Sexless Marriages

[Sunshinebum]

It is sad that we should even think it necessary or possible to feel bad, for just being true to oneself.

Been sexless marriage for almost 9 years now....he shows no interest in even a simple hug.

 

[Mtnmike]

Been sexless marriage for almost 9 years now....he shows no interest in even a simple hug.

Very sorry to hear that, 17 year's here and like you no touch whatsoever, not even allowed to see her unless totally dressed

 

[Sunshinebum]

Very sorry to hear that, 17 year's here and like you no touch whatsoever, not even allowed to see her unless totally dressed

He never sees me naked either .... his choice btw

 

[Mtnmike]

He never sees me naked either .... his choice btw

God I'm so sorry that's just crazy, I don't know y'all's situation but he has a problem he needs to figure out.
It's rare I've ran into a woman dealing with this but you have my sympathy, I know how frustrating and mentally rough it can be.
I know as a man you probably wouldn't want to talk about it but I'm open to no judgement talking if you ever feel the need to vent or get it off your chest, my PM's are always open if you'd like to.

 

[LeeKee]

Been sexless marriage for almost 9 years now....he shows no interest in even a simple hug.

Im in same situation with my wife.
It is the most empty feeling in the world.

 

[Sunshinebum]

God I'm so sorry that's just crazy, I don't know y'all's situation but he has a problem he needs to figure out.
It's rare I've ran into a woman dealing with this but you have my sympathy, I know how frustrating and mentally rough it can be.
I know as a man you probably wouldn't want to talk about it but I'm open to no judgement talking if you ever feel the need to vent or get it off your chest, my PM's are always open if you'd like to.

Id love to chat, but im headed to bed now.
Tomorrow?

 

[Mtnmike]

Same here, tomorrow or anytime you feel up to it.
Goodnight and pleasant dreams

 

[Sunshinebum]

Same sweetie

 

[AngieGZC]

He never sees me naked either .... his choice btw

Sounds like his loss...I would love to see you naked haha....

 

[Tryingit26]

I am totally in a sexless marriage and have been pretty much for a few years! We’re out there but we are a bit like unicorns

I am a woman in her 50’s with the sex drive of an 18 yr old boy, that’s not normal I’ve been told by female friends the same age and male friends. I should be settling down for my old age with my hormones dying a slow death, but hell no!

I’m a male in my mid 50’s and want it all the time. The wife could care less. She says I am not normal! Wouldn’t you be a breath of fresh air!

 

[ladysmaid]

I am surprised to see 2 women respond to this thread. I don't know any guys in their 40's or 50's who don't want sex. I quite wrongly thought this was a guy only problem. I guess you learn something new every day. Thanks for sharing.

It spans the sexes and the age ranges

 

[beachlights44]

It spans the sexes and the age ranges

It does indeed. Too bad there isn’t a forum outside of Lit where people could discuss with others in the same situation.

 

[stephen88]

I was raised in a very conservative family. As was my wife. This is apparently something that isn't, wasn't, or just ignored by all parties. And yet, on Sunday morning, we present the happy and well-adjusted, picture-perfect Preacher and his family. My wife learned that lesson well. Everything is fine. I'm fine. How are you? Fine. Great, I'm fine with that. We are all fine then. Let's sing shall we?
hahahhahaha

 

[Bud96]

He never sees me naked either .... his choice btw

He should see that u r getting fucked so hard by a big cock

 

[Mickyb9669]

He should see that u r getting fucked so hard by a big cock

Both enjoy the moment it slides in

 

[BDA73]

Alot of morning self pleasure events

 

[womaneater58]

I've been stuck in a sexless marriage for about 6 years now. Self pleasure can be nice but I've started to look for a FWB or more.

 

[mortis]

It’s not sexless,but sex is number 42 on the things she would rather do.

Where for me sex is number 1 or 2 on my list.

 

[BreedMySow314]

He should see that u r getting fucked so hard by a big cock

I need for my wife to be fucked hard by a big cock!

 

[Mickyb9669]

I need for my wife to be fucked hard by a big cock!

Good feeling?

 

[Southernscot21]

I need for my wife to be fucked hard by a big cock!

Pm me. I’ll breed her over and over again

 

[Trash_Panda_1994]

It's a bit funny to me that even though the sex never got me off. The most worked up and horny I've been during my marriage was during my pregnancies.



Once month 3 hit he was pushing me off him and telling me to take care of it myself.



But now I just don't want to ask for sex that just going to end with me getting myself off when he's asleep.

 

[Mickyb9669]

It's a bit funny to me that even though the sex never got me off. The most worked up and horny I've been during my marriage was during my pregnancies.



Once month 3 hit he was pushing me off him and telling me to take care of it myself.



But now I just don't want to ask for sex that just going to end with me getting myself off when he's asleep.

Oh dear big vibrator needed.

 

[Solsurfer]

It's a bit funny to me that even though the sex never got me off. The most worked up and horny I've been during my marriage was during my pregnancies.



Once month 3 hit he was pushing me off him and telling me to take care of it myself.



But now I just don't want to ask for sex that just going to end with me getting myself off when he's asleep.

That’s sad to hear. I think a horny pregnant woman is so sexy. I’m sorry he didn’t love you like you wanted.

 

[Trash_Panda_1994]

That’s sad to hear. I think a horny pregnant woman is so sexy. I’m sorry he didn’t love you like you wanted.

Thank you but I think it's just something that happens. Which is a shame because when it's good I do have a.more than healthy sex drive