How Do You Make Scheduled Sex Exciting?

[PMarky2]

Love this. And totally get it! As a serious introvert, I once suggested to my husband -- whom I loved dearly and wouldn't have traded for the world -- that we buy a duplex and meet every day around the cocktail hour. He was so hurt, I never brought it up again. But good people, I was serious...

My wife once suggested this, and I wish I would have taken her up on the offer. I once designed - well sketched - a Siamese flats arrangement with the two living spaces joined at the kitchen.

My ideal marriage would be my wife pursuing her art in her office/studio, me doing my stuff in my office, then we meet up for lunch, the cocktail hour, dinner, date night, and the occasional round of 'your bed or mine?' The current Mrs PMarky is a bit too coupley for me not to go nuts occasionally.

 

[Erosfan]

We often schedule sex. We do enjoy spontaneous sex too but life sometimes tends to sabotage that for us.

If we have scheduled sex we spend the day sending naughty notes and calls suggesting what play we would like to indulge in what she would like to do etc. We are able to get our sex room set with candles etc and we love it.

For me as long as we are sexually active any quality sex is a great thing.

I like this. We don't schedule sex. We pre-plan things that lead to sexual activities. Last week we had a trip to a town about an hour from where we live. We talked it over and decided she would be topless for much of the trip. Our trip out was non eventful, but the trip home was fun. She had her tits out for most of the trip and there was plenty of traffic. It turned both of us on. I was hard and dripping because of her exposure. We had great sex when we got home.
We are planning our next outing where she will drive and I will do whatever she wants me to do.

 

[13Fantasies]

THIS. in my general opinion, women are more prone to regard things outside the sexual sphere as blocks or inhibitors to their sexual arrousal.Most men can walk into a room where their wife is bent over, vacuuming under couch and the thing that hits them is the ass in the air. A woman is more likely (though NOT exclusively) to have the thought about what is actually happening and how long HAS it been since someone thought to clean UNDER the couch, whereas the man is more likely to be focused on how the couch is right there and since she is already "in position", it's GO! time.

If you remove barriers to her concentration on normal daily chores, you may not get her thinking sexually, but you WILL remove potential obstacles to the thoughts you are trying to inspire.

If only this worked. -Sigh-

 

[matureman32]

Love this. And totally get it! As a serious introvert, I once suggested to my husband -- whom I loved dearly and wouldn't have traded for the world -- that we buy a duplex and meet every day around the cocktail hour. He was so hurt, I never brought it up again. But good people, I was serious...

What a great idea!

 

[Ash999]

Here's a Tip... watch a Bollywood film.... together....View attachment 2535686View attachment 2535687

 

[Bokster1976za]

Wouldn't really have a schedule... but like been married a while and my wife and I usually get things even started with something as simple as when we shopping, I'd brush up against her ass or when she's bending to get something I'd make as if by accident I'm pressing up against her and she again does brushing her hand against my crotch or feeling my ass when I'm getting something on shelves.

That usually builds up on drive home and leads to sex... of all that built up sex drive

 

[pussyhammer2021]

I start off with some intro music...something upbeat and loud. I talk myself up in front of the mirror while my wife gets herself ready. I play the sex out in my mind as i oil myself up and do some pushups to get a good pump in. Then when the scheduled time comes, i run into the bedroom and work the crowd. I have learned that if u win the crowd, whatever else happens is a win. This recipe for success isnt for everybody tho.

 

[gtnlynn]

We have been having sex with each other for over 40 years, so there isn't anything new that we want to try. We still make love about twice a month. We have a lot of foreplay and talk about our sexy experiences together or, in her case, with others. The stories excite both of us.

 

[Erosfan]

I'm absolutely in favor of that. Unfortunately the wife is fervently opposed, and she's the one I'm hoping to impress.

I've tried to nurture friendships between her and several potential #3s, but she doesn't care much for any of the men or women I would want to invite.

Rest assured I'll keep trying, but any other recommendations?

I'm absolutely in favor of that. Unfortunately the wife is fervently opposed, and she's the one I'm hoping to impress.

I've tried to nurture friendships between her and several potential #3s, but she doesn't care much for any of the men or women I would want to invite.

Rest assured I'll keep trying, but any other recommendations?

My late wife and I discussed something similar to this idea, many times. I love CFNM, and we had many wonderful experiences with that, but it was just the two of us. When we had these talks, she would always suggest who she might invite to see me and share my love of being naked for her. She once offered that her aunt would be all in if she asked her? She even told our daughter about our discussions here, and she said "Oh mom, that's so normal." I was shocked that she told our daughter, but even more shocked at her reaction.
We never did act any of this out, She always said she just couldn't go through with it.

 

[Erosfan]

With the lady in my life now, we plan events or outings that will get us both going. We do things like road trips or even golf cart rides around our neighborhood, where we tease each other. She will expose her breasts when possible, discreetly. She will rub and squeeze my nipples, then rub my hard on that she just caused. She knows that gets my fires burning. We may plan our outings up to a week ahead of time, and we do follow through. We don't have anyone at home to worry about, so, when we get home, all horny, and wound up, we play as much as we want to. It works for us.

 

[Noor]

Show up late?

Or early.

I was thinking attack, but changing the expected time works too