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Is it as simple as the dopamine of a new connection?
Those sinister little receptorsI see this interaction between us a quick fix of dopamineThe notification, being seen and responded to. It is nice and it does feel good, but…
I think I’m realizing that maybe what I’ve been chasing is acceptance within a partner that can help me actually be ok with letting go of whatever preconceptions I had going in to the experience.
I think by chasing that blindly, it led me to feeling more empty than satisfied - no matter how many orgasms I gained out of the trial and error
That’s why I’ve never blamed any of my past connections for the ways things panned out - I would never expect someone to know me better than I know myself.
Apparently that takes time, who knew?
Do you feel like you’re lacking acceptance?
A mystery wrapped up in middle class suburbia, a cliche and a tragedyYou seem complex. I don’t know you well to be so definitive
I actually like that dichotomy. Maybe that’s my connection radar pinging.A mystery wrapped up in middle class suburbia, a cliche and a tragedy
It’s alright, I welcome and challenge any assumptions made about me![]()
Okay.It’s alright, I welcome and challenge any assumptions made about me![]()
When you let go being concerned by what others think of you, you become free.It’s alright, I welcome and challenge any assumptions made about me![]()
Dissected and analyzed and broken down and figured out. That’s beautiful.Year after year, time after time, I come crawling back to this place. Jekyll and Hyde, but it’s just me with my eyes cast low and my hand between my thighs and my phone in the other again, because maybe this time is the time I’ll find someone who can hold a mirror up in a position I can actually see myself in.
Because that’s really it, isn’t it? We want to be seen, heard, known, understood. Dissected and analyzed and broken down and figured out. We want to know why we are the way we are and why we don’t want to change. Why does it make me feel this way?
The definition of insanity is… blah blah blah.
That’s why I’m back. Why are you back?
Wanting to be seen and dreading being noticed at th same time. Just having others understand that is a relief.Oh they accept methey accept me, encourage me, and press on my desire to continue down the path of dangerous behaviours.
Eyes cast low not due to shame, but fear, because I know I’ve already succumbed to everything yet to come. I can’t play pretend anymore, I’m here, inviting in the worst of the worst into my inbox.
Lit does have some of the nicest people though, you’re right. I’ve always thought that![]()
Okay.
I assume you fantasize and masturbate when you are on LIt.
only seconds??!?? I mean... I am absolutely fan of a slow build-up.... but that just seems a waste of good sexual energyDid you mean while I consume the stories, or when I browse the forums, or when I whisper back dirty things to strange men?
Yes of course
To be fully honest, I usually only touch myself after I’ve been doing all of those things for many hours. The actual act itself only takes… seconds, sometimes.
Gosh forbid a girl enjoys herself![]()
This is why I keep coming back; hopes of being one of those "strange men," for some lady, that receives whispers of dirty things.Did you mean while I consume the stories, or when I browse the forums, or when I whisper back dirty things to strange men?
Yes of course
To be fully honest, I usually only touch myself after I’ve been doing all of those things for many hours. The actual act itself only takes… seconds, sometimes.
Gosh forbid a girl enjoys herself![]()
only seconds??!?? I mean... I am absolutely fan of a slow build-up.... but that just seems a waste of good sexual energyno edging for you?
I respect that very much! I also like to let the stmulation buld without touching... But I don't think I've gotten to a state where I could co to cumming in literally seconds...As long as my mind is stimulated, so is my body. I basically edge myself all day without having to touch myself. When I finally do give in and I use my toy, it usually doesn’t take very long. If it is taking longer than normal, it’s a bad sign.
That means I’m not stimulated enough and I jumped the gun. I’ll have to escalate my sources of stimulation and if that doesn’t work, well… I’m not afraid to ask for help![]()
Have you tried holding a freshly charged vibrator against your most sensitive, wet bits after internally buzzing for hours?I respect that very much! I also like to let the stmulation buld without touching... But I don't think I've gotten to a state where I could co to cumming in literally seconds...
I was responding to your invitation to make assumptions about you. Its nice to be right once in awhile. Even though it seemed like a very safe assumption to make.Did you mean while I consume the stories, or when I browse the forums, or when I whisper back dirty things to strange men?
Yes of course![]()
So. The excitement builds without touching?To be fully honest, I usually only touch myself after I’ve been doing all of those things for many hours. The actual act itself only takes… seconds, sometimes.
I would never try to forbid that.Gosh forbid a girl enjoys herself![]()
haha I have a vibrating cockring... and I must say, when I sometimes watch or hear ladies on Lit... I do think the effect of vibrations on the male parts is less effective... enjoyable sure... but no instant explosionHave you tried holding a freshly charged vibrator against your most sensitive, wet bits after internally buzzing for hours?
I’d recommendddddddd it.
So. The excitement builds without touching?