lanceGibs
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It is one of the tools to maximize pleasure
Orgasm denial
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HottieOlwen
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Am I the only one so far in this thread to consider consensuality? Yes, I deny my cuckold orgasms. I do, however, milk him weekly (not weakly! Lol!) A friend who is both a GP and a Hot Wife advised me years ago that milking prevents prostate problems in later life. So he's milked via prostate massage, always to a ruined orgasm. But his denial is consensual. For me, and I've been a Hot Wife for nearly 30 years, consensual play is the only form of play I enjoy.
zcraft5
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maybe you are but orgasm denial makes the next one so much intense
Agreed. Self denial is nothing. I have no will power. But when your Domme says no. You know ultimately something wonderful will happen.
NancyPan
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I asked my wife to manage my orgasms. It is certainly not punishment! Being in sustained arousal for her is bliss, and I needed her to forbid my masturbation. She gives orgasms when she believes it is best (usually about once/month), and I have learned to cherish the opportunity to “share” her orgasms with her as my focus is her pleasure, not mine. My small penis is generally kept tucked or tightly encased in a tight panty girdle while I pleasure her so that I do not have “an accident” and spurt without permission.
As far as the need to ejaculate for prostate health, there is no research supporting that assertion, but men like to claim it is true..
When I do cum, I actually now feel such a let down from my now normalized high state of arousal that it takes me several days to recover. She has observed this and often finds it more fun to keep me on the edge.
As far as the need to ejaculate for prostate health, there is no research supporting that assertion, but men like to claim it is true..
When I do cum, I actually now feel such a let down from my now normalized high state of arousal that it takes me several days to recover. She has observed this and often finds it more fun to keep me on the edge.
seekingAlpha
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I enjoy edging my sub with a Hitachi for up to an hour a day and then not allowing her to orgasm for a week. In her case, it keeps her in an almost constant state of arousal, and she enjoys it, so it is not considered punishment. Punishment would be 6 hours of forced orgasms after a week of denial since she really dislikes forced orgasms.
morelikeasong
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Orgasm denial would definitely be a punishment for me. I think in a dynamic, that’s something that should be discussed in a meta talk. For some, it seems to really enhance pleasure and connection. But there isn’t a one size fits all for BDSM. I much prefer the idea of forced orgasms rather than denial. I think denial would just lead to resentment, for me.
Sister...dude.
MistressSuma69
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Tease and Denial is really fun... I love it and so does my subs
In general, too many is fun to do to a girl and denial is fun to do to a guy. I had a FWB that after several weeks of tease and denial for me, I was able to tie her up and make her cum. after too many orgasms she told me the code to the lock box with the key to my cage.
Then I banged her and kept making her cum.
It was fun.
It was hours before she could stand on her own.
SluttyLindsey
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my daddy uses it as training and punishment. In order to properly obey commands you must suffer, you must learn his needs are always primary. So, yes it is for training and you will learn to appreciate cumming and him and even more.
However, it can also be used as punishment currently I’m having to stretch my cunt with it soaking out and not cum at this point I’ve had this in me over 24 hours and even turning over in my sleep I woke up trying to cum but knew I had been bad so I needed to control myself.
Can you explain more your circumstances?
SluttyLindsey
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For training you must learn to obey. So, any situation can be used for orgasm denial. However, as your dom leaves you alone more he may put a vibe in you for the day with a camera and push you to your brink. This will not only help you obey, but to you appreciate orgasms more.
As for punshment it can be similar, or he could continuously edge you which is much harder to not orgasm during and if you do create further much more intense punishments.
For fun my dom has me go out in public doing errands and he controls my viberator to make me want to cum while driving and will be on the phone with me teasing me and pushing me to my limits, he will also do this out to eat, the bar or even a good spike while we walk around which he knows will push me and it’s either I cum and am humiliated so everyone knows or I must hold it together. This can also be a punishment
Thanks for expanding.
The edging and denial is always a challenge. My domme would use it as training but also punishments.
In a training exercise I had to edge to precut every hour on the hour. Sometimes she would make do it several times . I'd have to beg to be allowed to edge prior to doing so. Humiliating and exhausting. 18 hrs. 32 edges.
Amazing experience.
The edging and denial is always a challenge. My domme would use it as training but also punishments.
In a training exercise I had to edge to precut every hour on the hour. Sometimes she would make do it several times . I'd have to beg to be allowed to edge prior to doing so. Humiliating and exhausting. 18 hrs. 32 edges.
Amazing experience.
NancyPan
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It appears that this issue of ejaculation frequency and prostate health is a factor for young men. I am no longer in that category. As a teenager I probably ejaculated 10-14 times a week, as a young adult at least once a day. I would cum that often now also if I was not controlled.
https://www.health.harvard.edu/mens-health/ejaculation_frequency_and_prostate_cancer
https://www.health.harvard.edu/mens-health/ejaculation_frequency_and_prostate_cancer
I would love for the wife to have me roll a dice on News years Eve and let it decide how many times I cum for the year 1-6. Then roll a set of dice to determine the months I can cum in. Example of I roll a 3 then I cum 3 times next year. And then roll a 4, 7, 10. That means I cum once during those months.
Way to infrequent for me....omg
la_ruche
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Roll the dice to decide how many times to cum today.
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NancyPan
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I would not like it being predetermined. For me, it works better if it is always dangling as that “carrot” on the end of the stick. I love it that it is up to Her and that I must demonstrate that I deserve it. Randomness removes motivation and some of her authority.
YouWillObey
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I had a sub that I would have edge herself multiple times a day. I usually let her cum every few days. But the times I would have her wait for days were her best orgasms. Once I had her go 9 days before she was allowed to cum. She nearly passed out from her orgasm
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