Threesomes

[blonde1]

If you have the kind of marriage where you are 100% sure that, at the end of the day, he wants to be in bed next to you, and you feel like it's something that you would physically enjoy, I would do it. I'm game for anything my wife wants to do because I'm confident that there's no chance that she's gonna want to leave me or lie to me. What we have is just too good.

the best sign that you can play outside of your marriage is if you can laugh while having the conversation.

ok I am pretty secure with our marriage, and I think if the motive really was that he wants some stray pussy, at least he wants me there and to enjoy myself.

 

[blonde1]

also, I am pretty much inexperienced sexually, thats why I started coming to this sight, to get 'experience' if this chick is posting a personal ad for a couple then she is probably experienced, I guess I am just getting insecure. I hate whiners and I think I'm whining!

 

[mutilato]

also, I am pretty much inexperienced sexually, thats why I started coming to this sight, to get 'experience' if this chick is posting a personal ad for a couple then she is probably experienced, I guess I am just getting insecure. I hate whiners and I think I'm whining!

You are absolutely not whining. You are a responsible person trying to get all the information she can before launching into an area that is complex, and potentially damaging to someone's ego.

Plus, You made your partner's pleasure a matter of significant enough importance to go into an area that's uncomfortable to you. That makes you a very valuable person to have in someone's life- a real treasure.

 

[blonde1]

thanks Mutilato, I think I may be concerned that I would enjoy it very much, it really suprised me when he started saying I want to see you do this and that and I got off so incredibly great!

 

[blonde1]

Naughty, your mailbox is full. but yes, your offer is so sweet. but I have to leave for work, pm me, and I'll have monday morning free, let me know when you will be on.

 

[Naughty n Nice]

Naughty, your mailbox is full. but yes, your offer is so sweet. but I have to leave for work, pm me, and I'll have monday morning free, let me know when you will be on.

sorry about that, it's not full anymore

 

[crash69]

3 somes

MMf, was the worst decision ever made. My wife and i and a co worker of hers. We should have left it a fantasy. It was me who gave her the idea and I am the one paying for it. Was a huge turn on watching her suck and swallow another mans cock and cum. The bad part is she got attached to the other male. Started up a hidden relationship between themselves. Eventially she found out she was just another number to him but the marriage is now in jeopardy. Best advice is don't do it. It's not worth ending a relationship for.

 

[krspy2001]

well i want to see my wife do it with another guy..........just think of him as a sex toy

 

[blonde1]

If you are in a commited ,long term relationship there are always emotions involved. you may think you can or your partner can look at the other person as a sex toy. you can never be sure of what someone else is going to think. if the 'sex toy' has batteries thats the only way you will know!

 

[krspy2001]

i think if we discussed what is going to happen and both want to do it iy will be fine

 

[ExtacyCouple]

I have very stong opinions on threesomes and bringing extra people into the bedroom. For my self personally it has been a great thing and I think it has truly enhanced our marriage in many ways. I know that sounds crazy because the whole point of a marriage is a one on one commitment and spending the rest of your life with this one person. Those points are true for us and we take our marriage very seriously. I also think that the fact that we do value our marriage so much is the one reason this works for us. We can seperate our play time from our normal everyday lives and truly just have fun when we get into those situations and live out some fantasies. Afterward we are able to talk about what we liked and didn't like and if one of use didn't like something we agree not to do it again. It has built the ultimate level of trust between us and opened up many lines of communication that otherwise wouldn't exist. I think another thing that is very important is that our one on one sex life is great. we are both very content with just getting down and dirty with each other.

 

[krspy2001]

that is how i see it too.........if i, or her for that matter want something different, strange ass,....then it can happen but we are both there to be a part of it...that is at least what i think

 

[blonde1]

I guess it really comes down to trust. after a lot of fantasy talk my husband really wants to do this, only, ffm. after more talk and fantasy talk he kinda started saying I;ll have to be worrying about you getting a girlfriend. if there's no trust then I'm not about to go thru with it.

 

[krspy2001]

i trust her 100%....in my case i am wanting to see her waith another guy....or 2.....i would want a FFM too soon after that if she wanted to also

 

[blonde1]

sounds like your ready! just make sure you come back and share the details

 

[krspy2001]

i acnt understand why a very sexual woman would not jump at the chance for some starnge dick if her hubby says go for it

 

[Lust Engine]

i acnt understand why a very sexual woman would not jump at the chance for some starnge dick if her hubby says go for it

It could be the fear that the "strange dick" could be better than her usual dick! And then what...??

 

[blonde1]

maybe she has enough dick at home, now stray pussy..........

 

[SlowMoe]

I would do it anytime. As long as all the parties are in agreement. I am not sure if I am bisexual or not but I would like to atleast try being with a women sometime. If only my boyfriend would agree!

SlowMoe

 

[Thefraserman]

I was in a long term relationship with my right hand, until I cheated on it with my left.

We tried a threesome, but they ended up with eachother, and now I can't masturbate anymore cause they both left me

My girlfriend is pretty good though


Funny? Not funny? let me know! Thanks!

 

[ifitsfundoit]

Now, where are all the guys to answer this question?

Me, my wife, and another man...can't see a reason not to.

I'm looking for a down side, but I can't see one.

 

[crash69]

ifitsfundoit, Would you beable to handle your woman wanting more of the other guy? What if she falls for him and only wants him? Just a downside that is out of your control to think about.

 

[Thin Man]

I guess I will throw my two cents in here and give an opinion.

 

[TAKEMEE]

Been there done that. I would much prefer MMF. Trying very hard to convince my SO that it would be great

 

[Matt Twattingle]

3's

I guess it really comes down to trust. after a lot of fantasy talk my husband really wants to do this, only, ffm. after more talk and fantasy talk he kinda started saying I;ll have to be worrying about you getting a girlfriend. if there's no trust then I'm not about to go thru with it.

I would try it on cyber first and see how it goes maybe for several months. You have to get beyond jealosy to make it good.