The Joys of Cheating

[SimpleGifts]

Hey, how come some guys really dig the idea of their women stepping out on them, but no women have stepped forward to say the idea of her husband or SO fucking other women is sexy?

Google the term "cuckquean" and get ready for an education. I have a feeling that such a fetish is EXTREMELY rare, however.

SG

 

[CJontherocks]

Google the term "cuckquean" and get ready for an education. I have a feeling that such a fetish is EXTREMELY rare, however.

SG

Oh, cool. I know I saw the term somewhere in here before, but didn't look into it at the time. Yeah, I imagine it's rare in reality, but only because my perspective is limited.

So is it really cheating though, if the cuckold/cuckquean is into it, is turned on by it?

 

[BadGirl420]

Oh, cool. I know I saw the term somewhere in here before, but didn't look into it at the time. Yeah, I imagine it's rare in reality, but only because my perspective is limited.

So is it really cheating though, if the cuckold/cuckquean is into it, is turned on by it?

I have a Cuckquean fetish. I've cheated many times as well

 

[SimpleGifts]

I have a Cuckquean fetish. I've cheated many times as well

@BadGirl420, you sound like the kind of person I'd like to know better.

More seriously, I've cheated multiple times, but not for the thrill. I honestly think that my family, including my wife, is better off with me at home. But in affairs, I've met some amazing women, had mind-blowing sex, and learned a lot about myself, and actually become much more mature in some ways (I married at a young age). So, while I agree in principle that cheating is wrong and should be avoided, I can't paint it with a black-and-white brush.

SG

 

[SimpleGifts]

So is it really cheating though, if the cuckold/cuckquean is into it, is turned on by it?

I'd say that the general definition is that if you're partner is aware of it, and certainly if your partner approves of it, extramarital sex isn't cheating. Swinging, for example, isn't generally considered cheating (and in fact, I've found that the swinger community has a very vicious reaction against cheating--they tend to believe that you should come clean with your spouse before stepping out).

BadGirl420--I'm curious about whether you've followed through on your cuckquean fetish. How would you bring that up? How did/would your husband react?

SG

 

[Blacklace87]

I get this two year itch thing, where after a few years of being with a man I end up wanting more... I want to be with women again, I want the exciting 3soms etc and I usually end up cheating but then the relationship always ends up ending for me too because when I cheat I push myself away from my partner.

I've currently got that two year itch again and am wanting to cheat, especially with a women which I miss a lot.

We've talked about 3soms but he's not into it. I would love to see him with a women but nope. So that itch just growing and growing at the moment.

I feel selfish for it, i've got a wonderfu life and he's amazing but yet... I want more. I want the strong dominant men, I want the sneaking around, the women, the playing with others, exploring and having fun with new people.

It's something I feel will never go away, it's just a part of me...

 

[davenjenn]

bump ...

 

[dyslexicyouth]

Before I got married, I was a terrible cheat. I cheated on all my bfs from my teens onwards. I loved being the good little girl with some very straightlaced guy most of the time, being nice to his friends, dressing perfectly and going to all the right parties. But I would secretly date bad boys and fuck their brains out. In fact, I pretty much said yes to anyone who asked.

I ultimately married one of the bad boys and we have had an open relationship for 10 years, so I still have plenty of guys. But we tell each other everything, so it isn't exactly cheating. This has worked well until recently when I have suddenly started to miss real cheating, with all the lying and pretending.

So we have agreed that we don't have to tell each other everything we do anymore. And tonight I had my first affair that I don't plan to tell my husband about. It was wonderful and I came really quickly just thinking about the fact that I wouldn't tell. And he never goes on lit anymore so he won't read it here. I am now strategizing about being a true cheat again

Are there any other women who enjoy cheating as much as I do?

Hotttttt

 

[davenjenn]

Bump ...

 

[davenjenn]

Hotttttt

We also got past the tell each other everything thing. I found when I made that change I also started to have more lovers

 

[secret_passion_49]

About 10 years ago, my ex-wife confided in me that she was bi-curious. Had been for years. It had reached the point where it was driving her up a wall. I wasn't especially surprised. When you have been with someone as long as I had been with her, you notice little things that make you wonder. Frankly, her disclosure was not only overly surprising but in actual fact a bit of a turn-on for me.

I set about encouraging and enabling her to pursue this curiosity to see if it was what she thought it would be. I figured it would be little more than 'recreational sex' for her. I felt we were both mature enough to handle it. In the end, she ran off with one of her 'girlfriends', and it worked out even better for me. Her life became a wreck (and still is); I was able to reunite with an 'old flame' from my single days, and we are truly happy.

My exe's revelation had another 'benefit' for me. One that she is, years after our divorce, is still unaware of. About a year or so before she 'came out', I had, over a period of about 10 months, flings with three married women, all of whom I had met through chatting in the old 'Married But Looking' Yahoo chat room. One of these occurred all but right under her nose. Though I never really did feel guilty about these encounters, my exe's 'confessions' eradicated any chance that I would ever feel any.

There were two things about these encounters that were significant turn-ons for me:

1. I got away with them. To this day, the ex has not a clue they ever occurred.

2. All three women were married, and quite attractive, at least to me. There was something about the realization that I was screwing another man's wife that made it awesome. In each case, I was taking advantage of his neglect of her. She and I were sharing a brief escape from the dreariness of our 'real' lives.

