shescurious11
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I've met a few submissive men and wonder what they really crave about their Domme. What qualities or rituals or things really do it for you?
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I've met a few submissive men and wonder what they really crave about their Domme. What qualities or rituals or things really do it for you?
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I've met a few submissive men and wonder what they really crave about their Domme. What qualities or rituals or things really do it for you?
xx
For her to be as evil as possible.
Well, I think that is a valid issue. D/s play, kink, and fetish in the bedroom is one thing, but when a relationship takes on a D/s dynamic in all other aspects of life- you become a 24/7 slave in the literal sense, it can be overwhelming for all but the most die-hard and devoted subs. There has to be that balance. And it goes back to the common saying that there is a difference between a "submissive" and a "slave."
My first attempt at a serious relationship with a dominant woman ended because of this issue. I loved being taken by her- whipped, abused, and made to grovel at her feet- it was the hottest thing I could imagine and I absolutely lusted after her. But she very quickly wanted to re-make all aspects of my entire life- to "mold me" in every facet of my existence, not only in the bedroom but in all aspects of life- and it just got too intense too quickly.
It comes down to a matter of relationship goals, I think. Even as a submissive, you still should not have to sacrifice your sense of self and your freedom to be who you are.
I believe it is all about finding pleasure in Her pleasure, being thrilled by thrilling Her and by being completely and utterly unselfish (within limits, but always willing to push boundaries to accommodate and celebrate Her needs).
I adore how you capitalized Her...
I've met a few submissive men and wonder what they really crave about their Domme. What qualities or rituals or things really do it for you?
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Dirty girls. I like dirty girls. Women who know what they want and ask for it, even demand it. They can take charge if they want to, or leave it up to me. But in the end, for me, its all about HER satisfaction. So tell me what you want, and I will give it to you.
That's a good point. I'll think about that.@Chudleigh, and the Cars1999,
Aside from your own BDSM fantasies/fetishes, what do you want, specifically, from the person who would fulfill these things for you? What personal attributes, characteristics, personality type, demeanor, etc (in addition to just looks) of the woman herself would make these fantasies of yours come to life more vividly?
I have many BDSM-related interests, fantasies, and such as well, but the major part of it for me is, it has to be the right kind of person "on top" and in control, to really make the experience fulfilling.