Cheating wife?

[liqueur]

So I know a lot of guys on here fantasize about their gf or wife cheating on them.
But a lot of these guys are straight.
What’s the thrill of your girl cheating on you? Is it the humiliation?

For me, there are two primary factors. One is, yes, the humiliation. The other is that I just love the thought of a woman who is both lusty enough and sure of herself enough to go out and get what she wants without subjecting herself to social mores or expectations of others.

(But, for the record, I am both genderqueer and bi, so I barely qualify as a “guy.”)

 

[jimmyturtleman]

Ok seen as we're talking about cheating wives. Why is that a woman who cheats on her husband or boyfriend is willing to give up her ass virginity so easily even though she never let her husband or boyfriend have the pleasure of anal with her. I've been with married or attached women who have willing let me ass fuck them but would never let hubby or boyfriend do them in the ass.

Let me take a swing at this, and offer up my two cents worth. My wife has cheated on me, a 'few' times. We have talked about it, a lot, and she tells me that it is exciting to cheat, bringing a lot of intensity to it. She has had to be, the 'good' wife, the 'good' mother, the 'good' grandmother, the 'good' daughter, and so on and so on. When she finds someone to cheat with, she can let herself be other than that 'good' person. She can be wild, and naughty, and even slutty. She can do whatever she wants. It's like a pressure relief valve, allowing her to 'let off steam.' She has admitted, it's a lot of fun, being the 'naughty' girl. And getting ass fucked, to a lot of women, is kind of 'naughty.'

 

[Greytruck]

Let me take a swing at this, and offer up my two cents worth. My wife has cheated on me, a 'few' times. We have talked about it, a lot, and she tells me that it is exciting to cheat, bringing a lot of intensity to it. She has had to be, the 'good' wife, the 'good' mother, the 'good' grandmother, the 'good' daughter, and so on and so on. When she finds someone to cheat with, she can let herself be other than that 'good' person. She can be wild, and naughty, and even slutty. She can do whatever she wants. It's like a pressure relief valve, allowing her to 'let off steam.' She has admitted, it's a lot of fun, being the 'naughty' girl. And getting ass fucked, to a lot of women, is kind of 'naughty.'

Really good description.. works two ways

 

[Ceemeo]

So I know a lot of guys on here fantasize about their gf or wife cheating on them.
But a lot of these guys are straight.
What’s the thrill of your girl cheating on you? Is it the humiliation? The sexy personal porn? Or something else entirely?
Hotwifing, cuckolding, and other words are also thrown around

When I thought I was a straight guy wanting my wife to be fucked by many other guys, it was because it gave me permission to fuck other girls. I grew to not only love it but to love other guys cocks as well

 

[desire30]

We do this with role playing and toys.I will fuck her with a big dildo as we are pretending its someone we know and as she calls his name to fuck her she can not stop cummin.When we are done then I fuck her well used pussy and she will tell me how good he fucked.Which makes us both cum

what a wonderful sex life.. Q: do you use real friends or associates names in your sex play?

 

[LMWM321]

Ok seen as we're talking about cheating wives. Why is that a woman who cheats on her husband or boyfriend is willing to give up her ass virginity so easily even though she never let her husband or boyfriend have the pleasure of anal with her. I've been with married or attached women who have willing let me ass fuck them but would never let hubby or boyfriend do them in the ass.

The answer may be simpler than you realize. ..Rather than some emotional or psycho-sexual reason, It could be simply about.....dick size. Or, more specifically.. dick girth.

These days most women no longer see anal sex as an inherently sinful, shameful and humiliating act like previous generations saw it. So, much like oral sex, it's on the menu with many women. ..One possible impediment to engaging in it, however, is dick girth. ..If a guys girth is average or slimmer than average, the idea of anal will seem more appealing and possibly enjoyable than if a guys dick is girthy. My own wife has ZERO problems with the idea of anal sex but practically speaking, my dick is simply too thick (6.25" around) for it to be pleasurable without a ton of pre-stretching, which is incredibly inconvenient in the heat if intimacy. So, after doing anal just 4 or 5 times during our decades long relationship, ass play now mostly includes only fingers, butt plugs, slim dildos, and lots of my rimming her. ....But if she was with a lover with a slim dick? ..Sure, why not?

Guys with thin dicks may complain about their lack of girth, but they are probably getting way better blow jobs and more anal sex opportunities because of it.

 

[madlapper]

what a wonderful sex life.. Q: do you use real friends or associates names in your sex play?

we use real associates names which makes it so much hotter

 

[firefox27eros]

we use real associates names which makes it so much hotter

That is the real mental intercourse.

 

[Kolejdayz]

We often fantasize together of what it would be like to fuck friends, business colleagues, etc

 

[MH2024hot]

I enjoy her pleasure. Watching her when she is cumming. But I like The idea that this good girl might secretly be hiding something else from me, repressing it for years but finally giving in when all the stars aligned to present some sinful opportunity to get her lust out. She has been repressed for some years but was that because of me? Maybe another man could have brought out her kinky side but I was too timid.

