How big is your cock and what affect has this had.

Thought this might be an interesting topic as you often hear that size is not important but invariably it is important to at at least one person.

To get things started my cock is, in my opinion, small. Measuring 5 1/2" in length and not very thick.

Ever since I can remember it has made me feel inadequate and dragged my confidence down - so much so that I have not had a sexual partner (of either sex) for almost 6 years (I'm 45). Not only does it affect my social life but the lack of confidence has a knock on affect to my professional life as I find it very difficult to manage others.

I don't want this thread to be all huggsie, I genuinely want to know whether or not size really is important, big or small.

oh honey , 5 1/2 inches is not small ,it is just a nice size ,mine is barely 3 inches and i am quite happy with it ,it defines me as the sissy i am and i could do plenty with your 5 1/2 inches honey.x
 
my profile pic..shows i'm a foot'long...hehe.. A member (no pun) told me that one day.

I'm just at 6.5, and the only complaint was from my Ex-wife. then again she was fucking a big Dicked cop on the side...
 
6 - 6 1/2 depending on the day and what stimulus I have had before measuring. Average thickness, I haven't measured it in a while so I don't remember exactly. I can't say it has had a real affect on me, I mean I have seen porn and felt inadequate, watched maledom and felt like a Greek god during sex. I have to say overall it just depends on what kink I am into at the time as to whether I feel like I have a small cock or not.
 
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50 year old gay guy here...

I'm also about 5 1/2 when hard. I'm not a big guy, 5' 8" around 160 lbs. I too have allowed my size to make me feel extremely self-conscious in sexual situations. My partner who is 14 yrs. younger than me is hung like a fucking horse. Somehow, both of my longest relationships have been with guys who were really big. Neither of them gave a crap about my size, but that didn't really make me feel better either. My partner and I have been together for 17 years and he loves to give me head (he is a jizz hound). Never once has he said anything about wishing I was bigger. There are times when I wish he was smaller though. On occasion I'd like to bottom for him, but like I said, I'm not a big guy and it feels like I'm getting ripped apart.

Don't let your perceived size keep you from a relationship. Sure, there are size queens out there. Fuck 'em. If you're a nice, genuine guy, there's a nice guy out there who will love you for you (and your dick)
 
Society sure knows how to mess up our perception of what's great. Your penis sizes all sound great to me. My go-to toy is a slender vibe, not a jacked up huge toy. I have one that's a bit larger than the rest and it just isn't comfortable for me. My hubby is a nice average size also. I've never measured, but I'd say he's probably at around 6". Even at that, if he goes too deep, it's painful for me, so please don't feel self-conscious of your penises. They're all great.

On a side note, an interesting trend I've noticed. Over in the fetish and sexuality board there's a bra size thread. It's interesting to note that the ladies who state having a large bra size are the ones who get the "boy I'd love to see those" comments. So men, please know it hits both genders. And for as many ladies that get breast enlargements because they feel inferior are even more women getting breast reductions because they feel self-conscious. On top of that is a new trend on getting plastic surgery on pussies to get them to look a certain way. We're fixing what ain't broken.

So love your penises men, they're made the way they're supposed to be! :)
 
Society sure knows how to mess up our perception of what's great. Your penis sizes all sound great to me. My go-to toy is a slender vibe, not a jacked up huge toy. I have one that's a bit larger than the rest and it just isn't comfortable for me. My hubby is a nice average size also. I've never measured, but I'd say he's probably at around 6". Even at that, if he goes too deep, it's painful for me, so please don't feel self-conscious of your penises. They're all great.

On a side note, an interesting trend I've noticed. Over in the fetish and sexuality board there's a bra size thread. It's interesting to note that the ladies who state having a large bra size are the ones who get the "boy I'd love to see those" comments. So men, please know it hits both genders. And for as many ladies that get breast enlargements because they feel inferior are even more women getting breast reductions because they feel self-conscious. On top of that is a new trend on getting plastic surgery on pussies to get them to look a certain way. We're fixing what ain't broken.

So love your penises men, they're made the way they're supposed to be! :)

i just want to second what simplegirl said. i've had both large and small. and everything in between. i personally love to give a man oral and i love them all. in my experience, men that are smaller tend to make up for it in other ways(as in oral), even if they dont have anything to make up for. so love what god has given you. and use it to the best of your ability. as long as you put your lover's needs before your own, your size wont matter.
 
On a side note, an interesting trend I've noticed. Over in the fetish and sexuality board there's a bra size thread. It's interesting to note that the ladies who state having a large bra size are the ones who get the "boy I'd love to see those" comments. So men, please know it hits both genders.

So love your penises men, they're made the way they're supposed to be! :)

Amen to that, simplegirl! It's always been the shape of a cock or breast that's turned me on, not the size. Not to mention the general attractiveness of the person it's attached to, and how that person feels about showing it off or using it.

And when that cock is cumming or that breast is lactating, size is the last thing on my mind.
 
6.5 and never had any complaints. My wife seems to think it's huge...lol, but I always tell her it's just average :D
 
Good Advice!

Society sure knows how to mess up our perception of what's great. Your penis sizes all sound great to me. My go-to toy is a slender vibe, not a jacked up huge toy. I have one that's a bit larger than the rest and it just isn't comfortable for me. My hubby is a nice average size also. I've never measured, but I'd say he's probably at around 6". Even at that, if he goes too deep, it's painful for me, so please don't feel self-conscious of your penises. They're all great.

