Tell Us! How has Lit changed you?
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havu
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I found Lit by chance on my phone through an application. I spent about days and hours reading the stories for 3 to 4 years before making an account for a profile and the forum board.
Lit has changed me completely. I used to be the goody two shoes girl and deep down had a burning desire to be naughty and free no matter what the consequences were. I would face the consequences head on when it comes. Now I feel at peace and home with Lit. I have found a place where I can finally call home.
I have chatted with people that are kind, sweet, loving, charming, and many words that even if I type them those people will know I am talking about them. I have also chatter with people who are mean and rude but gave them time and space before reopening up the chat again. If they want to be rude and mean, I will send them a message for wasting their and my time and wish them on their way.
Lit has made me more self aware of what I want in my life and have not gone on the deep end just yet. All in all I hope to continue being on Lit and explore more of my kinks and sexuality. I am bi curious.
In case someone needs to know what gender I am. I am a lady not a man. Please do not think or assume I am a man disguising as a lady. It does not work that way. All one has to do is message me and find out for himself or herself.
Lit has changed me completely. I used to be the goody two shoes girl and deep down had a burning desire to be naughty and free no matter what the consequences were. I would face the consequences head on when it comes. Now I feel at peace and home with Lit. I have found a place where I can finally call home.
I have chatted with people that are kind, sweet, loving, charming, and many words that even if I type them those people will know I am talking about them. I have also chatter with people who are mean and rude but gave them time and space before reopening up the chat again. If they want to be rude and mean, I will send them a message for wasting their and my time and wish them on their way.
Lit has made me more self aware of what I want in my life and have not gone on the deep end just yet. All in all I hope to continue being on Lit and explore more of my kinks and sexuality. I am bi curious.
In case someone needs to know what gender I am. I am a lady not a man. Please do not think or assume I am a man disguising as a lady. It does not work that way. All one has to do is message me and find out for himself or herself.
makemewet69
Whisper to me...
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I started looking at Lit back in my college days just reading stories. Towards the end of my marriage a couple years ago I discovered the boards. Through the boards I met Cj. He showed me what it’s like to be unafraid in a relationship and in a way taught me how to love. He showed me that sex is meant to feel good and it’s okay to explore. I’ll always be grateful for this place for bringing us together even though we’re no longer romantically involved. Without him and the other friendships I’ve made here I believe I’d be dead. Lit has seen me at my lowest of lows and my highest of highs. I don’t consider people I’ve met through Lit “Lit friends.” They’re friends. They’re real and they’re awesome and they’ve been there for me. I’ll always have a great love for this place for bringing us all together.
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ExiledWelshman
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Hasn't changed me, but recent events have taught me a few things.
Question everything.
Assume nothing.
Expect very little.
Question everything.
Assume nothing.
Expect very little.
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Farawyn
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Oh, so you were always bitter?
I’m sorry for “recent events.” They suck, don’t they?
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ExiledWelshman
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Oh, so you were always bitter?
I’m sorry for “recent events.” They suck, don’t they?
I meant in terms of on Lit. My post didn't make that clear.
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Farawyn
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ExiledWelshman
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So did I.
The great thing? You can log out and go out your face in the sun.
Indeed.
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Farawyn
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Me too. But that has always been. Not a lit thing.
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Farawyn
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Violetvixen1
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Omg what the hell happened in here?!? It’s a banana orgy!
Violetvixen1
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DarkSimian
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So did I.
The great thing? You can log out and go out your face in the sun.
What? Are you insane? I'll combust! *POOF*
cookiecat
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Lit taught me to approach online relationships just as I would a face to face relationship. Choose words carefully. Think - would I say this if I were sitting across from this person? Lit taught me to trust my gut and don't pretend to be someone I'm not.
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BeautifulBlueSky218
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I met a lot of interesting people on here. I've managed to open up a bit since I first joined, which I think is a great thing. Anytime I come back, I realized how much I've changed and notice new interesting things. It's a interesting place which makes me always come back to it somehow.
New journey's, new people to meet, new interesting conversations to have. So I think it's a very good thing.
New journey's, new people to meet, new interesting conversations to have. So I think it's a very good thing.
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Farawyn
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I do that, too. No microchip stopping me from speaking either way. As you know.
Wild_Honey_66
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BadAmy
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Lit has exposed a lot of things. Things I like and don't like. About me. Now...what to do with that knowledge..that's the rub.
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AnalCreampieGiver
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Lit has helped me grow as a person, introduced me to people I really care about and it has helped me become more forgiving/understanding to others 
