Cheating wife?

[liqueur]

So I know a lot of guys on here fantasize about their gf or wife cheating on them.
But a lot of these guys are straight.
What’s the thrill of your girl cheating on you? Is it the humiliation?

For me, there are two primary factors. One is, yes, the humiliation. The other is that I just love the thought of a woman who is both lusty enough and sure of herself enough to go out and get what she wants without subjecting herself to social mores or expectations of others.

(But, for the record, I am both genderqueer and bi, so I barely qualify as a “guy.”)

 

[jimmyturtleman]

Ok seen as we're talking about cheating wives. Why is that a woman who cheats on her husband or boyfriend is willing to give up her ass virginity so easily even though she never let her husband or boyfriend have the pleasure of anal with her. I've been with married or attached women who have willing let me ass fuck them but would never let hubby or boyfriend do them in the ass.

Let me take a swing at this, and offer up my two cents worth. My wife has cheated on me, a 'few' times. We have talked about it, a lot, and she tells me that it is exciting to cheat, bringing a lot of intensity to it. She has had to be, the 'good' wife, the 'good' mother, the 'good' grandmother, the 'good' daughter, and so on and so on. When she finds someone to cheat with, she can let herself be other than that 'good' person. She can be wild, and naughty, and even slutty. She can do whatever she wants. It's like a pressure relief valve, allowing her to 'let off steam.' She has admitted, it's a lot of fun, being the 'naughty' girl. And getting ass fucked, to a lot of women, is kind of 'naughty.'

 

[Greytruck]

Let me take a swing at this, and offer up my two cents worth. My wife has cheated on me, a 'few' times. We have talked about it, a lot, and she tells me that it is exciting to cheat, bringing a lot of intensity to it. She has had to be, the 'good' wife, the 'good' mother, the 'good' grandmother, the 'good' daughter, and so on and so on. When she finds someone to cheat with, she can let herself be other than that 'good' person. She can be wild, and naughty, and even slutty. She can do whatever she wants. It's like a pressure relief valve, allowing her to 'let off steam.' She has admitted, it's a lot of fun, being the 'naughty' girl. And getting ass fucked, to a lot of women, is kind of 'naughty.'

Really good description.. works two ways

 

[Ceemeo]

So I know a lot of guys on here fantasize about their gf or wife cheating on them.
But a lot of these guys are straight.
What’s the thrill of your girl cheating on you? Is it the humiliation? The sexy personal porn? Or something else entirely?
Hotwifing, cuckolding, and other words are also thrown around

When I thought I was a straight guy wanting my wife to be fucked by many other guys, it was because it gave me permission to fuck other girls. I grew to not only love it but to love other guys cocks as well

 

[desire30]

We do this with role playing and toys.I will fuck her with a big dildo as we are pretending its someone we know and as she calls his name to fuck her she can not stop cummin.When we are done then I fuck her well used pussy and she will tell me how good he fucked.Which makes us both cum

what a wonderful sex life.. Q: do you use real friends or associates names in your sex play?

 

[LMWM321]

Ok seen as we're talking about cheating wives. Why is that a woman who cheats on her husband or boyfriend is willing to give up her ass virginity so easily even though she never let her husband or boyfriend have the pleasure of anal with her. I've been with married or attached women who have willing let me ass fuck them but would never let hubby or boyfriend do them in the ass.

The answer may be simpler than you realize. ..Rather than some emotional or psycho-sexual reason, It could be simply about.....dick size. Or, more specifically.. dick girth.

These days most women no longer see anal sex as an inherently sinful, shameful and humiliating act like previous generations saw it. So, much like oral sex, it's on the menu with many women. ..One possible impediment to engaging in it, however, is dick girth. ..If a guys girth is average or slimmer than average, the idea of anal will seem more appealing and possibly enjoyable than if a guys dick is girthy. My own wife has ZERO problems with the idea of anal sex but practically speaking, my dick is simply too thick (6.25" around) for it to be pleasurable without a ton of pre-stretching, which is incredibly inconvenient in the heat if intimacy. So, after doing anal just 4 or 5 times during our decades long relationship, ass play now mostly includes only fingers, butt plugs, slim dildos, and lots of my rimming her. ....But if she was with a lover with a slim dick? ..Sure, why not?

