Our kids are going to have sex anyways

[Todd-'o'-Vision]

Do you hear yourselves when you say that?

Have you indoctrinated yourself to accept that?

Do you understand what your saying?

Do you realize you have already tried them, judged them, found them guilty, and sentenced them?




Our kids are going to have sex anyways so let us just teach them how to do it safely.

Our kids are going to have sex anyways so lets just warn them of sexually transmitted diseases.

Our kids are going to have sex anyways so lets develop a pill so our little girls don't get pregnant when the condom isn't used or fails.

Our kids are going to have sex anyways so lets make abortions the best option when our little girls get pregnant unexpectlyrolleyes: ).

Our kids are going to have sex anyways so lets make condoms available to our little boys so they don't have to be embarrassed going into a pharmacist to buy some.





Lets not teach our kids that sex and love are meant to go hand in hand.

Lets not teach our kids that they are still kids.

Lets not teach our kids the responsibilities that comes with sex.

Lets not teach our kids the responsibility of pregnancy.

Lets not teach our kids the responsibility of parenting.

Lets not teach our kids the responsibility of love.

Lets not teach our kids to think with thier brains but to give into peer pressure.

Lets not teach our kids to think with thier brains but to give in to thier hormone (heaven know they will die if they don't )



Lets just try, judge, find them guilty and sentence our kids.

 

[Purple Haze]

Been listening to Dr. Laura again?

 

[alexandraaah]

Do you hear yourselves when you say that?


Our kids are going to have sex anyways so lets make abortions the best option when our little girls get pregnant unexpectlyrolleyes: ).

Lets not teach our kids the responsibility of love.

If you can find me a parent who has said or thought either of these things Todd O, then I'll fuck you and prove your parents right.

 

[lovetoread]

Todd honey,I love you,but your tune will change when you have kids.

Kids change every thought that you haver ever had.

Just ask Tiger,since he now has 3,he has changed his tune really fast.

But onto your topic,I was a kid who had a kid. She is now a beautiful 11 year old and we have already talked about sex.

 

[Rubyfruit]

Todd, what if I think it's perfectly natural and normal that when my kids are young adults, they decide to engage in sex?

Damn right I will talk to them about being responsible.

 

[bored1]

Been listening to Dr. Laura again?

When I first listened to her I didnt like her at all. and there are times I think shes way off base. But if I did learn anything from her preaching it was that we are responsible for our actions and behaviors. There are consequences for the choices we make. When I was exposed for being unfaithful to my spouse there were consequences.IE: Im no longer married. My choice to betray the trust of a woman who loved me destroyed my family. Unintended consequences to bad choices. Since listening to her years ago I now believe in a "right" and "wrong". Todd-o-Vision, I have taught my kids about the consequences of unprotected sex and I have discussed drug use with them also. I cannot be with my kids 24-7 especially since they do not live with me. All I can do is hope that I have instilled enough common sense in them to make the proper choices when the time comes.

 

[Scruffy]

Do you hear yourselves when you say that?

Have you indoctrinated yourself to accept that?

Do you understand what your saying?

Do you realize you have already tried them, judged them, found them guilty, and sentenced them?




Our kids are going to have sex anyways so let us just teach them how to do it safely.

Our kids are going to have sex anyways so lets just warn them of sexually transmitted diseases.

Our kids are going to have sex anyways so lets develop a pill so our little girls don't get pregnant when the condom isn't used or fails.

Our kids are going to have sex anyways so lets make abortions the best option when our little girls get pregnant unexpectlyrolleyes: ).

Our kids are going to have sex anyways so lets make condoms available to our little boys so they don't have to be embarrassed going into a pharmacist to buy some.





Lets not teach our kids that sex and love are meant to go hand in hand.

Lets not teach our kids that they are still kids.

Lets not teach our kids the responsibilities that comes with sex.

Lets not teach our kids the responsibility of pregnancy.

Lets not teach our kids the responsibility of parenting.

Lets not teach our kids the responsibility of love.

Lets not teach our kids to think with thier brains but to give into peer pressure.

Lets not teach our kids to think with thier brains but to give in to thier hormone (heaven know they will die if they don't )



Lets just try, judge, find them guilty and sentence our kids.

How is the weather this time of year back in the 50's?

 

[Scruffy]

I think I'll base my opinions about teenage sex around the advice and wisdom of someone who actually knows about sex.

Not going to ask the Amish for computer help either.

 

[kotori]

Todd: Our kids are going to grow up. Why don't you?

 

[freescorfr]

I used to think with my brain, Todd. That was crap advice. Now I think with my willy, I listen to my willy, I talk to my willy: it all makes muh more sense. My willy knows where it stands.

As for my kids. Christ, they're all making the same mistakes I did. Books, study, research, work even. A parent's nightmare.

 

[Calamity Jane]

Todd, eventually, those children are going to be adults and they need to know the facts. The facts are, that there are ways to prevent disease and pregnancy, and when those options fail, there are ways to deal with the consequences.

My children may choose not to have sex before they're married. They may choose to begin having sex at age 14. Either way, they need the information to deal with the decision. Asking them to abstain, telling them that sex is beautiful only when you're in love, or that there is nothing to fear from their partners is not only hypocritical, it's irresponsible.

