Do older fsubs find yound doms appealing?

[Teen_switch]

I am only 20 years of age and would like to call my self a dom. It is after experiencing both sides, that I have come to this conclusion.Most of the people I meet somehow look down upon me due to my age. I am certain I weild more knowledge than many of them. However, a quite large number of female submissives find the idea of submitting to a young dom fascinating but do not go through with it due to certain reservations.
I am here to answer all your questions.
Shoot away

 

[Submissivepat]

I have had some good experiences with younger dominant males or younger couples.

 

[artslut86]

My Domme is 30yrs younger than me. She knows way more than I do or ever will.
At 20 however I doubt you have had the experiences need to be taken seriously. Perhaps that's it. Find a partner who will Le t you learn alongside them.
A lot of harm can be done to a person physically and mentally with wrong Domme.

 

[lowcollar]

I had a mistress who was 16 years younger. When she let go of her judgements, she became a good dominatrix.

 

[artslut86]

Fsub... what do u mean there. For pay?

 

[Sappho_CGN]

I cannot imagine submitting to a significantly younger men.

 

[PaxNurgle]

Fsub... what do u mean there. For pay?

Female Sub.

As a male sub, I can only clarify the term, but I really don't have anything else relevant to contribute to this.

 

[roxanne1971]

Knowledge is different than experience. Without the years behind you, it would be hard for me to let go and fully submit. I might play with a young Dom who has a very specific energy. But it would not go too far mentally.

 

[Kitty_so_frisky]

Honestly, no. There are a lot of abusive assholes out there who call themselves Doms, and a lot of younger, less experienced guys who don’t fully consider the way things they do might be of consequence to others. The D/s dynamic requires a fuckton of trust on the sub’s side and it takes experience, emotional maturity, even-temperedness and consideration to earn, among other things. Science says the human brain isn’t fully mature until age 25, but some people take a lot longer to grow up, if they ever grow up at all.

 

[lucy__b]

There's certainly something kinda intriguing about the idea of submitting to someone younger but yeah as people have said, they would need to have a good level of emotional maturity.

 

[artslut86]

I'd also say this, why.
What makes you think you want the work the investment of time and the constant feedback required to manage let alone train a sub?
It's a head game, it's not all about orgasms and ass fucking. Or whipping or watching them perform like a monkey.
The slow insertion of your will over theirs, the growth of trust, the expansion of tasking, the freely given submission of a person's sexuality, and things that make them tick is complex and fraught with challenges. Especially online. FLR in real life may be easier, I dunno, the ability to communicate and get visual feedback and confirmation and all that is no doubt helpful.

So WHY do you think u want to be a Domme?

 

[Unblemished]

Honestly, no. There are a lot of abusive assholes out there who call themselves Doms, and a lot of younger, less experienced guys who don’t fully consider the way things they do might be of consequence to others. The D/s dynamic requires a fuckton of trust on the sub’s side and it takes experience, emotional maturity, even-temperedness and consideration to earn, among other things. Science says the human brain isn’t fully mature until age 25, but some people take a lot longer to grow up, if they ever grow up at all.

The 25 years thing is a myth, but the rest of this is true. Some people might be capable of responsibly domming at a younger age, but it’s definitely a red flag. And some people might never have the maturity needed, even on the day that they die.

 

[ToPleaseHim]

I'd also say this, why.
What makes you think you want the work the investment of time and the constant feedback required to manage let alone train a sub?
It's a head game, it's not all about orgasms and ass fucking. Or whipping or watching them perform like a monkey.
The slow insertion of your will over theirs, the growth of trust, the expansion of tasking, the freely given submission of a person's sexuality, and things that make them tick is complex and fraught with challenges. Especially online. FLR in real life may be easier, I dunno, the ability to communicate and get visual feedback and confirmation and all that is no doubt helpful.

So WHY do you think u want to be a Domme?

The OP is a man asking about female subs submitting to a younger male dom.

 

[ToPleaseHim]

I am only 20 years of age and would like to call my self a dom. It is after experiencing both sides, that I have come to this conclusion.Most of the people I meet somehow look down upon me due to my age. I am certain I weild more knowledge than many of them. However, a quite large number of female submissives find the idea of submitting to a young dom fascinating but do not go through with it due to certain reservations.
I am here to answer all your questions.
Shoot away

It would be very hard to me to let go and submit to a significantly younger dom. I’m primarily a service sub and I love doing things for and worshipping my dominant. With a guy in his 20s, I think it might feel more like mothering him. I’m also not sexually attracted to significantly younger men. If I were chatting with a guy in his 20s, I’d be more likely to be scouting him out to maybe introduce to my daughter.