Guys with thin dicks may complain about their lack of girth, but they are probably getting way better blow jobs and more anal sex opportunities because of it.

 

[madlapper]

what a wonderful sex life.. Q: do you use real friends or associates names in your sex play?

we use real associates names which makes it so much hotter

 

[firefox27eros]

we use real associates names which makes it so much hotter

That is the real mental intercourse.

 

[Kolejdayz]

We often fantasize together of what it would be like to fuck friends, business colleagues, etc

 

[MH2024hot]

I enjoy her pleasure. Watching her when she is cumming. But I like The idea that this good girl might secretly be hiding something else from me, repressing it for years but finally giving in when all the stars aligned to present some sinful opportunity to get her lust out. She has been repressed for some years but was that because of me? Maybe another man could have brought out her kinky side but I was too timid.

Maybe it's a low point in our relationship, she's suddenly noticed by a good looking man during a church conference outing where she is gone for a week. They talk a lot about their marriages, it leads to intimate prayer and more conversations. Then a few drinks and a few nights later his cock is 7 inches deep in my wife's fuck tunnel, another man's sperm dripping out of her pussy and she's enjoying every dirty position he put her in that night, the porn he introduced to her and made her watch, then laughing about it the next morning, no guilt, just fun. But he sends me the secret video he made of them and I spend a month jacking off to it and finally confront her, but it's not judgment. It's my invitation and slightly coercive plan for us to join the swinger lifestyle. We finally admit our secret lusts and desires and our marriage is only strengthened because of it.

 

[desire30]

I enjoy her pleasure. Watching her when she is cumming. But I like The idea that this good girl might secretly be hiding something else from me, repressing it for years but finally giving in when all the stars aligned to present some sinful opportunity to get her lust out. She has been repressed for some years but was that because of me? Maybe another man could have brought out her kinky side but I was too timid.

Maybe it's a low point in our relationship, she's suddenly noticed by a good looking man during a church conference outing where she is gone for a week. They talk a lot about their marriages, it leads to intimate prayer and more conversations. Then a few drinks and a few nights later his cock is 7 inches deep in my wife's fuck tunnel, another man's sperm dripping out of her pussy and she's enjoying every dirty position he put her in that night, the porn he introduced to her and made her watch, then laughing about it the next morning, no guilt, just fun. But he sends me the secret video he made of them and I spend a month jacking off to it and finally confront her, but it's not judgment. It's my invitation and slightly coercive plan for us to join the swinger lifestyle. We finally admit our secret lusts and desires and our marriage is only strengthened because of it.

your story is so much of what I want in mine..

 

[MH2024hot]

True story is I'm on a very long journey with her. Written about it extensively on here. Had a nice breakthrough in Vegas but it's stagnated since then due to drama with adult kids. But I'm writing her another confessional where I lay it out all on the line. No holding back. Total church girl wife (with a kinky side but never really developed it), she's a ministry leader but her husband loves light porn and dirty fantasies. Im about two weeks away from presenting three way sex fantasies to her and asking to watch porn together. We have a strong relationship and she's secure in my love so that's a good buffer and foundation. But it's a cross roads and I need her to continue to take this next step with me.

 

[Kolejdayz]

In this case a cheating girlfriend. A long time ago I dated a little college girl. We had a lot in common in terms of interests, music. etc. And she had a perfect, petite body -- short hair, brown eyes, medium sized breast, 5' 4" and 110 lbs. She tended to wear preppy skirt, shirts and dresses. Made her look very girlish. and she actually did some modeling of the fashion kind.

We saw each other almost every night and fucked a lot -- she was much more experienced than me though. We took Friday nights off so she could "wash her hair." Much, much later -- after she had married another man -- she told me was that she mostly spent her Friday nights with a group of other students. Some Fridays were just fun dinners, but most Fridays she hooked up with other guys (often older guys) and got laid. When I finally found out I suppose I should have been hurt but I was super-excited instead. The thought of all that experienced cum in Helen's tight little pussy got me hard every time.

I am still loosely in touch with her. But we are both quite old now. The thought of those days still gets me hard though.