Why do Women...???

[Baskin Robbins]

Feel that men that want it "Up the Ass" from a female are gay, and men that want to wear women's lingerie are gay, but women that wear boxers, briefs, suits or other "traditional" men's clothes are perfectly acceptable?

Is there a fear that men will "turn gay" b/c they indulge in kinky behavior?

My wife won't TOUCH my ass! I've tried to educate her about the benefits of prostate massage, and we've been together since we were fourteen!

What in the HELL is up with this DOUBLE STANDARD??!!!!

Ladies, Men....

I need some help here!!

Baskin

 

[Harrowborg]

I'm in a pretty enviable position that my gf encourages me to explore my kinky side. On wednesday she brought her strap on around and proceeded to fuck me up the ass after putting her stockings and suspenders on me. The first time it was just the strap on but also involving an element of dress up was just incredible. I don't think it makes me any more 'gay', having slept with a guy was nice but having my partner fuck me like that was just kinky .

In terms of double standards, I have to admit I don't think I would find it that arousing or appealing for my partner to wear my underwear. I have let her at times in an emergency when its 'that time' but in a sexual context, its probably having her dress me up that we enjoy the most.

 

[Chicklet]

That's a very general remark, and rather untrue. Women *don't* think that if a guy wants it up the ass, or wants to wear women's clothes, that he's gay.

YOURS does.

 

[redsox75]

That's a very general remark, and rather untrue. Women *don't* think that if a guy wants it up the ass, or wants to wear women's clothes, that he's gay.

YOURS does.

And what do you think personally? Would you date a Bi-Sexual guy or even a guy who wanted you to do him in anally or dress him up?

 

[PredatorSmile]

That's a very general remark, and rather untrue. Women *don't* think that if a guy wants it up the ass, or wants to wear women's clothes, that he's gay.

YOURS does.

Hmmm. I am very liberal when it comes to sexual habits and lifestyles but....although I crave using my strapon on my boyfriend's picture-perfect behind, I don't think I'd like it if he were to go all femmy on me. I like him just the way he is : arrogant, irreverent, tough, manly and sexy. And I love it that he takes charge in bed 99 percent of the damn time. Role reversal fantasies are fun, and when indulged once, or twice, they can still be fun. But at the end of the day, he's my man, and I'm his woman, and that's how I like it.
Will I admit it to him ? The day after never !!! But that's how I truly feel.

 

[Etoile]

That's a very general remark, and rather untrue. Women *don't* think that if a guy wants it up the ass, or wants to wear women's clothes, that he's gay.

YOURS does.

Agreed.

 

[popcorn2721]

That's a very general remark, and rather untrue. Women *don't* think that if a guy wants it up the ass, or wants to wear women's clothes, that he's gay.

YOURS does.

You hit the nail right on the head there... Some women have the idea that only "women" should be penetrated...too bad for them, the whole experiance is rather liberating sexually

 

[rip_1_4_u]

Feel that men that want it "Up the Ass" from a female are gay, and men that want to wear women's lingerie are gay, but women that wear boxers, briefs, suits or other "traditional" men's clothes are perfectly acceptable?

Is there a fear that men will "turn gay" b/c they indulge in kinky behavior?

My wife won't TOUCH my ass! I've tried to educate her about the benefits of prostate massage, and we've been together since we were fourteen!

What in the HELL is up with this DOUBLE STANDARD??!!!!

Baskin

Hmmm...since I have had relationships with both men and women I have to admit I like my woman or man in jeans...but don't care what they wear under it (whether they are naked, wearing frilly underwear, or boxers). If either one looks good in a dress or skirt, I'm also attracted to frilly women and I do love those guys with long hair and kilts (they often are naked under those kilts, too...yummy).

As far as taking in it the ass, I'd be open to doing it to or from either gender...

I don't think sexual activities have a lot to do with your sexual orientation...I think that's a simplistic point of view...it's easy to dismiss a sexual activity that you don't know a lot about or are uncomfortable with by implying that a sexual activity will make someone "womanly" or "manly". If that was true, than couldn't we say that a woman on top is being a bit "manly"? when instead it's a way a lot of women can have an orgasm during intercourse?

It's unfortunate that your wife isn't open to something sexual that you'd like to try...is there anything she'd like to try in or outside of bed that you'all could do?

 

[redfox1961]

Mu hubby likes it, and I don't mind doing it for him . . . and there's NO way he's gay
As for wearing lingerie, he'll only do it of we're foolingaround and he's had a few - he does it for me

 

[lastingpassion]

Some guys have truly married the "right lady"......
Enjoy the pleasure to those of you that have it!

 

[siren319]

That's a very general remark, and rather untrue. Women *don't* think that if a guy wants it up the ass, or wants to wear women's clothes, that he's gay.

YOURS does.

I have to agree here. My husband asked and he recieved. I don't assume that he is gay. Honestly I think most guys are curious about it but are afraid they will be met with that type of response.

From a female standpoint... I love doing it. Its a bit of a power trip. Men look so vulnerable this way, its rather fun.

 

[bi_asian_guy]

*****

 

[SEVERUSMAX]

Hmmm. I am very liberal when it comes to sexual habits and lifestyles but....although I crave using my strapon on my boyfriend's picture-perfect behind, I don't think I'd like it if he were to go all femmy on me. I like him just the way he is : arrogant, irreverent, tough, manly and sexy. And I love it that he takes charge in bed 99 percent of the damn time. Role reversal fantasies are fun, and when indulged once, or twice, they can still be fun. But at the end of the day, he's my man, and I'm his woman, and that's how I like it.
Will I admit it to him ? The day after never !!! But that's how I truly feel.

Another example of why I like you so much. You're awesome. Very open-minded, but still very much a woman.