dora_salonica
Really Experienced
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There are quite a few texts that have been written about the healthy sub and about the troubled sub - namely by Yaldah Tovah, a Jewish submissive girl, back in 2000.
I would like to write about the psychopathic sub. Here it goes:
I recently read a book by Kahneman, the winner of the Nobel prize in Economics, in 2002. The book is titled "Thinking Fast, Thinking Slow" and is an international best-seller.
Kahneman opens the specific discussion by saying that cognitive illusion stems from psychopathic charm. Psychopathic charm for example invariably generates feelings of sympathy by a therapist towards a patient with a history of failed treatment.
“As a graduate student, I attended some courses on the art and science of psychotherapy. During one of these lectures, our teacher imparted a morsel of clinical wisdom. This is what he told us: 'You will from time to time meet a patient who shares a disturbing tale of multiple mistakes in his previous treatment. He has been seen by several clinicians, and all failed him. The patient can lucidly describe how his therapists misunderstood him, but he has quickly perceived that you are different. You share the same feeling, are convinced that you understand him, and will be able to help.' At this point my teacher raised his voice as he said, 'Do not even think of taking on this patient! Throw him out of the office! He is most likely a psychopath and you will not be able to help him.'
Many years later I learned that the teacher had warned us against psychopathic charm, and the leading authority in the study of psychopathy confirmed that the teacher's advice was sound... What we were being taught was not how to feel about that patient. Our teacher took it for granted that the sympathy we would feel for the patient would not be under our control; it would arise from System 1. Furthermore, we were not being taught to be generally suspicious of our feelings about patients. We were told that a strong attraction to a patient with a repeated history of failed treatment is a danger sign... It is an illusion – a cognitive illusion and I was taught how to recognize it and advised not to believe it or act on it.” (p. 28)
The same thing can happen to a Dom and a psychopathic sub with a history of failed D/s relationships. These feelings will occur either way and the Dom has to be vigilant – though he rarely is. This is a very useful and didactic little story and it certainly can be applied to psychopathic subs and Doms who invariably feel charmed by them, only to soon find themselves enmeshed in a sea of trouble.
What is your personal opinion of this? Do you know psychopathic subs? How can a Dom protect himself?
I would like to write about the psychopathic sub. Here it goes:
I recently read a book by Kahneman, the winner of the Nobel prize in Economics, in 2002. The book is titled "Thinking Fast, Thinking Slow" and is an international best-seller.
Kahneman opens the specific discussion by saying that cognitive illusion stems from psychopathic charm. Psychopathic charm for example invariably generates feelings of sympathy by a therapist towards a patient with a history of failed treatment.
“As a graduate student, I attended some courses on the art and science of psychotherapy. During one of these lectures, our teacher imparted a morsel of clinical wisdom. This is what he told us: 'You will from time to time meet a patient who shares a disturbing tale of multiple mistakes in his previous treatment. He has been seen by several clinicians, and all failed him. The patient can lucidly describe how his therapists misunderstood him, but he has quickly perceived that you are different. You share the same feeling, are convinced that you understand him, and will be able to help.' At this point my teacher raised his voice as he said, 'Do not even think of taking on this patient! Throw him out of the office! He is most likely a psychopath and you will not be able to help him.'
Many years later I learned that the teacher had warned us against psychopathic charm, and the leading authority in the study of psychopathy confirmed that the teacher's advice was sound... What we were being taught was not how to feel about that patient. Our teacher took it for granted that the sympathy we would feel for the patient would not be under our control; it would arise from System 1. Furthermore, we were not being taught to be generally suspicious of our feelings about patients. We were told that a strong attraction to a patient with a repeated history of failed treatment is a danger sign... It is an illusion – a cognitive illusion and I was taught how to recognize it and advised not to believe it or act on it.” (p. 28)
The same thing can happen to a Dom and a psychopathic sub with a history of failed D/s relationships. These feelings will occur either way and the Dom has to be vigilant – though he rarely is. This is a very useful and didactic little story and it certainly can be applied to psychopathic subs and Doms who invariably feel charmed by them, only to soon find themselves enmeshed in a sea of trouble.
What is your personal opinion of this? Do you know psychopathic subs? How can a Dom protect himself?