Your best or your worst PM or IM opening lines... and if you want your reactions ...

[RedHairedandFriendly]

SIGHS

Well ladies, all I can say is that I must lead a very sheltered life.

Right..

 

[wanderer2704]

Baby, your one of the few rude PM's I'd answer.. Purrrrrr

Perhaps I'll have to start sending rude PM's then....

 

[RedHairedandFriendly]

Perhaps I'll have to start sending rude PM's then....

Mmmmmm.....

 

[wanderer2704]

One of my favorites on the good side were 'You seem reasonable'. I liked that one... we chatted for a while.

Can't really remember some of the idiotic ones, I tend to just them slide right by.

That can't have been me Cate....I've never been that polite to you!

 

[Cathleen]

That can't have been me Cate....I've never been that polite to you!

That's not all true but mostly. lol

 

[RedHairedandFriendly]

You can either answer this PM and make a friend or make a mistake and lose a friend.

This was a nice Pm.. talked to the guy.. that was it.. but it was a nice Pm.

 

[iansearchof]

my only one is "BEND OVER" lol

Once tried "Bend over, and I'll drive you home" but we'd already been communicating. (As I recall her response was something like "You can drive me anywhere.")

Can't imagine sending the kinds of peems you get. Hell, I worry about offending and make a real effort not to tho it doesn't always result in responses.

 

[RedHairedandFriendly]

Red all over?







let's just say.. he didn't pm be back.. when I was done with him!

 

[RedHairedandFriendly]

Once tried "Bend over, and I'll drive you home" but we'd already been communicating. (As I recall her response was something like "You can drive me anywhere.")

Can't imagine sending the kinds of peems you get. Hell, I worry about offending and make a real effort not to tho it doesn't always result in responses.

Some people don't care if they are offensive or not, unfortantely it is the men that make the rude comments that really hurt it for the men that are honestly trying to just be friends and compliment a person...

 

[RedHairedandFriendly]

Absolutely hands down.. no competition to compare it too.... the best PM ever!!!

As I said this is a place to place the worst and the best PM's and/or IM's ever.... I do believe I got one this morning that tops any I have ever had before and I can't imagine anyone topping it...

I recieved an instant greeting from my IM server. Not just your typical hello... a very cool online greeting introducing themselves to me... very cool! I have to say that if all of you gentlemen came up with something like that... well.. too cool!

Soooo... to that gentleman that sent me the IM..

 

[iansearchof]

Aren't you supposed to share it?

 

[rikaaim]

One of the best PMs I ever got the title was something along the lines of

For only the second time.


I opened up the PM and saw the first line was:

This is only the second time I've PMed a man first.


I was so touched that I don't remember what I said back right away, but I know that since then it's lead to a very fulfilling new friendship.

 

[RedHairedandFriendly]

Aren't you supposed to share it?

Do you know that I wanted to send one back to the gentleman.. it was such a nice card, but the program wouldn't let me because I'm not a member of aol.. so frustrating.. grrrrrr.. I hate paying for services!!!! LOL... but I did send the nice gentleman a PM thanking him.

 

[RedHairedandFriendly]

One of the best PMs I ever got the title was something along the lines of

For only the second time.


I opened up the PM and saw the first line was:

This is only the second time I've PMed a man first.


I was so touched that I don't remember what I said back right away, but I know that since then it's lead to a very fulfilling new friendship.

PM's that lead to friendship are the best ones!

 

[xrobbie]

As I said this is a place to place the worst and the best PM's and/or IM's ever.... I do believe I got one this morning that tops any I have ever had before and I can't imagine anyone topping it...

I recieved an instant greeting from my IM server. Not just your typical hello... a very cool online greeting introducing themselves to me... very cool! I have to say that if all of you gentlemen came up with something like that... well.. too cool!

Soooo... to that gentleman that sent me the IM..

Glad you liked it and thanks for the praise. There is too many perverts here that ruin things and its us geniune blokes that suffer. I am glad you liked it and there is plenty more where that came from.

 

[RedHairedandFriendly]

Blushing..

Glad you liked it and thanks for the praise. There is too many perverts here that ruin things and its us geniune blokes that suffer. I am glad you liked it and there is plenty more where that came from.

Well I would recommend that introduction anytime and I would encourage guys to consider it also.. it was very unique and I bet if there is some woman you've been wanting to IM/PM... she'd respond. Nothing may come of it but a good friendship, but it sure would make her day.... as long as it is a pleasant hello not anything inappropriate... I think a woman would be silly to at least not acknowledge the gift in one way or another.

 

[xrobbie]

Well I would recommend that introduction anytime and I would encourage guys to consider it also.. it was very unique and I bet if there is some woman you've been wanting to IM/PM... she'd respond. Nothing may come of it but a good friendship, but it sure would make her day.... as long as it is a pleasant hello not anything inappropriate... I think a woman would be silly to at least not acknowledge the gift in one way or another.

Well I cannot speak for other guys but because I pm a woman it does not mean I want to bed her. When I pm someone its because I want to be friends with them and if they want more then fine but I pm because the person interests me.

 

[RedHairedandFriendly]

Well I cannot speak for other guys but because I pm a woman it does not mean I want to bed her. When I pm someone its because I want to be friends with them and if they want more then fine but I pm because the person interests me.

It is important to let people know that. Because that is what many men want, very few want a decent conversation. Or if they do want a decent conversation their paths have been littered with the rude PM's before them and it is hard to weed through garbage and be seen as a nice person. So cool approach all around.

 

[Guest]

Thanks girls (you know who you are)

You're welcome

 

[RedHairedandFriendly]

Ditto...

You're welcome

The same from me also..

 

[RedHairedandFriendly]

gonna get addicted...

If you keep sending them.. I'll get addicted..

 

[CURIOUS1026]

I had a guy PM me the other day........

The title was "I JUST CAME TO YOUR PICS" (in all caps) and then proceeded to show me which pic he liked most I never sent him a response.

Unfortunately, I have deleted most of the random PMs I have received, so I can't share some of the better pick up lines. I was for a while getting PMs from guys wanting me to watch them on cam (I had posted in a board about liking to watch men masturbate----I meant in person). Finally, I had to go back and post something to the fact that it was not an invitation to PM me about watching them.

 

[RedHairedandFriendly]

I had a guy PM me the other day........

The title was "I JUST CAME TO YOUR PICS" (in all caps) and then proceeded to show me which pic he liked most I never sent him a response.

Unfortunately, I have deleted most of the random PMs I have received, so I can't share some of the better pick up lines. I was for a while getting PMs from guys wanting me to watch them on cam (I had posted in a board about liking to watch men masturbate----I meant in person). Finally, I had to go back and post something to the fact that it was not an invitation to PM me about watching them.

I posted on that thread.. also.. ooops... lol

Same thing happened.. my pic was in my profile and was a head shot of myself...

 

[iansearchof]

Well I would recommend that introduction anytime and I would encourage guys to consider it also.. it was very unique and I bet if there is some woman you've been wanting to IM/PM... she'd respond. Nothing may come of it but a good friendship, but it sure would make her day.... as long as it is a pleasant hello not anything inappropriate... I think a woman would be silly to at least not acknowledge the gift in one way or another.

You still haven't said what "that introduction" was.

 

[RedHairedandFriendly]

You still haven't said what "that introduction" was.

It was the card.. a nice polite card. I said it was an online card.. are you looking for details like what was said in it....????

Nothing inappropriate at all. Just a nice hello.