Why do men ghost?

[iso36]

Okay

I laughed.

I am a very bad man.

Women usually post the best picture ever taken of them, which is usually from 10-15 years and 40 pounds ago.

 

[bbcbarry9033]

Excellent post this.

Indeed.

 

[saintcero]

I have been chatting with a guy for 10 weeks. He had a work injury and other surgery during that time.
He didn't want to meet in person until he was able to drive himself there.
So we kept chatting and learning about each other.
This week he his last test for discharge, so we scheduled for Thursday.
He was told results will be Nov 3.
Frustrated, he agreed to meet Thursday anyway.
And after that, nothing.
No location.
No change of plans.
And last night I saw he was on the message app and following another female user.

I guess he moved on, with no notice and no comments.

Is it so hard to tell someone you changed your mind or are no longer interested?
What is gained by dragging someone along?

I got ghosted by a gal.
Right after I sent a face photo.
Ouch!

 

[bbcbarry9033]

I got ghosted by a gal.
Right after I sent a face photo.
Ouch!

I mean, we can run laps and do crunches... but the face is what it is man. I hear ya!

 

[TallGlassOfSarcasm]

Spot on!

What can I say? I speak truth to power!

 

[Bigboobbabe]

I got ghosted by a gal.
Right after I sent a face photo.
Ouch!

Super ouch.

Maybe you looked like her ex. Or her least favorite teacher.

 

[saintcero]

Super ouch.

Maybe you looked like her ex. Or her least favorite teacher.

Thank you B3. I like your approach (singing, “I’m too sexy for my ghost, too sexy for my ghost…..”

 

[TallGlassOfSarcasm]

I got ghosted by a gal.
Right after I sent a face photo.
Ouch!

I sent a dick pic one time in my life. She even requested it. It was not unsolicited. I even asked her if she was sure. And she insisted.

I sent it.

Never heard from her again.

I mean I understand it must have been intimidating. Especially with the stack of hockey pucks in the shot for perspective.... but at least say "Sorry that is too much fantasy for me to imagine"

 

[ColinHarvey]

I have been chatting with a guy for 10 weeks. He had a work injury and other surgery during that time.
He didn't want to meet in person until he was able to drive himself there.
So we kept chatting and learning about each other.
This week he his last test for discharge, so we scheduled for Thursday.
He was told results will be Nov 3.
Frustrated, he agreed to meet Thursday anyway.
And after that, nothing.
No location.
No change of plans.
And last night I saw he was on the message app and following another female user.

I guess he moved on, with no notice and no comments.

Is it so hard to tell someone you changed your mind or are no longer interested?
What is gained by dragging someone along?

I have been ghosted by women more times than I can count.

I'm not innocent. I ghosted a woman once; she kept giving me mixed messages.

As well, I was pretty intoxicated, but that is ZERO excuse; I've been in recovery for some time now and take responsibility for what I did.

 

[Older_Pervert]

You could let them know. It’s the best thing to do and doesn’t make you look like a cunt

I totally agree with this. I‘ve been ghosted on here a couple of times now, once after exchanging over 200 messages and apparently hitting it off. It’s just bad manners, plain and simple, to not take the trouble to say “Thanks but I don’t want to do this anymore “ How hard can it be?

 

[Tribe77]

Was talking with a woman on LIT and then Skype. It was great! Sharing stories, pictures, videos, mutual masterbation, saying how our marriages were sexless. And then all of a sudden she was gone. Would much rather tell me it was done. Makes it much easier. Still yearn for another video session. My one and only great conversation on here.

 

[techiedude71]

I have ghosted.

You ask why? Well, when you try to reasonably explain why you no longer wish to see her, should she ask, and you're honest and tell her.. how well does that usually work out?

I prefer to not do that, and usually you can tell when you have to ghost.

That in no way implies anything upon the thread starter. This is my experience only.

 

[Dr_Strabismus]

Sometimes it's a case of ghost or be ghosted.

