Why are you back here?

[sammyIammy]

Nothing like right place right time

 

[Illinoisguy1980]

Looking for a spark to ignite me again. I wanna feel something other than routine

 

[blkqueen]

Year after year, time after time, I come crawling back to this place. Jekyll and Hyde, but it’s just me with my eyes cast low and my hand between my thighs and my phone in the other again, because maybe this time is the time I’ll find someone who can hold a mirror up in a position I can actually see myself in.

Because that’s really it, isn’t it? We want to be seen, heard, known, understood. Dissected and analyzed and broken down and figured out. We want to know why we are the way we are and why we don’t want to change. Why does it make me feel this way?

The definition of insanity is… blah blah blah.

That’s why I’m back. Why are you back?

Drawn like a moth to a flickering screen, chasing reflections in pixels unseen. Seeking a face that can echo my own, a voice in the static to say, you're not alone. We break, we rebuild, we return once more, knocking on doors we’ve knocked on before. Back once again in hopes to find the one.

 

[EvaLane]

Drawn like a moth to a flickering screen, chasing reflections in pixels unseen. Seeking a face that can echo my own, a voice in the static to say, you're not alone. We break, we rebuild, we return once more, knocking on doors we’ve knocked on before. Back once again in hopes to find the one.

That is so beautiful, thank you so much for sharing!!

 

[Jasmine12345]

Drawn like a moth to a flickering screen, chasing reflections in pixels unseen. Seeking a face that can echo my own, a voice in the static to say, you're not alone. We break, we rebuild, we return once more, knocking on doors we’ve knocked on before. Back once again in hopes to find the one.

The one 'out there' doesn't have to be a particular one. The one inside your own mind is a genuine ever-lasting one. It's a butterfly, not a moth. It's yourself. Butterfly comes back here to enjoy some inspiration , to sing a song or to do a dance.

 

[LustfulIntentions2]

Why am I back here? Because I have poor judgement and low self esteem, obviously.

 

[SherlockianMan]

I'm back because I need an escape from reality. Sex life has been DOA for awhile and needed an outlet for my teenage-level of horniness that has otherwise been pent-up too long.

 

[Oralexplorer]

Because there is no harm making a connection on here. .. it will never materialise and if it does great. Win win right ?

 

[Stopokochac]

It's difficult to explain without getting super detailed and personal. But to put it simply, I try to stay off. I keep telling myself, "I'm done." But every so often something will trigger me that will make me insanely horny, and basically, I get the urge to get off talking to a real woman, and it has to be something really specific. And I'll literally keep myself horny, until I get what I want.

 

[Oralexplorer]

It's difficult to explain without getting super detailed and personal. But to put it simply, I try to stay off. I keep telling myself, "I'm done." But every so often something will trigger me that will make me insanely horny, and basically, I get the urge to get off talking to a real woman, and it has to be something really specific. And I'll literally keep myself horny, until I get what I want.

I hear you. Thank goodness the real women of lit are so accommodating

 

[Stopokochac]

I hear you. Thank goodness the real women of lit are so accommodating

It's actually pretty hard to find someone

 

[Oralexplorer]

It's actually pretty hard to find someone

You do though it's great. They are not a dime a dozen we got to work for it.. still worth it in my opinion

 

[Dadoftwo87]

Today specifically I am back because I am horribly sleep deprived after an 72 hour on-call shift, which always leaves me in a fray-nerved state in which I can't really sleep, but have no energy to actually do stuff... and the slightest stimulation makes me horny...*sings * here I go again on my own*

 

[Deepdesrp]

To the last post I’m not actually completely sure what I’m looking for.

I suppose horny companionship.

Can waffle about loads of stuff but also horny stuff.

Although any deviation towards naughty talk and I’ll jump on it.

Must control that a bit I suppose.

Although I assume all on here are looking for some sort of horny stuff.

Or at least that’s what I Hope for.

 

[Corbie]

I take breaks and I tell myself I’m not coming back. But there’s just something addicting.

My friend Elle4U2Use takes breaks because she feels guilty and then comes back in a month or so.

 

[EvaLane]

Hi everyone, I’m up (it’s nearly midnight) and I wanted to share some reflections I’ve had since starting this thread since I’ve seen a few people do the same (good idea!!)

Well, as most would guess I’ve had a few people reach out. I’ve had some really interesting conversations, some flirty, some who just simply understood and had the same longing I did. I’m excited to see where this goes and I’m enjoying my time here

If I had any advice for anyone, it would be to just take the shot. Make it genuine and make it count. Try not to get hung up on the connections that never began or fizzled out, respect and take what you can from that experience, and continue to take risks.

Why hesitate? What’s to lose?

