding through sexual evolution to Heisenberg and Einstein in less than 40 posts.
From what I can gather, Cuckold has a somewhat specific meaning (at least in terms of usage) here on Lit, and it generally means a man who's been supplanted sexually.
Cuckold historically referred to a husband with an adulterous wife and is still often used with this meaning. In evolutionary biology, the term cuckold is also applied to males who are unwittingly investing parental effort in offspring that are not genetically their own. Since the 1990s, the term has also been widely used to refer to a sexual fetish in which the fetishist is stimulated by their committed partner choosing to have sex with someone else.
I would distinguish between the UNWITTING CUCKOLD of the traditional definition, vs the fetishist WILLING CUCKOLD. These are different birds IMHO. My mother cuckolded my father by cheating. My uncle was NOT cuckolded when he gave his first wife leave to screw friends. (And no, he wasn't stimulated, just resigned to their incompatibility.)
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Swinging and open marriages are not cuckolding.