Sex VS Masturbation

RastaPope

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I understand most people would rather be getting actual tail, as opposed to their hand and/or a device. But I find I usually have a better, stronger orgasm with masturbation. I don't know why. And it's not always, but perhaps 70%.

My hand is one_sexy_bitch.
 
I rarely come with plain sexual intercourse, mostly come with oral sex, and ALWAYs come under my own ministrations. I think it's because we know what we like and do it. Cannot fail! We know where to touch and how. Who knows us better than ......us. :-D
 
I have stronger orgasms through intercourse, but masturbation tends to be a much more intense sensation than a handjob administered by someone else.

Of course, I don't get that electric thrill from sucking my own fingers, so a partner definetely has advantages.
 
mistressastra said:
I rarely come with plain sexual intercourse, mostly come with oral sex, and ALWAYs come under my own ministrations. I think it's because we know what we like and do it. Cannot fail! We know where to touch and how. Who knows us better than ......us. :-D


I'm in that boat too.
 
S'Real's reality

Hello Sex & Diamonds :)

Ok...for the question. Well...I can never get an 'O' from mastrbation...only from intercourse, or another using a toy or tongue on me.
 
S'Real's reality

Ooops I must be tired...meant to say that I can but it takes a lot of mastrubation to achieve it...not that that is such a bad thing hehehe

hmm I could of just edited that last message...oh well...too late now *s*:rose:
 
With psycho ex girlfriend from a few months back sex was like a chore (albeit a pleasant chore but it took plenty of effort on my part) while spending time alone at home spanking the monkey was something to look forward to. When I recognised the plane was that close to crashing I had no choise but to eject.
 
RastaPope said:
I understand most people would rather be getting actual tail, as opposed to their hand and/or a device. But I find I usually have a better, stronger orgasm with masturbation. I don't know why. And it's not always, but perhaps 70%.

My hand is one_sexy_bitch.

I have better and stronger orgasms by my own. But I still prefer sex with someone there! :D
 
Actual intercourse is probably better for the peripheral pleasures. And the more the merrier too at least right now for me. But with masturbation, with various toys, I have good control and I always cum hard.
 
RastaPope said:
I understand most people would rather be getting actual tail, as opposed to their hand and/or a device. But I find I usually have a better, stronger orgasm with masturbation. I don't know why. And it's not always, but perhaps 70%.

My hand is one_sexy_bitch.

LOL. Mine too! I'm with you RastaPope, it does seem that way. Does anyone else know how to touch yourself better than yourself?

I suppose if you find someone that does, they'd be a keeper. :D
 
Your sleeping with the wrong people Rasta.....what you need is an Aussie girl! lol

For me my best orgasms are with a partner - thats if he knows what he's doing and is able to build me up before I have an orgasm.
 
Bindii said:
Your sleeping with the wrong people Rasta.....what you need is an Aussie girl! lol

For me my best orgasms are with a partner - thats if he knows what he's doing and is able to build me up before I have an orgasm.

There ya go Bindi. Sex is a lot like real estate but instead of "Location, location, location." it's "Foreplay, foreplay, foreplay". Us 'geezers' have teh edge on the young kids when it comes to that aspect.:D

Ishmael
 
Ishmael said:
Us 'geezers' have teh edge on the young kids when it comes to that aspect.:D

I beg to differ ol' geezer! ;) This young whipper-snapper is pretty good at foreplay and innuendo :D
 
Ishmael said:


There ya go Bindi. Sex is a lot like real estate but instead of "Location, location, location." it's "Foreplay, foreplay, foreplay". Us 'geezers' have teh edge on the young kids when it comes to that aspect.:D

Ishmael

Allow a man his dreams!


But as for anyone who thinks masturbation is more effective....

what do you do when it is all over? Roll over and snuggle yourself? Whisper sweet nothings into a pillow?

Even in a purely physical sense, masturbation is empty and not fulfilling for me.
 
Ishmael said:


There ya go Bindi. Sex is a lot like real estate but instead of "Location, location, location." it's "Foreplay, foreplay, foreplay". Us 'geezers' have teh edge on the young kids when it comes to that aspect.:D

Ishmael

Your soooo right Ishmael. From personal experience I've found the older guys to be more considerate, 'knowing' and sensual that their younger counterparts. Makes for a better time by all don't you think?
 
MissTaken said:


Allow a man his dreams!


But as for anyone who thinks masturbation is more effective....

what do you do when it is all over? Roll over and snuggle yourself? Whisper sweet nothings into a pillow?

Even in a purely physical sense, masturbation is empty and not fulfilling for me.

Ahhhhhhhhh yes, the post coital intimacy.

And Zam, you protesth overly. I didn't use the word 'all'. :D

Ishmael
 
Bindii said:


Your soooo right Ishmael. From personal experience I've found the older guys to be more considerate, 'knowing' and sensual that their younger counterparts. Makes for a better time by all don't you think?

What, me argue with a woman of discrimination and taste? Not me.:)

Ishmael
 
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