Inviting others over.

[Supplyanddemand]

At Christmas I had two close male friends over to my house. They were aware that girlfriend was submissive and that she acted as my slave. They had met her socially several times in a normal 'vanilla setting. This event was going to be different. We would have a movie night and my slave would us with collar, heels and nothing else. We had entered into a TPE Master/slave dynamic but I was always conscious that my orders were acceptable and not making her feel too much discomfort. To my surprise (shock?) she was very excited at the prospect and more than willing.
On the day of the event I was more nervous that her! She greeted them at the door and welcomed them in. She seemed very cool and loved the attention. During the evening she served snacks and drinks and was happy to strut about showing her body. Nothing beyond exhibitionism and titillation occurred
I don't think we payed much attention to the movies. The guys were very appreciative and thanked me many times over the following weeks (probably hoping for another invite).
Anyway ... she is keen to repeat the experience. I am thinking of pushing the boundaries a bit and maybe invite another couple of guys over. Nothing sexual just her enjoying being a naked slave girl. I don't know where this will end up so a little reticent.

 

[Submissivepat]

May I suggest you ask her if it is okay to push her limits?

 

[Supplyanddemand]

May I suggest you ask her if it is okay to push her limits?

And as her what?

 

[Submissivepat]

And as her what?

Not sure I understand?

 

[ToPleaseHim]

Not sure I understand?

They are asking for clarification on your suggestion:

May I suggest you ask her if it is okay to push her limits?

Are you implying he didn’t ask her if this was okay first? The post gives no indication that she wasn’t eager. Or are you wanting to suggest further pushing of her limits?

 

[Gln1517]

They are asking for clarification on your suggestion:



Are you implying he didn’t ask her if this was okay first? The post gives no indication that she wasn’t eager. Or are you wanting to suggest further pushing of her limits?

No, talk to her first and then you would know how to proceed or not.

 

[Submissivepat]

No, talk to her first and then you would know how to proceed or not.

That’s what I meant. Thank you.

 

[ToPleaseHim]

No, talk to her first and then you would know how to proceed or not.

That’s what I meant. Thank you.

Nothing about the opening post suggests he didn’t talk with her first or that he plans to proceed without talking with her.

 

[Supplyanddemand]

They are asking for clarification on your suggestion:



Are you implying he didn’t ask her if this was okay first? The post gives no indication that she wasn’t eager. Or are you wanting to suggest further pushing of her limits?

You are correct. She is very willing and everything is discussed and limits agreed beforehand.

 

[Supplyanddemand]

It was more my reticence on the situation and having to maintain her comfort and boundaries with more men around.
I would never force he to do anything she wasn't happy with and agreed to.

 

[IrisAlthea]

It was more my reticence on the situation and having to maintain her comfort and boundaries with more men around.
I would never force he to do anything she wasn't happy with agreed to.

That’s how I read it.
And yes, people and groups that are fine on their own, sometimes become problematic or at least harder to handle when combined.

 

[Supplyanddemand]

That’s how I read it.
And yes, people and groups that are fine on their own, sometimes become problematic or at least harder to handle when combined.

As the Dom I feel I am responsible for her safety and comfort. Its a responsibility I took on when she became my slave.

 

[Supplyanddemand]

Inspired by the posts here we had a conversation tonight about it.
We discussed potential men who could come over and agreed on a small list of most trusted and respected aquatances.
Then on the scenario. A dinner party where she would greet the men (naked ) at the door and invite them in. She would be as a servant girl and call them sir, and be humble and respectful.
She would serve us drinks and entrée.
Dinner would be formal with her waiting on us.
After dinner she would wait on and serve drinks.
She said she would be happy to show herself for the men and allow them to touch her but I thought it may encourage things to get out of hand.

 

[Supplyanddemand]

So, we took the opportunity of the England game on Sunday to invite four male friends over. I was very nervous but Sarah excited and couldn't wait! I suppose being responsible for her safety played on my mind.
I all went to plan! Wearing nothing but a collar she enjoyed serving and looking after the guys. After the game she joined us and I could tell she was very aroused. I allowed the men to touch her but nothing more and she enjoyed the attention.
When the left it was relase time for both of us and I fucked her hard several times. We were both very aroused by the experience.
So we plan to repeat!
Maybe follow England's progress through the tournament.

 

[Supplyanddemand]

Well thankfully three friends could come over for the last England game as it was fucking awful!
Sarah is now getting very excited in anticipation of the men coming over.
With this vist I was more demanding of her and she had to present food, stand and walk according to my strict instructions. She relished a more submissive role. As the second half diminished into dullness I instructed Sarah to pose for us for entertainment. She got very excited.
This time I did not allow touching as she was too sexually excited.

 

[Supplyanddemand]

So the last night four friends could attend England's awful effort.
Sarah was horny, she had been all day. I did not allow relief and she was more than ready for guests.
We discussed limits beforehand and she said it was totally up to me. She would let them do anything. From this I guessed she wanted them to do anything.
It was easy to tell she was excited as soon as the men arrived. Very, attentive, submissive and wanting them to look at her body.
I allowed them to casually touch her which soon turned into groping and fingering.
The men were getting aroused and with no football to watch I told her she could perform oral if they wanted.
So despite the game it turned into a fun evening.

 

[IrisAlthea]

If you were in that situation, dare I ask Pat, would it be okay to push you to the limits?
For the two 'guests' to have full sexual access to your orifices...?

This is BDSM Talk and @Submissivepat came here to comment on the topic.
She is not the topic and this is not the place for provocative flirting, but a place where we want people to be able to discuss things and comment without people trying to pick you up, make you uncomfortable or whatever the intent may be.

 

[Supplyanddemand]

We haven't got to repeat the event since the last time I posted here. However, we have had lots of discussion about limits and what she will allow and what she wants.
I don't really know how aligned we are or else I need to get my head around the possibilities she is inviting.
She is happy for certain men to use her or allow me to let them do what they want. She finds the though of being in a submissive M/s role when other men are over incredibly exciting and arousing.
I'm not sure how I feel or how the other men would feel.
Something that needs more though and discussion!

 

[desire30]

what a perfect time for her....

 

[Supplyanddemand]

what a perfect time for her....

I think for her she would like more. I am still considering it. Lots to process.

 

[desire30]

We haven't got to repeat the event since the last time I posted here. However, we have had lots of discussion about limits and what she will allow and what she wants.
I don't really know how aligned we are or else I need to get my head around the possibilities she is inviting.
She is happy for certain men to use her or allow me to let them do what they want. She finds the though of being in a submissive M/s role when other men are over incredibly exciting and arousing.
I'm not sure how I feel or how the other men would feel.
Something that needs more though and discussion!

You sound ideal.

 

[Supplyanddemand]

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You sound idideal.iiI

In What way?

 

[desire30]

Your concern about her safety, setting limit and making sure she is comfortable, Being a perfect Dom with the trust she has given you ..

In What way?

 

[Supplyanddemand]

Thank you. Her comfort and safety comes first. I sometimes feel I am letting her down as she wants to do more but I am restricted her. I just want to know she will not get hurt.

 

[desire30]

If I were to have a Dom, I would love for him to hold your values....Sir