And these two things are among the many joys of cheating.

 

[Marcus494]

Before I got married, I was a terrible cheat. I cheated on all my bfs from my teens onwards. I loved being the good little girl with some very straightlaced guy most of the time, being nice to his friends, dressing perfectly and going to all the right parties. But I would secretly date bad boys and fuck their brains out. In fact, I pretty much said yes to anyone who asked.

I ultimately married one of the bad boys and we have had an open relationship for 10 years, so I still have plenty of guys. But we tell each other everything, so it isn't exactly cheating. This has worked well until recently when I have suddenly started to miss real cheating, with all the lying and pretending.

So we have agreed that we don't have to tell each other everything we do anymore. And tonight I had my first affair that I don't plan to tell my husband about. It was wonderful and I came really quickly just thinking about the fact that I wouldn't tell. And he never goes on lit anymore so he won't read it here. I am now strategizing about being a true cheat again

Are there any other women who enjoy cheating as much as I do?

I'm sorry but is simply disgusting. There is nothing worse then betraying someone who loves and trusts you, it is pure cruelty, finding out someone has cheated and betrayed you is one of the most painful things someone can feel. It is the reason why in Dante's Inferno Brutus, who betrayed Julius Caesar, was cast down to Purgatory to be chewed by the Devil for all eternity.

 

[davenjenn]

"Are there any other women who enjoy cheating as much as I do?"

Apparently not!

 

[davenjenn]

I'm sorry but is simply disgusting. There is nothing worse then betraying someone who loves and trusts you, it is pure cruelty, finding out someone has cheated and betrayed you is one of the most painful things someone can feel. It is the reason why in Dante's Inferno Brutus, who betrayed Julius Caesar, was cast down to Purgatory to be chewed by the Devil for all eternity.

I'll take my chances. Perhaps Dante will mention me in his next book ...

 

[Lost_Yonder]

I'll take my chances. Perhaps Dante will mention me in his next book ...

Power to you! I have a feeling it will be Dante and the puritan-types who take his work seriously that will be in the bottom realms of purgatory

I greatly appreciate a woman who is willing to cheat - wish my own wife would (maybe she is, but I seriously doubt it). The problem isn't cheating, it is the normative construction of monogamy - how boorish and unnatural!

 

[davenjenn]

Feeling kind of excited this morning -- thinking about cheating does that

 

[Lost_Yonder]

Feeling kind of excited this morning -- thinking about cheating does that

Do you have something/someone lined up? are you on the hunt? you usually connect with married men or singles? any preferences?

There is something addictive to the thrill of cheating - finding someone who themselves is willing to be with a married person, the seduction and flirting, knowing it is taboo/"wrong"...

Have fun!

 

[lovedoublepenetration]

I am a serial cheater too...I lost virginity at 12...and have been a total slut since...I too cheated on all my bf's and my husband too.. I got introduced to double penetration at 15...and it is my favourite...even now I take part in as many dps as I can...best part is my husband and kids don't know about it...I dp almost daily ..and am an exhibitionist...never wears bras and panties ..

 

[soccermomnympho]

Sorry, I didn't mention the girl at work. I think that was the deciding one. So I guess that's four. I really am a crappy husband.

Hey, how come some guys really dig the idea of their women stepping out on them, but no women have stepped forward to say the idea of her husband or SO fucking other women is sexy?

I actually really like when my husband fucks other women.

 

[Lost_Yonder]

I am a serial cheater too...I lost virginity at 12...and have been a total slut since...I too cheated on all my bf's and my husband too.. I got introduced to double penetration at 15...and it is my favourite...even now I take part in as many dps as I can...best part is my husband and kids don't know about it...I dp almost daily ..and am an exhibitionist...never wears bras and panties ..

Daily? You are a busy woman! do you have a group of lovers to call upon or are constantly finding new ones?

Love a woman who goes braless! Being brazen is such a turn-on.

 

[Isevil1976]

I actually really like when my husband fucks other women.

Why am I not your husband? Lol

 

[docisin]

I am a serial cheater too...I lost virginity at 12...and have been a total slut since...I too cheated on all my bf's and my husband too.. I got introduced to double penetration at 15...and it is my favourite...even now I take part in as many dps as I can...best part is my husband and kids don't know about it...I dp almost daily ..and am an exhibitionist...never wears bras and panties ..

"...I dp almost daily..." lol what a bunch of crap...
lucky for me, my cock doesn't seem to care...

 

[coati]

It seems that every year I run into a married man or woman who almost never gets laid and who really wants to get off. These hungry folks almost always cum quickly and strongly. Some feel guilty and flee the scene quickly, but usually there is just a sense of gratefulness.

Forced celibacy can be a form of purgatory for many people. It's a joy to see them get off and feel the glow again.

 

[Apisto42]

I’ve cheated. Didn’t bother me in the slightest. Loved the thrill of meeting a new partner and exploring each other. My marriage has had its ups and downs. My wife has had her own things to. So really it’s more of the “don’t ask don’t tell” then cheating.

Just like I don’t want to hear what she’s done, she doesn’t want to hear what I’ve done.

 

[Ratchetman1982]

The thrill of cheating really is addictive. Just knowing that you could get caught at any moment. Plus learning things about a new lover is always an experience