Threesomes

[ApplesMcgee]

yeah...

I like the idea of going to a swing club and just meeting people and slowly easing your way into the situation. Maybe watchign some one else, or having some one watch you, etc.

My gf and I have recently spoken about it. Who knows. It may not be for everyone. But it's neat to try and see what works for you.

PowrDragn

 

[Xanaduvian]

I was the second man in a MMF threesome once. I suppose we had "limited-full-contact;" he sucked me and I jerked him. Would I do it again? In a minute.

 

[foosballfan]

For me,

The sex of the partners wouldn't matter nearly so much as the sexiNESS. I could get into a MMF, MFF, or whatever, as long as I was attracted to the people.
I don't, however, think I'd do it with someone with whom I was very seriously involved. It would just lead to too much resentment i think.

 

[Guest]

am I registered

 

[Guest]

this has come at the perfect time. I am not very sexually experienced but, this site has helped! my husband has been talking about a threesome everytime we have sex lately. I figured I would play into it , with the help of some of the stories on this site, and see how serious he was,now he thinks I have a girlfriend on the side! eventhough I would tell him every time "this is a game" we had it out and I told him the game was over, after a week he started again,"I saw a chick today that I thought you would really get off with"so I played along, what did her tits look like,what do you want to see us do,ect. He is insisting we make this fantasy real and I know that he couldn't handle it. I was glad to see all of the feedback on this from people who have been there. It seems that for the most part it weakens a relationship. now that he used the fantasy against me I don't feel a trust with him, Ithink that is the key,TRUST. still learning! blonde1

 

[curious_hubby]

Yummy!

I fantasize about a MMF threesome with me, my wife, and some attractive M all the time. It seems strange to me that it is so exciting, but it is.

I can't imagine a situation in which we would go ahead and have an MMF, since emotions might get way out of hand. If I felt safe that I would stay married and stay the number one person with my wife, I think it would be very erotic. It would help if we met the other person on vacation, or if he was different enough from me that my wife wouldn't want to trade me in (like if he was young, poor, but beautiful ).

I also think I would love to watch my wife with an F, but I think it would be hard to satisify both of them. I also think an F would be more dangerous to the relationship than an M.

I am also "orally bi-curious", but I think it would be great as long as the other M wasn't afraid of touching me while sandwiched my wife.

Those are my thoughts...

 

[Guest]

I'm curious,why would a F be more dangerous to a relationship than a M?

 

[curious_hubby]

Dangerous F's...

I think men are better able to enjoy a good fuck and then leave. Not to be superficial, or anything. I would be afraid that an F would try to become a big part of the relationship.

 

[Guest]

I agree that a m has an easier time with the fuck 'em and leave 'em, but women could do it too, unless she rocked my world then it might be hard to not go back for seconds, by myself!

 

[Naughty n Nice]

Are you kidding?? I would jump at the chance if it presented itself to me. Of course, I'm bi too.

 

[Guest]

hey naughty, if you don't mind my asking how did you realize you were bi ? did you have sex with a woman ,then you knew, or did you always know?

 

[Naughty n Nice]

Umm, when pictures and movies of women turn you on almost more then those of men, it's usually a dead give away. I always knew, it's only lately that I am discussing it and making it a part of who I am.

 

[blonde1]

thanks naughty, I guess I can stop wondering!

 

[Naughty n Nice]

You're going to leave us hanging??? What have you realized?

 

[Lust Engine]

Umm, when pictures and movies of women turn you on almost more then those of men, it's usually a dead give away. I always knew, it's only lately that I am discussing it and making it a part of who I am.

Hmmmm...what do pictures of men AND women do for you then?? Or multiple men with multiple women?? More the merrier??

Oooo La LA!

 

[Naughty n Nice]

Hmmmm...what do pictures of men AND women do for you then?? Or multiple men with multiple women?? More the merrier??

Oooo La LA!

Sorry guys, but this Naughty gal prefers pics and movies of women with women. I certainly wouldn't turn down those with men in them, I enjoy them too. However, it's those of the lesbian persuasion that really turn me on. I would love to be a part of an MFF, but not a MMF. I love men, however, I'd do MFF, FF, FFF, get the picture?