Maybe it's a low point in our relationship, she's suddenly noticed by a good looking man during a church conference outing where she is gone for a week. They talk a lot about their marriages, it leads to intimate prayer and more conversations. Then a few drinks and a few nights later his cock is 7 inches deep in my wife's fuck tunnel, another man's sperm dripping out of her pussy and she's enjoying every dirty position he put her in that night, the porn he introduced to her and made her watch, then laughing about it the next morning, no guilt, just fun. But he sends me the secret video he made of them and I spend a month jacking off to it and finally confront her, but it's not judgment. It's my invitation and slightly coercive plan for us to join the swinger lifestyle. We finally admit our secret lusts and desires and our marriage is only strengthened because of it.

 

[desire30]

I enjoy her pleasure. Watching her when she is cumming. But I like The idea that this good girl might secretly be hiding something else from me, repressing it for years but finally giving in when all the stars aligned to present some sinful opportunity to get her lust out. She has been repressed for some years but was that because of me? Maybe another man could have brought out her kinky side but I was too timid.

Maybe it's a low point in our relationship, she's suddenly noticed by a good looking man during a church conference outing where she is gone for a week. They talk a lot about their marriages, it leads to intimate prayer and more conversations. Then a few drinks and a few nights later his cock is 7 inches deep in my wife's fuck tunnel, another man's sperm dripping out of her pussy and she's enjoying every dirty position he put her in that night, the porn he introduced to her and made her watch, then laughing about it the next morning, no guilt, just fun. But he sends me the secret video he made of them and I spend a month jacking off to it and finally confront her, but it's not judgment. It's my invitation and slightly coercive plan for us to join the swinger lifestyle. We finally admit our secret lusts and desires and our marriage is only strengthened because of it.

your story is so much of what I want in mine..

 

[MH2024hot]

True story is I'm on a very long journey with her. Written about it extensively on here. Had a nice breakthrough in Vegas but it's stagnated since then due to drama with adult kids. But I'm writing her another confessional where I lay it out all on the line. No holding back. Total church girl wife (with a kinky side but never really developed it), she's a ministry leader but her husband loves light porn and dirty fantasies. Im about two weeks away from presenting three way sex fantasies to her and asking to watch porn together. We have a strong relationship and she's secure in my love so that's a good buffer and foundation. But it's a cross roads and I need her to continue to take this next step with me.

 

[Kolejdayz]

In this case a cheating girlfriend. A long time ago I dated a little college girl. We had a lot in common in terms of interests, music. etc. And she had a perfect, petite body -- short hair, brown eyes, medium sized breast, 5' 4" and 110 lbs. She tended to wear preppy skirt, shirts and dresses. Made her look very girlish. and she actually did some modeling of the fashion kind.

We saw each other almost every night and fucked a lot -- she was much more experienced than me though. We took Friday nights off so she could "wash her hair." Much, much later -- after she had married another man -- she told me was that she mostly spent her Friday nights with a group of other students. Some Fridays were just fun dinners, but most Fridays she hooked up with other guys (often older guys) and got laid. When I finally found out I suppose I should have been hurt but I was super-excited instead. The thought of all that experienced cum in Helen's tight little pussy got me hard every time.

I am still loosely in touch with her. But we are both quite old now. The thought of those days still gets me hard though.

 

[FlirtyWordy]

The husband shall have one wife and the wife shall have one husband. That's all I'm going to say about that.

Yawn

 

[Badxxxwifey]

Yawn

Why have just one when there are so many big cocks to suck and fuck?!

 

[FlirtyWordy]

That’s it!
Some guys jerk off to their wives taking bigger, thicker cocks
Some guys want to clean up afterwards
And some gals like me really find the whole scene… quite erotic mmmm

Some guys, like me, are bi. But the main reason is that she gets to fully embrace and own her sexuality; it’s hers to do with as she wishes but I benefit!

 

[FlirtyWordy]

I came to Literotica to read the stories. Then all of a sudden the so called married couples think that cheating is okay. I just had to say something about it. You do whatever you feel is right. I will do what I know is right. With that being said I'm none talking. Cause you so called married couples will do whatever you feel is right.

Your insecurity is showing, mate

 

[liqueur]

Ohhh this one gets me wet
Why can’t the world just open up to this?

I love anything that gets you wet!

 

[FlirtyWordy]

It's complicated, lol. I think it started as the idea of seeing her have the ultimate pleasure. Like, if it would turn her on more to play with two dicks, that's what I want for her. Or if I can make her cum like this, how much more intense would her orgasm be if she had two inside of her (any sort of DP)? Or wondering how crazy it must feel to get fucked and licked at the same time.

So for me, it's really about I want her to cum as hard as possible (because that makes me cum harder).

