BBW's and Lovers…are you one?

climber11 said:

You both look amazing and for confession time (and maybe this is the wrong place) but it would be pure ecstacy to be shared but such amazing women. Pure ecstacy!

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climber11 said:

You both look amazing and for confession time (and maybe this is the wrong place) but it would be pure ecstacy to be shared but such amazing women. Pure ecstacy!

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Ironfistvk said:

For me its the way they feel in my arms, against me, very soft. Love the feeling of my arms filling up when I hug a woman. Hmmm will try to list as many as I can as to why but no matter what others might think or say its not a fetish for me, I dont go after bigger women just cause they have more to play with.

Having said that, overall bigger women have bubbly, infectious personalities which draws me to them like moth to a flame. They are also tend to be kind, sweet and have both an open heart and mind both in general as well as sexual aspects.

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blackhillsbbw said:

Thanks, very nice of you to express those things. I hear men say those things about bigger gals and I wonder if there is something that makes (bbw's) more that way? Or just is. I'm a 20 question kind of gal. hehe

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blackhillsbbw said:

My next question that ties in here is…

If you are a lover of big gals…

Simply put…do your buddies know this about you? Are you 'out of the closet' perse, and admit it to them that you love women of size? Or haven't you gone quite that far with letting them know you're desires?

Just curious...

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ATPCTCDT said:

MMM...I'll second that!!! I would die a happy man to be in a bed with you two!

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blackhillsbbw said:

My next question that ties in here is…

If you are a lover of big gals…

Simply put…do your buddies know this about you? Are you 'out of the closet' perse, and admit it to them that you love women of size? Or haven't you gone quite that far with letting them know you're desires?

Just curious...

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ace195008 said:

Full out in the open, dear

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Ironfistvk said:

Hmmm I cant say. Maybe its cause they are bbw's that they are that way? Then again could be my own prejudice too lol.



Yup friends do know and couple of them even say its my "fetish". If a guy is seeing someone why hide it? Well unless one of them is married.

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blackhillsbbw said:

Well yah…lol
I'm married, so it all has to be in the bedroom. Why do they call it a fetish? Is it, ya think a 'fetish'?

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ATPCTCDT said:

I'm absolutely PROUD to walk down the street with my amazing curvy lady.

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Ironfistvk said:

Cause people like to label things, other than that I cant say. As much as I love to be a mind reader unfortunately am not.

Personally no, its not a fetish.

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blackhillsbbw said:

<---like ding, ding, ding…you win a big ol hug from this bodacious tata girl for the right answer!! heheh
Good boy!!! That is terrific! Seriously. I don't think many are like that. Or am I wrong?

I do believe too that women have more of the hangups...

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blackhillsbbw said:

I once read a blog on Adult Friend Finder and she HATES being labeled a BBW. But I need it…i don't mind being labeled. I do not even go to threads usually where we're suppose to post butts, or whatever UNLESS they are labeled BBW. I feel I am being judged badly, if I do.

I want a man to know what they are getting and I want them to want me. I do not want a guy to just want in my panties, up my shirt; I really do want them to want me AND my size. Make sense?

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blackhillsbbw said:

I want a man to know what they are getting and I want them to want me. I do not want a guy to just want in my panties, up my shirt; I really do want them to want me AND my size. Make sense?

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ATPCTCDT said:

And hun...as I said early in your thread...I can appreciate woman of all shapes and sizes...the physical is only a part of attraction...it's the mind that is the sexiest part of us.

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blackhillsbbw said:

My next question that ties in here is…

If you are a lover of big gals…

Simply put…do your buddies know this about you? Are you 'out of the closet' perse, and admit it to them that you love women of size? Or haven't you gone quite that far with letting them know your desires?

Just curious...
(maybe size and color might set it apart as another question posed.)

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Ironfistvk said:

Yes its not just the physical aspect that makes someone attractive, unless its a teen with raging hormones.

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blackhillsbbw said:

Oh no! Those darn lovers!! Grrrrr

I live hon, with a man who I love dearly, but does not like big women. When we use to fight, he'd throw every fat word out there (what we do when we're angry). I've heard it all. Years ago it hurt me horribly. He use to think I had a problem too because I love sex and am insatiable. He never has, regardless of my size. But he told me that I've got a problem; 'something's wrong with me'. I believed him! The problems were always ME. Then one day, I woke up, and with the help of many online lovers of mine telling me the opposite, I SAID, Fuck this! I don't have the problem...you do! I've been healing ever since!! But it's a LING process considering growing up in a world similar to my marriage.

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tycho71 said:

Hiya Dani,
So, I don't think that it's an secret for any friends of mine that I do like women of size. I've dated a few over the years, so I've not kept it any secret. I've had a friend (a gal) tell me that I had good taste in ladies and had a 'type'. I was being dense and wasn't picking up on what she was saying until she finally said "You like curvy gals with big boobs...you have good taste". Then I just blushed and couldn't deny it.

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