Update on Wizard & Skitten...

[Angelique]

For those of you who were kind enough to respond to a recent thread that Wizard posted, regarding his parents, and anyone else who is interested...

I just got off the phone with Wiz. His father passed away this morning. It was a peaceful passing...he went in his sleep, however, as you can well imagine, it's a huge blow to Wiz. He's doing ok at the moment...peaks and valley's of emotion, which is par for the course.

I don't have all of the details at this time, but within the next few days, Wiz will be keeping in touch w/me. Anyone who would like to pass along their thoughts may e-mail me at Angelique@Literotica.org and I will pass them on to Wiz when I speak with him.

Many thanks to those who have shown them their support over the past few weeks.

-Angelique

 

[Ambrosious]

Damn, just damn.

Any more bad news and I'm gonna cry.

 

[Nobody Special's wife]

Send my love and tell him, He is in my heart..and hugs

 

[Curious Guy]

My heart goes out to them. I know how it hurt me, to lose my Dad.

 

[Laurel]

Manu and I send our condolenses and best wishes.

 

[OUTSIDER]

Having lost a parent I can tell you it's a bitter thing indeed, I wish Wiz all the best and hope he's feeling better soon, time does heal.

 

[Ksss]

Sending my condolences to Wizard and Skitten.

 

[Cirrus]

My stepmother passed 2 years ago. I know how it is. She married my dad when I was 3 so she was my mother. Give them both my best.

 

[jcgirl]

Wizzie take it easy hon. Come back to us soon

 

[Mistress]

I'm sorry Wizard, best wishes and condolenses love.


Blows a kiss in the wind

 

[teresafannin]

Sending my deepest condolences, it is always difficult to lose someone so close to you. Keep the memories alive & don't be afraid to talk about the people you have loved.

 

[Cheyenne]

I'm sorry, Wizzie. Come back to the board when you can- we'll all be here waiting for you.

 

[Beebeeblue]

Your in our thots here Wizzie...

 

[Chuckus]

All my best to you and yours on this sad day. You are in my heart and thoughts Wizzie. Take care of you and yours........and remember we are thinking good happy thoughts for you.

 

[Wizard]

Wow, What a day ...........As some as you folks know the past month has been real real hard on me the wife and kids . My father at 83 was in the pass side of there car when they were hit by another car , they were both in poor health to start with and Dad couldn't walk very well ...........after the wreck things went down hill real quick 2 weeks ago he didn't even know my kids.....his grandkids. The past two weeks he didn't know much about what was going on.
It is very sad to loss a parent and this is the first time I have ever had to deal with it........let me tell ya it sucks bad I miss him already and can't help but to sorta be happy also ....see he has been having such a bad time of things and I too would not want to live the way he was...No control of anything a nurse with him 5 days a week..........Well he is truely in a better place now.......

I have good friends to lean on and will get everyone thru this my mother is a basket case right now.

I wanted to thank everyone for there kind words it really does mean alot......

I just got home and must get clothing ready for the next few days..but thank you all...

And just feel like saying "I love you Dad".......I know your watching over me now...........

 

[Nicole]

Wizard and Skitten, I'm sorry this is so late, but please know that you are both in my thoughts right now, as is your family.

Any loss is a hard loss, but the one of a Father or Mother is an extremely hard one.

My thoughts are also with your kids, knowing what it's like to loose a Grandparent, I also wish them well.

Good Luck, and you are both in my thoughts.

 

[doctor_insanus]

It's late... but...

I know how you feel... and it's not nice.

Hang in there, man.

 

[Renegade]

Sorry to hear about your loss, Wizard. Wish I could do or say something to help take the hurt away. Just know that you're in my best wishes. Take care man.

 

[Wizard]

Thanks all..................I am sitting here at 5 am after trying to go to bed at 1:30 and tossing and turning.
I had to flip the puter on and read the board for a while......

 

[Cheyenne]

Hi, Wizzie! I'm never online at 4 in the morning, but signed on while I kicked the A/C up to cool down the house a bit more. That and the bug bites that are itching me to death...

I didn't post it before, because it just didn't sound quite right on a REAL death thread. But you alluded to the part of you that was happy realizing your dad was in a better place and not suffering a life he wouldn't want here. More than 20 years ago, a doctor told our family "there are things worse than death." It was in an emergency room, when we were desperately hoping a family member would pull through the night and live until morning. She did, and then faced 6 more years of mostly hell before she died.
There are things worse than death. I know that now, although I didn't understand it the night the doctor was trying to tell us. You seem to have realized the truth of that statement already, even though the pain of the loss of your dad is still so fresh for you. I hope knowing that your dad is happier where he is now gives you comfort.

 

[batter]

please

accept my condolenses in your recent loss. i lost my father nearly 8 years ago. i know it is not easy for you. be strong and be there for your mom.
hugs to you and your family.

 

[Wizard]

Hi, Wizzie! I'm never online at 4 in the morning, but signed on while I kicked the A/C up to cool down the house a bit more. That and the bug bites that are itching me to death...

I didn't post it before, because it just didn't sound quite right on a REAL death thread. But you alluded to the part of you that was happy realizing your dad was in a better place and not suffering a life he wouldn't want here. More than 20 years ago, a doctor told our family "there are things worse than death." It was in an emergency room, when we were desperately hoping a family member would pull through the night and live until morning. She did, and then faced 6 more years of mostly hell before she died.
There are things worse than death. I know that now, although I didn't understand it the night the doctor was trying to tell us. You seem to have realized the truth of that statement already, even though the pain of the loss of your dad is still so fresh for you. I hope knowing that your dad is happier where he is now gives you comfort.

It sucks, but is true...............My Father was not himself the past month and not knowing what was going on the past few weeks......He really is in a better place now........I miss him badly already but part of me is happy he can now rest in peace.........

 

[Mortto56]

I'm sorry to hear about your Dad Wizard.

I haven't been on the board much,so I didn't know about your Dad.

Be strong for your Mom,because she is going to need your support more than ever now.

Best of wishes to you and your family.

 

[TonyG]

My prayers are with you and your family.