The Joys of Cheating

[screwher]

The second time I cheated was with my husband's friend. It started with my husband staring me with him one night. Then we started to get together behind his back. Then he got engaged. I even did a strip dancer for his bachelor party. I ended up banging him into the first year of his marriage. I felt like it was more a thrill after he was married. Since then, I always got git around married men. Friends husbands are the best. I feel bad about it, but I kind of love hanging out with my friends knowing that I fucked their husbands.

Honestly, I feel my wife’s friends husbands would make perfect lovers for her. We like to keep our lifestyle on the downlow. So I know they would insist on discretion. Being married (the longer, the better) its more likely that he would be safe. My wife hates condoms. So he would be able to do her bare! I know she would never do that. But you never never truly know. A spin on the odd adage - “The pussy wants what the pussy wants!”

 

[Mystories189]

Honestly, I feel my wife’s friends husbands would make perfect lovers for her. We like to keep our lifestyle on the downlow. So I know they would insist on discretion. Being married (the longer, the better) its more likely that he would be safe. My wife hates condoms. So he would be able to do her bare! I know she would never do that. But you never never truly know. A spin on the odd adage - “The pussy wants what the pussy wants!”

They are accessible, I get to know and like them, I hear my friends talk about them. We try to keep it quite because they have more time lose than me. If they find out, it usually works itself out.

 

[water_moutina]

But how do you manage the timings?

If I'm not traveling then all my playing around has to happen during the afternoon, so I get to hubs by evening. And that puts so much restrictions on the guy like I ask him not to cum on my face. If he gets in my hair and its a pain to clean without a shower. And I won't always have time for shower. Stuff like that

If I'm traveling then its just perfect. No restrictions

 

[Mystories189]

But how do you manage the timings?

If I'm not traveling then all my playing around has to happen during the afternoon, so I get to hubs by evening. And that puts so much restrictions on the guy like I ask him not to cum on my face. If he gets in my hair and its a pain to clean without a shower. And I won't always have time for shower. Stuff like that

If I'm traveling then its just perfect. No restrictions

Husband works odd hours. We go out with our own friends sometimes. Showering only takes 10 minutes.

 

[water_moutina]

Husband works odd hours. We go out with our own friends sometimes. Showering only takes 10 minutes.

Every thursday is a lunch day with my friends. Not every thrusday I'd have sex but most of the time I do

 

[Mystories189]

Every thursday is a lunch day with my friends. Not every thrusday I'd have sex but most of the time I do

I have done a few lunch dates too.

 

[nassauguy_2001]

The best of all worlds -- you have some of the excitement of cheating but can have fun telling your husband too

Agree 100%, best of both worlds!

 

[nassauguy_2001]

Every thursday is a lunch day with my friends. Not every thrusday I'd have sex but most of the time I do

Reminded me of an old joke an old timer told to his son on his wedding day:

"Always insist on one week night with the boys right from the start."

"And don't waste it on the boys!"

 

[davenjenn]

My wife and are the same, sex was always possible when dating. After we married that didn't change and if the opportunity came along we would cheat. Eventually we each found out and now we have a more open relationship. My wife is way more active than me now.

Of course, if a girl travels for business and is open to adventures, it's much easier to find lovers than it is for a man. Especially if her SO encourages her

 

[screwher]

Of course, if a girl travels for business and is open to adventures, it's much easier to find lovers than it is for a man. Especially if her SO encourages her

I wish my wife’s career took her away on semi regular business trips. It would provide her with a lot of opportunities for some illicit fun with fun strange men in her hotelroom.

 

[LoveofTaboo]

It doesn't matter whether you did it with a man or a woman. Having sex outside relationship without mutual consent isn't justified by the sex of the person with whom you cheated.

Considering what so many have done to cheaters, I say they deserved to be cheated on.

 

[davenjenn]

Considering what so many have done to cheaters, I say they deserved to be cheated on.

Cheating is a fun game

 

[oneblueye]

hey...

Cheating is a fun game

YEAH BABY!

IT'S ALL FUN AND GAMES UNTIL YOU HEAR THAT FIRST SHELL GETS RACKED IN...

 

[davenjenn]

Relax

 

[hulmule]

Always had a crazy high sex drive. So when my marriage became sexless, when no attention was paided to me it wore on me. Thought i did something? Did i get ugly? Tried to work on things, she just lost her desire, she never really had one. Then one day a woman hit on me at work, Teasing, flirting etc. Then we got together WOW, I felt alive ! Not that i was proud of cheating, but i felt good about being able to please a woman again. Then i realized it wasn't me.

 

[Islander55]

YEAH BABY!

IT'S ALL FUN AND GAMES UNTIL YOU HEAR THAT FIRST SHELL GETS RACKED IN...