 

[vylette]

todd,

do you have children or do you remember what it was like when you were younger?....things just always arent that black and white...just because you tell your child something...doenst automatically mean they will listen...we are all human and we are going to make mistakes...and honestly i believe our mistakes as much as our successes make us who we are...

i will no doubt encourage my son not just to have sex but to make love...to wait until he has found a person he truly loves..but i am also here to tell you i know i cannot be with him 24 hours a day and he may very well make a mistake (we all have) and i will be damned if i will not give him the knowledge to protect himself...i do not want my son to die because he chose to have sex....he will be educated as to how to protect himself...in this day and age things just arent that easy...having unprotected could cost you your life...his life isnt something i want to gamble with...

again i will try to instill the values in my child that i think are important...and hopefully he will follow my advice...but i am very aware that he may chose not to follow my advice and find things out for himself...and i am not going to send him out into the world not completely loaded down with as much knowledge as possible...if i did that, that is when i would feel i failed my job as a parent...

please do not take this as attack on your views...this is what is right for me...i believe everyone has views and opinions that are right for them...i am only telling you my opinion in hopes that you may at least give it some thought...but regardless i would never wish for you or anyone else anything but health and happiness...

 

[teresafannin]

Todd, read your post again if you ever actually grow up & have kids. Once again, I would recommend turning off the computer, going outside & interacting with people. There is actually a world full of people out there, some of whom are quite interesting. I don't know of any parents who act the way you claim we do in this post. However, I do understand that those who don't have children know more about children than those of us who do. I am not sure how I managed to raise my son for 17 years without your all seeing, all knowing wisdom. Amazingly enough, I gave him all the facts & he chose not to have sex because he felt he wasn't ready. You might be surprised at how many young people are not sexually active, of course, they aren't real news worthy.

 

[a lit regular]

you have to have sex first to have kids, Todd!

 

[alexandraaah]

you have to have sex first to have kids, Todd!

Please.

You wanna chastize the kid for being a virgin? How lame.

If you wanna be obnoxious, just look at my post, but making a dumbass comment that Todd is a virgin is just.....so lame.

 

[a lit regular]

Please.

You wanna chastize the kid for being a virgin? How gay.

If you wanna be obnoxious, just look at my post, but making a dumbass comment that Todd is a virgin is just.....so gay.

And telling someone how GAY their comment is ok? uh yeah, ok. Too bad that it's ok for some people to make stupid comments, but not others.

 

[alexandraaah]

And telling someone how GAY their comment is ok? uh yeah, ok. Too bad that it's ok for some people to make stupid comments, but not others.

Point taken; bad choice of words and I've edited as such. Breakin' the habit....but I stand by the initial point of my post.

 

[a lit regular]

WOW! That makes ALL the difference in the world! Especially after you've been quoted with the original words.

Take some advice and think before hitting the post button.

 

[alexandraaah]

WOW! That makes ALL the difference in the world! Especially after you've been quoted with the original words.

Take some advice and think before hitting the post button.

I'm not trying to erase my words so no one "knows", it's just a bad habit I've had for a while of using the word "gay" when I'm too lazy to think of another adjective.

I sincerely appreciate your heartfelt advice, but I can guarantee with certainty that I will continue to be as impulsive in my posting as I've always been.

Stellar use of the eye rolling smilie, by the way; lovin' it!

 

[TWB]

I wasn't going to get involved in this thread, you guys are too worked up on such a hot day.

Alexandraaah. Thanks for the PM.

Whatever anyone says in this post, youre A-OK with me.

 

[a lit regular]

I'm not trying to erase my words so no one "knows", it's just a bad habit I've had for a while of using the word "gay" when I'm too lazy to think of another adjective.

I sincerely appreciate your heartfelt advice, but I can guarantee with certainty that I will continue to be as impulsive in my posting as I've always been.

Stellar use of the eye rolling smilie, by the way; lovin' it!

Why thank you ma'am. BTW, keep in mind, I have nothing against you. I'd have posted that about anyone who did something like that, and I expect that others will let me know when I do the same. Keep trying, and you will succeed.

 

[bluespoke]

Whatever anyone says in this post, youre A-OK with me.

That goes for me too Alex

 

[alexandraaah]

Keep trying, and you will succeed.

I don't get it.

 

[Laurel]

The registered troll is a special troll. An unregistered troll has something at that moment to say that they don't want attached to their regular Lit persona. The registered troll is someone who plans on using the second personality to vent their unseemly opinions without repercussions to their regular persona. Seems like it would be easier to just state your opinion under your normal user name and take the necessary flack. Oh well.

 

[alexandraaah]

The registered troll is a special troll. An unregistered troll has something at that moment to say that they don't want attached to their regular Lit persona. The registered troll is someone who plans on using the second personality to vent their unseemly opinions without repercussions to their regular persona. Seems like it would be easier to just state your opinion under your normal user name and take the necessary flack. Oh well.

Yeah, that's what I did and that's what I got, right?

Oh well, I just want to know what I should continue trying for so I can finally succeed.