ravi64
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Oh I love Iggy Pop...
I do too
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Oh I love Iggy Pop...
Me too for some reason. Like they come from a different planet. Brain shortcut or something when I try to make connection.On the other hand, I don't feel comfortable around straight people, especially straight couples and especially-especially straight couples with the "curious" female types. Oh, God, FML.
Me too for some reason. Like they come from a different planet. Brain shortcut or something when I try to make connection.
And I can never understand what exactly is it that makes me so uncomfortable and awkward.
I think you're a unique and beautiful snowflake, Kuro. I mean that both with biting humour toward the phrase, and sincerely.
Aww
In unrelated news, I noticed my wife left the house wearing her binder this morning. Generally for her that means a swing away from femininity and toward masculinity, and all I could do was grin. Should be a fun couple of weeks
Oookay... so Rida, Catalina, BiBunny and myself identify in this gender-queer way.
On the other hand, I don't feel comfortable around straight people, especially straight couples and especially-especially straight couples with the "curious" female types. Oh, God, FML.
And I totally agree with you about the straight couples with the "curious female types..."
Me too for some reason. Like they come from a different planet. Brain shortcut or something when I try to make connection. And I can never understand what exactly is it that makes me so uncomfortable and awkward.
My initial thought is that if my sexuality is bent (arguably -- wasn't there a recent study that suggested virtually everyone is a little bit kinky?), but the public face of my relationship is, well, a straight, monogamous marriage, could I ever call myself queer?
I got a very stern talking down to by the principal of the studio as to why it's inappropriate for me to be a male lead. When she said "what if a boy wanted to dance as a girl", I looked at her with complete blank confusion and said "so?" Wrong answer apparantly.
How funny that you bring this up, because last week I was talking to my sister, who is a hella dancer-- rockabilly, Lindy, Swing, Zydeco-- about learning to lead.Wow, I've read all five pages and still not any closer to figuring out where I fit in.
But an example of my train of thought...
I do ballroom dancing as a passionate hobby. One monday night, the girls seriously outweighed the guys by a good three to one. I crossed the floor so I could be a boy for the night. Seriously didn't even stop to think about it or hesitate. I take the male side in the progressive dancing all the time. It feels just as normal and natural to me as dancing the female side. Anyway, I got a very stern talking down to by the principal of the studio as to why it's inappropriate for me to be a male lead. When she said "what if a boy wanted to dance as a girl", I looked at her with complete blank confusion and said "so?" Wrong answer apparantly.
See--
Luckily, most women have more than beauty. Frankly, I get a bit nauseous when I hear people talk about women in generic terms, as "beautiful works of art," as if we were created for visual pleasure alone.
We can do things. We are artists, musicians, engineers, wage-earners, caregivers, greedy, destructive, creative-- you name it, we do it. We are not "works of art" we are art workers.
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See-- I can enjoy either sex as something pretty to look at, but both women and men need more than beauty to be attractive to me. Especially women, because I think about women as potential partners and I am not interested in men sexually.
Luckily, most women have more than beauty. Frankly, I get a bit nauseous when I hear people talk about women in generic terms, as "beautiful works of art," as if we were created for visual pleasure alone.
We can do things. We are artists, musicians, engineers, wage-earners, caregivers, greedy, destructive, creative-- you name it, we do it. We are not "works of art" we are art workers.
It makes me angry when I hear people talking about an elderly, accomplished woman saying; "oh, but she was so pretty when she was young!" as if that was her sole contribution to the world.
You don't react to women's pheromones, then. I suspect that's what separates hets from bis from homos.
I do react to men's pheromones, that's why I still call myself bi...although I don't much care to act on it any more--
-helplessly drawn to female pheromones (dammit)- made me laugh.
I will spend more time in the section you referenced Stella, thank you for pointing it out.
I'm glad to know I am not alone, PBE.
It's not so much that it bothers me than it seems odd and I'm one of those people that want to understand EVERYTHING.
Otherwise, our situation is quite similar, including the dreams! I forgot to mention those.
And I'm glad to have a name for it now. -Ladyboner- I'm not sure when I'll get to use it in conversation but a worthwhile addition to my vocabulary just the same.
Thanks,
Annie
I do believe we have another sapiosexual in our midst. Welcome thrice welcome!-helplessly drawn to female pheromones (dammit)- made me laugh.
I will spend more time in the section you referenced Stella, thank you for pointing it out.
I'm glad to know I am not alone, PBE.
It's not so much that it bothers me than it seems odd and I'm one of those people that want to understand EVERYTHING.
Otherwise, our situation is quite similar, including the dreams! I forgot to mention those.
And I'm glad to have a name for it now. -Ladyboner- I'm not sure when I'll get to use it in conversation but a worthwhile addition to my vocabulary just the same.
Thanks,
Annie
I do believe we have another sapiosexual in our midst. Welcome thrice welcome!
Oh goody! I love new playmates.
sapiosexual? That's a new one.