But honestly it evolved a bit. I do kinda like the idea of her just wanting some variety and, on her way home, stopping at the third's house and getting fucked. Or having him over and I watch. Seeing her react to another man, draining his balls, all that makes her sexier to me.

We'd never actually done any of this. It was a fantasy and we'd dirty talk about it during sex and it turned me on a lot. But she was generally pretty prude, and I never suggested we take it further.

Then I found out she actually cheated on me. This was (kinda) unrelated to any of the dirty talk. Just her being disloyal. Funny thing, had she gone about it the right way, I'd have been open to him as a third.

And I'm disgusted at the thought of it now. I've told her to not dirty talk me in that way, it's a turn off, literally makes me go soft. It's hard to even be horny around her now.

Seems a tad harsh, given that you participated so vigorously in the fantasy

 

[liqueur]

Why is that a woman who cheats on her husband or boyfriend is willing to give up her ass virginity so easily even though she never let her husband or boyfriend have the pleasure of anal with her.

The answer may be simpler than you realize. ..Rather than some emotional or psycho-sexual reason, It could be simply about.....dick size. Or, more specifically.. dick girth.... My own wife has ZERO problems with the idea of anal sex but practically speaking, my dick is simply too thick (6.25" around)

@LMWM321 your answer would only make sense if most husbands were blessed with ultra thick cocks, and that seems to be quite not the case.

I think there are even simpler answers:

1. She's already stepping outside the bounds of “good girl” or proper or whatever. The more inhibitions she throws out the window, the more exciting it feels. Or —
2. If she gives it up to her husband, he's going to want it all the time.

 

[madlapper]

What gets me so turned on is that my wife is thinking about someone else and getting wet. Then her being totally submissive to him and having a ton of orgasms from his cock.One of the things I love is when she tells she was thinking of someone and used her toy for a couple orgasms.

 

[BlueSkiesBrownEyes]

So I know a lot of guys on here fantasize about their gf or wife cheating on them.
But a lot of these guys are straight.
What’s the thrill of your girl cheating on you? Is it the humiliation? The sexy personal porn? Or something else entirely?
Hotwifing, cuckolding, and other words are also thrown around

This was a huge fantasy for my husband. He had been dating a woman before we started dating and she cheated on him and on one hand it broke his heart and betrayed him but he also found it a huge turn on. When we got together things were very light and he later on told me about his desire for me to be with another man but to tell him and see how it played out in a more chosen scenario and honestly I found it to be exciting as well.

 

[LMWM321]

@LMWM321 your answer would only make sense if most husbands were blessed with ultra thick cocks, and that seems to be quite not the case.

I think there are even simpler answers:

1. She's already stepping outside the bounds of “good girl” or proper or whatever. The more inhibitions she throws out the window, the more exciting it feels. Or —
2. If she gives it up to her husband, he's going to want it all the time.

Honestly, my remark was mostly tongue-in-cheek and meant to undercut all the nonsense about women wanting to be with big-dicked men. My attempt at humor missed the mark. ..Not the first nor last time.

 

[Worzel550]

So I know a lot of guys on here fantasize about their gf or wife cheating on them.
But a lot of these guys are straight.
What’s the thrill of your girl cheating on you? Is it the humiliation? The sexy personal porn? Or something else entirely?
Hotwifing, cuckolding, and other words are also thrown around

It's the loving her bi friend, loving watching me fuk her

 

[LMWM321]

So I know a lot of guys on here fantasize about their gf or wife cheating on them.
But a lot of these guys are straight.
What’s the thrill of your girl cheating on you? Is it the humiliation? The sexy personal porn? Or something else entirely?
Hotwifing, cuckolding, and other words are also thrown around

Many possible reasons for the thrill of knowing your wife is/ has been with other men:

• knowing your wife still has the capacity for lust, that sex means much more to her than just something she does to appease you. This notion is thrilling to many of us.
• Expecting it would resurrect your wife's overall interest in sex, which would lead to more frequent and hotter sex with you! This of course is not a guarantee but it seems to be supported anecdotally.
• The reflected glory of knowing your wife is so sexually appealing that other men can get aroused and orgasm from being with her. We love sensing a friends envy when they get behind the wheel of our new sports car, or boat, etc.. So it goes with permitting another man to be with your wife. We take pride in knowing he got to enjoy her once, but we get to enjoy her the rest of our life.

And there is a world of difference b/w allowing your wife to be with others as part of an openly discussed agreed upon arrangement, and finding out your wife is cheating. I personally love the idea of my wife being with other men for NSA sex so long as she tells me first and prioritizes her safety. The idea of her doing it behind my back (cheating!) crushes me.

It's also important to point out that allowing our wife to have sex with others does NOT necessarily mean we are ambivalent about the security of our relationship. On the contrary, for many of us, the depth of our love and mutual need for one another has progressed to a point where we understand that extramarital sex is merely a fleeting and transient pleasure that makes life more exciting while posing NO threat to our marriage. So why not allow it?