EvaLane
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- Jan 15, 2025
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Well, your response would be a great start. I rarely think anyone actually reads my narrative when I post something other than gifs. Seeing you did makes me smile.
The ideal version of lit would be a site where the guys don't always try to have cock fights by posting immediately after a guy does. Like animals spraying their scent everywhere. Before the redo of lit, I used to have rules I posted by that mentions my waiting at least 5-minutes after a guy posts before I do - except word games or threads I've been active in the last hour or so. So many guys try to post immediately after I do...so the fun of the interaction of others with me is minimized.
A site where women who claim to want to chat, simply go away/ghost. It's perfectly fine to not be a fit, but perhaps a quick explanation that I am not what they seek might help me out a tad. So, while I DO still make contact, it is rarely for esex or even flirting anymore. Just for the basic chatting.
Like I said earlier, lit is now just a habit for me...and many times a frustrating habit at that...
I’ve been told similar sentiments a few times now in private PMs. I think this is challenging because while many feel the stress of needing to compete, there are many who feel overwhelmed and unprepared to handle the onslaught of attention.
In my case, I’ll be honest and say I’ve had to cut communication with the majority of people who have reached out to me for a common purpose - They immediately try to make me into their momentary pornography, if that’s via role play or asking for photos/skype sessions/etc. But that isn’t even what turns me off, it’s the expectation to receive without an iota of effort to give.
What am I taking out of these interactions? Surely men can’t believe I’m sitting here petting myself for hours and hours a day while typing full length filthy messages, snapping nude photos, and bending over backwards to fill x y and z hole for StrangerDanger69 (sorry to whoever has this username, please PM me

I hope you don’t take this as me talking directly to you, Jeff. I can ramble. I’m sure you’re a perfect gentleman behind closed doors

Anyway, even with all of that, I still think you should take the risk and reach out to whatever user that catches your eye. You may form a connection or at least a momentary jolt of newness.
A dog is content playing chasing frisbees - until they get the thrill of chasing the next door neighbours kitty. Maybe you’re bored with playing with frisbees and you want to know what it would feel like to finally sink your teeth into something that purrs

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