 

[blonde1]

you said it perfectly naughty, I guess I was wondering if a girl can actually consider herself bi if she hasn't actually done anything with another girl, but the idea certainly turns her on!

 

[Screenwriter]

Of course I would love to involve another woman with my wife and watch her be taken by this other girl and then eventually join in ........ so I suppose that "what's fair is fair" and if she wanted to do a MMF, then I would be cool with it.

 

[Brent106]

threesomes

I have been involved in MMF threesomes int he past, where we both played with each other also, it was hot and exciting, I would definately do it again !!

 

[mutilato]

I'm with the babysitter

I'm bisexual so I really enjoy having one of each to play with. Three-ways are such potent environments for a bisexual person. The first time I was in one i realized what was wrong with the whole two person vanilla sex angle. The dynamics of two people are fun and all, but they are just so minimal compared to the feelings you get from a threeway. And the possible three-ways are so diverse.

It's fun watching my wife fuck another man or fuck another man with her, it's just as fun to watch her fucking another girl or laying there while I fuck another girl on top of her.

i just read that a penthouse poll reported that the top two fantasies of regular old straight men out there right now are 1. sex with two women and 2. watching partner have sex with another man. This means that the mass majority of vanilla sex men out there would like to have group sex (at least a threesome) i wish every one of them would just do it and get it over with.

 

[Lust Engine]

Re: I'm with the babysitter

i just read that a penthouse poll reported that the top two fantasies of regular old straight men out there right now are 1. sex with two women and 2. watching partner have sex with another man. This means that the mass majority of vanilla sex men out there would like to have group sex (at least a threesome) i wish every one of them would just do it and get it over with.

Mind you, it's a FANTASY! Just because someone fantasizes about something, they also know the emotional complications that can come with "just doing it".

I'm sure the majority of vanilla sex men out there would fantasize about making love to Cindy Crawford too, but I'd caution all of you guys out there as to trying to approach her with that objective.

Fantasies are wonderful and have a realm all to themselves. Some fantasies are better at being unattainable to maintain their allure.

 

[mutilato]

That's a great point.

point well taken. i wonder how many of the people polled consider this a fantasy they would like to engage in tomorrow if the opprotunity presented itself.

 

[Tallfella]

Re: That's a great point.

point well taken. i wonder how many of the people polled consider this a fantasy they would like to engage in tomorrow if the opprotunity presented itself.

well I think if it was planned I'd probably baulk but if it happened seemingly spontaneosly then I'd go with it. MMF or FMF

 

[blonde1]

I really,really need some feedback on this- I so agree with juicey,and belle, and had decided my husband was bluffing about the threesome thing but the fantasy was fun. then last night I found out he had called a personal ad and was very serious about it. he looks at it from the sex toy point of it, I don't know if I can see it that way. and of course it has gone from him wanting to watch to " of course I would have to share the 'monster' with her" and I don't know if I could handle watching my husband fuck another woman. Ihave always felt what made sex special was we have only been with each other for 20 years. but I do want to rock his world like no one else could. could someone give me some perspective here? I'm CONFUSED!

 

[mutilato]

I really,really need some feedback on this- I so agree with juicey,and belle, and had decided my husband was bluffing about the threesome thing but the fantasy was fun. then last night I found out he had called a personal ad and was very serious about it. he looks at it from the sex toy point of it, I don't know if I can see it that way. and of course it has gone from him wanting to watch to " of course I would have to share the 'monster' with her" and I don't know if I could handle watching my husband fuck another woman. Ihave always felt what made sex special was we have only been with each other for 20 years. but I do want to rock his world like no one else could. could someone give me some perspective here? I'm CONFUSED!

If you have the kind of marriage where you are 100% sure that, at the end of the day, he wants to be in bed next to you, and you feel like it's something that you would physically enjoy, I would do it. I'm game for anything my wife wants to do because I'm confident that there's no chance that she's gonna want to leave me or lie to me. What we have is just too good.

the best sign that you can play outside of your marriage is if you can laugh while having the conversation.