 

[techiedude71]

on line guys are like successful, well hung and single - but the guy on the keyboard is really a guy living in his mom's basement without a job or car.

also all females are men, or catfishing.. using 30 year old pictures that are perfect when in reality they no longer look like that, or using someone else's pictures etc..

Yay stereotypes.

 

[Older_Pervert]

Was talking with a woman on LIT and then Skype. It was great! Sharing stories, pictures, videos, mutual masterbation, saying how our marriages were sexless. And then all of a sudden she was gone. Would much rather tell me it was done. Makes it much easier. Still yearn for another video session. My one and only great conversation on here.

Join the club!

 

[pink]

Women ghost too.

 

[PleasePeesMe]

Lack of balls.

And manners.

 

[LLCox]

There is so much BS on the interwebs that I always start off wondering if I am really talking to a female. Sad but it is what it is.

 

[Older_Pervert]

There's a regular poster who's a guy. He's only occasionally let things slip and to be honest the rest of time, they think like a woman, write like a woman so, since they have no intention to catfish, I say no harm done. I speak as the well trained, loving family labrador that I am

Woof, woof

 

[stickygirl]

Woof, woof

Have you got a bone for me?

 

[Older_Pervert]

Have you got a bone for me?

That depends on how hard you’re going to chew it!

 

[Dapperguy]

The answer is simple. I'm Londoner. I love to fuck as many women as I can in a week. I usually have at least 6 locked and loaded women at hand to fuck. I think your ‘ghost’ is a bit like me. Let me explain. If, like, I need a bit of anal, I'll phone the slut who is good at that. This might mean the anal may clash with slut and a blow job. So I ‘ghost’ the bj for anal. I don't like calling it ghosting. No, I call it my masculinity not giving a fuck about the tart who was up for a session. I believe telling a slut you've other business to do is a sign of weakness. And I am anything but weak. Ask any of the tarts I have fucked, they'll confirm this as fact. I think your man is a bit like me, in all aspects. I don't make any apologies for my behaviour as that would be a sign of further limp-wristed weakness. No, if your up for a date with me, expect disappointment. Most tarts expect and like to be disappointed.

 

[FL30]

I have been chatting with a guy for 10 weeks. He had a work injury and other surgery during that time.
He didn't want to meet in person until he was able to drive himself there.
So we kept chatting and learning about each other.
This week he his last test for discharge, so we scheduled for Thursday.
He was told results will be Nov 3.
Frustrated, he agreed to meet Thursday anyway.
And after that, nothing.
No location.
No change of plans.
And last night I saw he was on the message app and following another female user.

I guess he moved on, with no notice and no comments.

Is it so hard to tell someone you changed your mind or are no longer interested?
What is gained by dragging someone along?

probably the same reasons why girls ghost!

It's not a gender related issue as both genders do it, it just has a new name

 

[girlsmiley]

The answer is simple. I'm Londoner. I love to fuck as many women as I can in a week. I usually have at least 6 locked and loaded women at hand to fuck. I think your ‘ghost’ is a bit like me. Let me explain. If, like, I need a bit of anal, I'll phone the slut who is good at that. This might mean the anal may clash with slut and a blow job. So I ‘ghost’ the bj for anal. I don't like calling it ghosting. No, I call it my masculinity not giving a fuck about the tart who was up for a session. I believe telling a slut you've other business to do is a sign of weakness. And I am anything but weak. Ask any of the tarts I have fucked, they'll confirm this as fact. I think your man is a bit like me, in all aspects. I don't make any apologies for my behaviour as that would be a sign of further limp-wristed weakness. No, if your up for a date with me, expect disappointment. Most tarts expect and like to be disappointed.

Cool story bro

 

[Mgwb11]

Cool story bro

It's sort of a work of art. I don't know if it could be improved upon with effort.

It's also a good reminder that sometimes, just sometimes, ghosting a person makes total sense.