I think the danger that goes with cheating is part of the allure and adds to the excitement. I also think a lot of cheating is unplanned. At least the first time but then it can become tough to give up.

 

[Bigspurt]

I think the danger that goes with cheating is part of the allure and adds to the excitement. I also think a lot of cheating is unplanned. At least the first time but then it can become tough to give up.

True with me. The first suggestion from me was met with an "I don't think so" response. It didn't take too much of rolling her pert nipples between my fingers to get things going.

 

[oneblueye]

hey...

I think the danger that goes with cheating is part of the allure and adds to the excitement. I also think a lot of cheating is unplanned. At least the first time but then it can become tough to give up.

I ABSOLUTELY agree with you. Alot of the cheating I got into was unplanned. I wasn't into it for the 'allure' or 'the excitement' I was into it for 'the nut'. Pure and simple except with the girls or women I was with didn't see it that way--, even though they are the ones who initiated my behaviour by cheating on me first.

But like you said, once the cheating takes on a life of its own, the momentum is difficult if not impossible to stop ---barring a forty five caliber stop sign.

I have been fortunate in that, I have had guns pulled on me a few times by S/O's and lived but still carry the scars and memories everyday, of the encounters.

 

[Crownvic]

I ABSOLUTELY agree with you. Alot of the cheating I got into was unplanned. I wasn't into it for the 'allure' or 'the excitement' I was into it for 'the nut'. Pure and simple except with the girls or women I was with didn't see it that way--, even though they are the ones who initiated my behaviour by cheating on me first.

But like you said, once the cheating takes on a life of its own, the momentum is difficult if not impossible to stop ---barring a forty five caliber stop sign.

I have been fortunate in that, I have had guns pulled on me a few times by S/O's and lived but still carry the scars and memories everyday, of the encounters.

Best friends...Smith and Wesson..

 

[cubbyfire04]

I think the danger that goes with cheating is part of the allure and adds to the excitement. I also think a lot of cheating is unplanned. At least the first time but then it can become tough to give up.

I ABSOLUTELY agree with you. Alot of the cheating I got into was unplanned. I wasn't into it for the 'allure' or 'the excitement' I was into it for 'the nut'. Pure and simple except with the girls or women I was with didn't see it that way--, even though they are the ones who initiated my behaviour by cheating on me first.

But like you said, once the cheating takes on a life of its own, the momentum is difficult if not impossible to stop ---barring a forty five caliber stop sign.

I have been fortunate in that, I have had guns pulled on me a few times by S/O's and lived but still carry the scars and memories everyday, of the encounters.

I lived in fear of revenge being enacted upon myself for years after a particularly scandalous stint of infidelity. What I've come to realize is, those of us who cheated/were cheated on were actually far less impacted, in the long-run, than were others in the friend group we were all a part of. It damaged a lot of very close (and decades old) friendships and reputations.

I would never judge anyone for cheating... Not saying it's ok, but we all have our own very personal reasons for doing so. I would even argue that in some circumstances, infidelity could save a relationship.

I would simply encourage anyone seeking the thrill of non-monogamy to at least understand the (possibly far-reaching) consequences; and ask yourself...

"Is the juice worth the squeeze?"

Also wouldn't hurt to rub one out and gain some "post-nut clarity" before driving to that seedy hotel

 

[Islander55]

I lived in fear of revenge being enacted upon myself for years after a particularly scandalous stint of infidelity. What I've come to realize is, those of us who cheated/were cheated on were actually far less impacted, in the long-run, than were others in the friend group we were all a part of. It damaged a lot of very close (and decades old) friendships and reputations.

I would never judge anyone for cheating... Not saying it's ok, but we all have our own very personal reasons for doing so. I would even argue that in some circumstances, infidelity could save a relationship.

I would simply encourage anyone seeking the thrill of non-monogamy to at least understand the (possibly far-reaching) consequences; and ask yourself...

"Is the juice worth the squeeze?"

Also wouldn't hurt to rub one out and gain some "post-nut clarity" before driving to that seedy hotel

I agree that one should think about the consequences but unfortunately that thinking is usually done after the fact and by then it kind of has a life of its own. I do not consider myself a habitual cheater but sometimes events conspire and either we don't think or just give in to our desires.

 

[cubbyfire04]

I agree that one should think about the consequences but unfortunately that thinking is usually done after the fact and by then it kind of has a life of its own. I do not consider myself a habitual cheater but sometimes events conspire and either we don't think or just give in to our desires.

Agreed... It's typically an act of passion, which leaves little room for rational thinking. Not sure I would have ever carefully weighed the consequences had I not had an experience like that with trauma on so many levels.