Should men expect monogamy from women?

[Helpme01]

It should always be expected unless both have agreed on not.

 

[Helpme01]

Yes and no. I think in general sex needs to be discussed way more between couples and partners as an open topic. I think most people here would agree it can be a huge issue when things don't align between two people sexually as much as any other believe and value. Simply taking the time to answer some questions honestly and openly can let you know so much about someone when it comes to sex and from there you can decide how things are going to go moving forward or not such as monogamy.

You are 100% correct I would add that it has to be revisited as the relationship goes through its ups and downs and when one of their sex drive drastically lowers.

 

[Ssbbw4u1974]

I think, yes.
I was very promiscuous prior to my marriage. Maybe it was society, maybe it was that I loved him so much... But I did not have any affairs when I was married for 12 years.
(When we separated, I went back to my old ways)
He wasnt great at providing financially, but I felt it my choice to stay committed, despite other hardships.

 

[VamPal1]

I appreciate men who are monogamous.

 

[EasyBrad59]

Every couple should communicate with each other about being monogamous. Both should be on board from the beginning as to the parameters of the relationship, whether monogamous or ENM. Dishonesty is the worst.

 

[saintcero]

I expected monogamy but I didn’t get it. It hurt initially but I am past that now, for the most part.