 

[ToPleaseHim]

The 25 years thing is a myth, but the rest of this is true. Some people might be capable of responsibly domming at a younger age, but it’s definitely a red flag. And some people might never have the maturity needed, even on the day that they die.

The prefrontal cortex is not fully developed until around age 25. This is not a myth.

 

[BiBunny]

It would be very hard to me to let go and submit to a significantly younger dom. I’m primarily a service sub and I love doing things for and worshipping my dominant. With a guy in his 20s, I think it might feel more like mothering him. I’m also not sexually attracted to significantly younger men. If I were chatting with a guy in his 20s, I’d be more likely to be scouting him out to maybe introduce to my daughter.

Haha, that. ^^^^

(Except I don't have a daughter.)

 

[Unravelx]

The prefrontal cortex is not fully developed until around age 25. This is not a myth.

This. I was much more experienced & knowledgeable with kink than most older people at that age, but I still very much did not know what I didn't know.

 

[Unblemished]

The prefrontal cortex is not fully developed until around age 25. This is not a myth.

It’s 100% a myth.

Alexandra Cohen, the lead author of that study and now a neuroscientist at Emory University, said the scientific consensus is that brain development continues into people’s 20s.

But, she wrote in an email, “I don’t think there’s anything magical about the age of 25.”

When we spoke, I told Steinberg his work had been referenced in this way. “Oh no,” he said, laughing. I then asked whether he had insights about where the figure 25 came from, and he said roughly the same thing as Cohen: There’s consensus among neuroscientists that brain development continues into the 20s, but there’s far from any consensus about any specific age that defines the boundary between adolescence and adulthood. “I honestly don’t know why people picked 25,” he said. “It’s a nice-sounding number? It’s divisible by five?”

Kate Mills, a developmental neuroscientist at the University of Oregon, was equally puzzled. “This is funny to me—I don’t know why 25,” Mills said. “We’re still not there with research to really say the brain is mature at 25, because we still don’t have a good indication of what maturity even looks like.”

 

[ToPleaseHim]

Lol, okay. We’ll just call it mid-20’s then. So for some it might be earlier and others later.

https://www.nimh.nih.gov/health/pub...g and,prioritizing, and making good decisions.

https://www.nature.com/articles/s41386-021-01137-9

Love debating semantics

 

[ToPleaseHim]

@Teen_switch I hope the posts aren’t discouraging you. Please keep in mind that the older doms were all once younger doms, too.

 

[SmokingFap]

Lol, okay. We’ll just call it mid-20’s then. So for some it might be earlier and others later.

https://www.nimh.nih.gov/health/publications/the-teen-brain-7-things-to-know#:~:text=The brain finishes developing and,prioritizing, and making good decisions.

https://www.nature.com/articles/s41386-021-01137-9

Love debating semantics

I don't think he was debating semantics. I think he was debating word usage.

 

[PaxNurgle]

@Teen_switch I hope the posts aren’t discouraging you. Please keep in mind that the older doms were all once younger doms, too.

Agreed, and the old saying goes, the only way to get experience is.... to get experience. I do hope the o.p. finds the sub he is looking for.

 

[Morning_mist]

I have no authentic experience, so my input here must be considered only in the context of what my libido seems to crave. As a mature (50+ year old) woman I find thoughts (aka fantasy) of submitting to a much younger woman excruciatingly erotic. I realize this fantasy does not rise to the level of taboo or perverse, but something about submitting to a woman half my age just feels inside-out, and causes delightful goosebumps.

 

[Teen_switch]

Honestly, no. There are a lot of abusive assholes out there who call themselves Doms, and a lot of younger, less experienced guys who don’t fully consider the way things they do might be of consequence to others. The D/s dynamic requires a fuckton of trust on the sub’s side and it takes experience, emotional maturity, even-temperedness and consideration to earn, among other things. Science says the human brain isn’t fully mature until age 25, but some people take a lot longer to grow up, if they ever grow up at all.

I am sorry that you view this topic in this particular manner. I will not deny that younger men who claim themselves as dominant really understand the meaning behind it. But it also doesn't make it that everyone under 25 is just dumb. I probably have more experience than many of the people here. I hope you can keep an open mind. If you want to hear my case, I will gladly present it to you.

 

[Teen_switch]

There's certainly something kinda intriguing about the idea of submitting to someone younger but yeah as people have said, they would need to have a good level of emotional maturity.

Keep an open mind. Identifying jerks is the easiest thing. If someone is just wanting to get into your pants, It is very easy to spot their intentions