So far I’ve only gained

 

[jeff_is_smiling]

I cannot say why I keep coming back to lit. I suppose it is the fantasy that a woman somewhere wants to use my words to get herself off. But that really IS fantasy. It hasn't happened to me in the last few years. I've chatted with a few women and those have been fun. But few and far between if I'm honest.

I suppose playing in word games and posting some gifs has become a habit of sorts. But I don't get much out of being on the site, to be honest.

 

[EvaLane]

I cannot say why I keep coming back to lit. I suppose it is the fantasy that a woman somewhere wants to use my words to get herself off. But that really IS fantasy. It hasn't happened to me in the last few years. I've chatted with a few women and those have been fun. But few and far between if I'm honest.

I suppose playing in word games and posting some gifs has become a habit of sorts. But I don't get much out of being on the site, to be honest.

I hope you don’t mind me asking, and anyone would feel free to chime in -

If the fantasy isn't panning out (or at least not as often as you’d like) and the habit isn't all that rewarding, what would make your time here feel worthwhile? More conversation? A bit more excitement? A secret fan club dedicated to your finest wordplay? ( I’m teasing! I have read your stories in the past though and if there is a fan club, someone can sign me up)

I’m just curious what the ideal version of Lit would look like for you.

 

[hadeshasen]

back on here because it allows us to “experience” something that we may not anywhere else, to connect with similar individuals that are more likely to share our fantasies that are hard to find out and about. We also get an intimate view into one another that, I at least, have not seen with others not from lit.
Also seeing what others do as word smiths is thrilling.

 

[jeff_is_smiling]

I hope you don’t mind me asking, and anyone would feel free to chime in -

If the fantasy isn't panning out (or at least not as often as you’d like) and the habit isn't all that rewarding, what would make your time here feel worthwhile? More conversation? A bit more excitement? A secret fan club dedicated to your finest wordplay? ( I’m teasing! I have read your stories in the past though and if there is a fan club, someone can sign me up)

I’m just curious what the ideal version of Lit would look like for you.

Well, your response would be a great start. I rarely think anyone actually reads my narrative when I post something other than gifs. Seeing you did makes me smile.

The ideal version of lit would be a site where the guys don't always try to have cock fights by posting immediately after a guy does. Like animals spraying their scent everywhere. Before the redo of lit, I used to have rules I posted by that mentions my waiting at least 5-minutes after a guy posts before I do - except word games or threads I've been active in the last hour or so. So many guys try to post immediately after I do...so the fun of the interaction of others with me is minimized.

A site where women who claim to want to chat, simply go away/ghost. It's perfectly fine to not be a fit, but perhaps a quick explanation that I am not what they seek might help me out a tad. So, while I DO still make contact, it is rarely for esex or even flirting anymore. Just for the basic chatting.

Like I said earlier, lit is now just a habit for me...and many times a frustrating habit at that...

 

[Maximsdarling]

Back on here because:
1. I get bored.
2. I find words sexy. People who use them well even more so.
3. Personally, its hard to find interesting people irl. Connection can be hard. I can usually find at least blatent red flags by reading a persons comment section.

Mostly, it borders between entertaining and disappointing.

 

[LostHorizon]

Hi everyone, I’m up (it’s nearly midnight) and I wanted to share some reflections I’ve had since starting this thread since I’ve seen a few people do the same (good idea!!)

Well, as most would guess I’ve had a few people reach out. I’ve had some really interesting conversations, some flirty, some who just simply understood and had the same longing I did. I’m excited to see where this goes and I’m enjoying my time here

If I had any advice for anyone, it would be to just take the shot. Make it genuine and make it count. Try not to get hung up on the connections that never began or fizzled out, respect and take what you can from that experience, and continue to take risks.

Why hesitate? What’s to lose?

So far I’ve only gained

Excellent advice. Not getting hung up on things is sometimes easier said than done, but well worth working on.

 

[Breastobsessed84]

Sexless marriage and an appetite I can't control

 

[jackburns]

Every so often i come across someone or a story that stimulates the imagination. Or wants to talk about their experiences. Or that daydream you can't shake. The usual.

 

[jackburns]

I hope you don’t mind me asking, and anyone would feel free to chime in -

If the fantasy isn't panning out (or at least not as often as you’d like) and the habit isn't all that rewarding, what would make your time here feel worthwhile? More conversation? A bit more excitement? A secret fan club dedicated to your finest wordplay? ( I’m teasing! I have read your stories in the past though and if there is a fan club, someone can sign me up)

I’m just curious what the ideal version of Lit would look like for you.

I suppose the ideal version would be fulfilling conversations about whatever sex happens to be on the mind at the time.