Tallulah's OMD
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Tallulah82
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I know, right???! I don't care if you're being sarcastic.
He is so blasé or whatever about shit, it's frustrating at times to point these things out.
"Darling, no, no-one wants to eat your sex snacks. I have no idea what state your fingers were in when you were taking a biscuit out of the pack. NO! I don't want to know the details!!!! ARGH!!"
hotoldrguy
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It is time for you to have your weekend sex meet. Do you have someone in mind?I never have thoughts...
Well, he went and returned so that's all ok on that front.
We haven't talked about it (as per my preference). But he did exactly what I wanted which was to leave it at the door, and return to home/family life without a fuss.
There was one tiny little issue I had (stop rolling your eyes! I know I'm hard work!!!) and that was about food. Food? You say. Yes, food I say. He was staying in a hotel. He bought snacks. Some snacks were not finished so he brought them home.
I have a bit of a cringe attitude towards the sex snacks. He's put them in the cupboard to merge with all other snacks but I'm a bit... "ew, they're snacks you've eaten naked with someone". I haven't raised this issue (yet) as I'm trying to figure out if I can get over myself about it, or if I need to say that sex snacks are either eaten before home or thrown out before home.
This can also be resolved by him learning in time how many sex snacks he actually needs to buy and not overbuying.
But, keeping focused on the positive - he returned home and got on with family shit and did not strut or swagger or anything that would make me doubt his ability to juggle both in life. Phew!!!
Apisto42
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I wasn’t being sarcastic, though I totally understand why you might have thought that!I know, right???! I don't care if you're being sarcastic.
He is so blasé or whatever about shit, it's frustrating at times to point these things out.
"Darling, no, no-one wants to eat your sex snacks. I have no idea what state your fingers were in when you were taking a biscuit out of the pack. NO! I don't want to know the details!!!! ARGH!!"
And yeah, agree. Just no.
Tallulah82
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I have my first weekend away booked for the end of January with a Lit friend whom I've known for at least 3 years. We're both excited and nervous about it.
hotoldrguy
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Sounds like a great time to look forward toI have my first weekend away booked for the end of January with a Lit friend whom I've known for at least 3 years. We're both excited and nervous about it.
Tallulah82
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Sounds like a great time to look forward to
It will be. Regardless of what happens, we both know that we'll enjoy each other's company and it'll be wonderful to meet in person after all this time. So even if nothing really down and dirty happens, it'll make it easier the next time because we'll have broken the big stress of meeting.
At the very least, I get to hang out and explore some of his city with him. That sounds like a wonderful weekend anyway
bobb_sledd
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I'm glad for you both that it seems to be working out so far.I never have thoughts...
Well, he went and returned so that's all ok on that front.
We haven't talked about it (as per my preference). But he did exactly what I wanted which was to leave it at the door, and return to home/family life without a fuss.
There was one tiny little issue I had (stop rolling your eyes! I know I'm hard work!!!) and that was about food. Food? You say. Yes, food I say. He was staying in a hotel. He bought snacks. Some snacks were not finished so he brought them home.
I have a bit of a cringe attitude towards the sex snacks. He's put them in the cupboard to merge with all other snacks but I'm a bit... "ew, they're snacks you've eaten naked with someone". I haven't raised this issue (yet) as I'm trying to figure out if I can get over myself about it, or if I need to say that sex snacks are either eaten before home or thrown out before home.
This can also be resolved by him learning in time how many sex snacks he actually needs to buy and not overbuying.
But, keeping focused on the positive - he returned home and got on with family shit and did not strut or swagger or anything that would make me doubt his ability to juggle both in life. Phew!!!
On the snack front -- I think it's reasonable that he not bring his sex snacks into the joint-household. Just tell him where you stand on that.
dkak001
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Yeah, and if they smell "off", absolutely don't eat them!
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hotoldrguy
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Is bringing home sex snacks like bringing home her panties?I know, right???! I don't care if you're being sarcastic.
He is so blasé or whatever about shit, it's frustrating at times to point these things out.
"Darling, no, no-one wants to eat your sex snacks. I have no idea what state your fingers were in when you were taking a biscuit out of the pack. NO! I don't want to know the details!!!! ARGH!!"
MissRadiant
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I love the fact you are keeping the positive even if nothing happens attitude. Enjoy the wonderful weekend.It will be. Regardless of what happens, we both know that we'll enjoy each other's company and it'll be wonderful to meet in person after all this time. So even if nothing really down and dirty happens, it'll make it easier the next time because we'll have broken the big stress of meeting.
At the very least, I get to hang out and explore some of his city with him. That sounds like a wonderful weekend anyway
