Stella_Omega
No Gentleman
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I've fucked at least 200 people because I wanted to know more about them, and fucking someone can tell me a lot. And because they turned me on.
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"self-contempt?" possibly, who knows. personally i don't understand why promiscuity continues to get such a bad rap...(defining promiscuity by sheer numbers and casualness, that is). it's not right for everyone, possibly not even natural for most (not that monogamy is either, but that's a different topic), but does that make it some sort of universal evil? does that make it inevitably psychologically damaging and physically self-destructive?? i just don't buy that.
There are different reasons why some people are promiscuous. When you're doing it for the wrong or misguided reasons, it can seriously damage a person's self esteem.
yes this is true, but that can be said of absolutely any and everything, including deciding to go through life having sex only with the person or people one loves.[/QUOTE
How do you define the difference between having sex with someone you love and someone you don't love - to me sometimes it's a fine line and other times a big difference in intensity...
There are different reasons why some people are promiscuous. When you're doing it for the wrong or misguided reasons, it can seriously damage a person's self esteem.
Don't you two go all 'Bloved' on us, now. We'll have to put you in separate rooms.yes this is true, but that can be said of absolutely any and everything, including deciding to go through life having sex only with the person or people one loves.
Not me.What the fuck is wrong with promiscuity?
I'm constantly surprised by how conservative and prudish this board is sometimes.
What the fuck is wrong with promiscuity?
I'm constantly surprised by how conservative and prudish this board is sometimes.
yes this is true, but that can be said of absolutely any and everything, including deciding to go through life having sex only with the person or people one loves.[/QUOTE
How do you define the difference between having sex with someone you love and someone you don't love - to me sometimes it's a fine line and other times a big difference in intensity...
honestly, for me the only difference between having sex with someone i love and sex with someone i do not, is that with the person i love i can be 100% myself, meaning i don't have to feign enthusiasm or arousal or anything else. i can just be.
otherwise, it's really all just sex. sex is very different with every man i've ever been with, but every person is different and the chemistry between us is always different. but none of those differences have to do with the "L" word being a factor or not.
yes this is true, but that can be said of absolutely any and everything, including deciding to go through life having sex only with the person or people one loves.
Which do you think has a higher body count for actual misery caused? I'll bet anything it's this as a mandatory expectation.
actually i wouldn't attempt to answer that with any authority, but in "real life" i haven't met too many miserable promiscuous people. but i have been faced with some real horror stories from people who were totally blindsided and devastated directly because they were sexually devoted to one person and one person only. like, the chick i met in college who got herpes from her boyfriend of 7 years...the only man she had ever had sex with. her misery was pretty intense, as on top of being betrayed, she felt certain no other man could ever possibly want her. obviously, he wasn't quite so devoted. but the fact is that many (perhaps most) sexual monogamy-minded folk believe condoms and such to be unnecessary as they waited until they fully trusted and loved that one special person. sluts like myself otoh are more likely to view condom use as a given, not to mention regular testing and just plain getting yourself checked out.
Does anyone know any miserable promiscuous men? Does anyone know any men who are called promiscuous? If we were encouraged to have the same sexual freedom as boys, it would be interesting to see if most women still had hangups about having different sexual partners.
Getting pregnant is a risk. Contracting STIs is also a risk. We could really mitigate those risks a lot as a society if we (a) taught women about their cycles and timing for conception and (b) got over our obsession with PIV sex.
whaaa??!!?! i was with you until that statement there....get over PIV sex?! never!! i cannot fathom a life without it, that is crazy talk woman!!
on a different note, your last paragraph makes me wonder if perhaps my low sex drive is partially related to my being on birth control for so long.
Have you considered a non-hormonal birth control? LOL osg, what if you got off the pill and became multi-orgasmic?
You know-- due to some odd circumstances, I had that kind of freedom, or at least, i perceived myself as having that kind of freedom, because I didn't give a fuck about what people thought of me. Nowadays, I do give a fuck, and-- i do perceive myself as having less freedom. But so do the men of my age too, I think.Does anyone know any miserable promiscuous men? Does anyone know any men who are called promiscuous? If we were encouraged to have the same sexual freedom as boys, it would be interesting to see if most women still had hangups about having different sexual partners.
Somewhere I remember reading that it might be pheromonal-- that a woman on the pill 'reads' pheromones quite differently than a woman off the pill...There was also a study recently about women on the pill and how they get married, go off the pill, and then their sex drive and desire change and they suddenly realize they're sexually incompatible with their partner. I'm not blaming my first marriage on the pill or anything, but it would have been nice if someone had filled me in on that info. I honestly thought that my sex drive wasn't affected, since I wanted sex 2x a week. Evidently you can want it more than that.
Ha ha, I'm a fan myself, but look, that's how you make babies. It's also one of the ways to spread diseases. If teenagers all did mutual masturbation instead of PIV sex, then they'd be a lot safer. I'm not saying they should never do it, but as a way to reduce risk, getting into other forms of sexual exploration is kind of an easy solution.
Have you considered a non-hormonal birth control? LOL osg, what if you got off the pill and became multi-orgasmic?