What would you consider a D/s relationship?
So in my opinion, after reading a lot of stories here on Lit, and also perusing around the personals and BDSM talk, what is most often portrayed as a D/s relationship is rather extreme. Are there many people here who actually live in this kind of relationship? What is it like for you? Obviously each relationship will be tailored specifically to the wants and needs of the individuals within. I just would love some perspective. If there is one thing I enjoy, it is understanding the complexities of this life. So help me??
In my mind, my ideal relationship would be built over the course of time. Mutual respect and honesty would be of utmost importance. Disrespect of either of the couple's ideals, or values would be a major failure. I don't think that I would want to be humiliated, (I don't know for sure either though) and I'm sure I couldn't humiliate a partner. Someone I trust and respect. All of that said, I would love for some of you to elaborate on what you think the ideal D/s relationship would be.
So in my opinion, after reading a lot of stories here on Lit, and also perusing around the personals and BDSM talk, what is most often portrayed as a D/s relationship is rather extreme. Are there many people here who actually live in this kind of relationship? What is it like for you? Obviously each relationship will be tailored specifically to the wants and needs of the individuals within. I just would love some perspective. If there is one thing I enjoy, it is understanding the complexities of this life. So help me??
In my mind, my ideal relationship would be built over the course of time. Mutual respect and honesty would be of utmost importance. Disrespect of either of the couple's ideals, or values would be a major failure. I don't think that I would want to be humiliated, (I don't know for sure either though) and I'm sure I couldn't humiliate a partner. Someone I trust and respect. All of that said, I would love for some of you to elaborate on what you think the ideal D/s relationship would be.
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