On a side note, an interesting trend I've noticed. Over in the fetish and sexuality board there's a bra size thread. It's interesting to note that the ladies who state having a large bra size are the ones who get the "boy I'd love to see those" comments. So men, please know it hits both genders. And for as many ladies that get breast enlargements because they feel inferior are even more women getting breast reductions because they feel self-conscious. On top of that is a new trend on getting plastic surgery on pussies to get them to look a certain way. We're fixing what ain't broken.

So love your penises men, they're made the way they're supposed to be! :)

I love mine, it's all I have! lol
 
Average Length but rather thick

About 6.25 so average length but about 2.5 in diameter. I had no idea of size until drunkenly jerking off with some high school buddies. All one said was "Horsecock" when he saw me but he was fairly small I think. Women have never complained but I'm relatively inexperienced when it comes to numbers there.

The one guy I've been with was fairly thin and short compared to me but it was ideal for first time. There was a little pinch to getting entered but it wasn't bad until the lube started to dry out too much. If I do it again the ideal would be the same thickness and only a little longer for anal.


On how it has affected me, not much. If anything it would be my wife's refusal of anal but I wouldn't want to take my own cock up the ass and I certainly don't fault my wife for demurring either.
 
Size

I am about 5 inches. The only complaint I now have is that I have ED issues and the meds do not help. My wife gets her pleasure from her special friends. With both males and females no one complains about my oral skills.
 
I am just shy of 7 inches by 5.5 inches around. Uncut. I always wished I had a bigger cock when I was growing up. And no one ever complained or mentioned size. It was only when I was older (and with older women of course) that my cock was really mentioned. Still no complaints (I know, who'd say something???), and no awkward chuckles still. But, i started to get lots of 'nice cock', 'I love your cock', 'beautiful cock', and even got a couple 'biggest I have had.' I do kinda wish it was longer... just for visual sake.... but I think its the perfect thickness. Anal takes some time. :) But isn't that the idea?
 
When I was around 10, I saw my real dad 2 weeks a year. During that time, he reiterated how special I was. How I was gifted with the Taylor dick. At the time I laughed, but as I got older and older I started to believe it. I was married for 14 years and sex was always our strong suit. My dick is 7 inches, like a few here. My experience through life has been "it nice",
"its huge", "it goes to deep", great comments from great women. They were being nice, most of all. Its fun to hear other people. Thanks for sharing.
 
I'm in that average range and personally I could care less. There haven't been many times that I've been conscious about it. Anytime I've been getting to a point where it was coming out of my pants other things were on my mind. *lol*

I've learned over the years that, though there are several places we see "bigger is better" and "only with a hung guy" comments, every single woman is different in what feels good to them. I don't believe my wife was blowing smoke up my butt when she told me I was the perfect size and shape (she cums over and over) and that so-and-so that she's slept with who was 8" was just too much. Every woman's just built differently... what I've got may work really well for some, not for others... what Joe Teninch has may make women scream in pleasure or say "woah, too much for me." Whatever!

Besides, it's how you use it and how you perform on the whole... and how that meshes with your partner in bed.
 
I'm exactly six inches in length and about three and a half inches in girth. I have had no sexual experiences so far.
 
No one should be ashamed of their size. But I'm finding out as I get involved in BDSM communities that there are a lot of "size queens".

I'm just a bit shy of 8" and about 5.5" around. I feel tiny compared to some dudes you see on other sites. Its not all fun and games. Its hard to get to 100% full erection so I have a bow in the middle. And every once in a while I hit my wife's cervix which I'm told is not too pleasant for her.
 
I am a little over average at 9 inches in length and about 6.5 inches around. Flaccid, it's about 6 long and a little less thick. To say the least, no matter how great some think it can be to have something big, you get so many that think they'd be split in half if they were to do so. That's especially true for the boys. As bad as any feelings of inadequacy are, being too big is even worse. Still, it's great whenever I get someone in need of a big tool and some great fucking.
 
On a side note, an interesting trend I've noticed. Over in the fetish and sexuality board there's a bra size thread. It's interesting to note that the ladies who state having a large bra size are the ones who get the "boy I'd love to see those" comments. So men, please know it hits both genders.
You're quite right. At the same time, there are threads about small-breasted women that attract a lot of attention as well. The point is that a lot of people aren't satisfied with what they have, even if what they have satisfies a lot of people.
 
mine was 6 inches when hard and i was told more than once it was handsome, then i got peyronies (im 51) now i feel like a freak because its bent and deformed.My partners cool with it and has accepted it, bless her and we still manage to have a sex life but its not what it used to be.
 
the guy I am currently seeing is about 5.5-6 inches. He is the smallest guy I have been with and guess what, I don't care. I love his cock. I love fucking him and giving him head and I think he has a beautiful penis. So, to me. It does not really matter.
 
My cock is a tad over 8". It's cut with a very nice shape. The shaft is thick but in proportion to the head. It's straight with a slight downward curve. It's light pink in color, and is nice and smooth.

My cock has been the same size since puberty. As a result I beleve I became sexual very early. I've always got compliments on my size and how attractive it is. However, I've always felt inadequate just like you do. Women have stopped during sex to tell me not to go so deep, etc., but I still feel shy and nervous about my body.

Dude, there's no need to feel shy and awkward about your body, ANd as far as your cock goes--as you describe it, most guys on here, including myself would love that.
 
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