Meth.............

[sexyeyes1]

I need an opinion or two. I'm at a friends house right now partying and she asked me a very serious question. I gave her my opinion but I want to know what other people think so I can show her. Her s/o mainlines speed. she hates him doing it, he won't stop. He tried to make her a deal, this is it. He told her that sex is unbelievable when you slam and if she would slam with him one time and try the sex that he would quit. I told her NO not to do it. Don't let him talk her into anything she does'nt want to do. What do you all think? She is going to be reading your answers so be gentle because she loves him very much.

 

[Cerberus666]

he won't stop until he is ready to stop, until he wants to stop. not for her, not for anybody. don't compromise yourself for an addiction, you'll lose. you have to detach yourself from him. he is responsible for his actions and the results of those actions. I know she probably cares a lot about him but get away from him, staying will only make it hurt more.

 

[mbb308]

Ain't no such thing as an old junkie, or a rich one.

Run, Honey, run.

 

[Shaq]

She needs to leave. No matter how much she loves him when a person is addicted to drugs (he won't stop for a loved one which qualfies him as an addict) they cannot be capable of acheiving a healthy relationship.

He's trying to suck her into his world and she'd be making a grave mistake if she lets him.


She needs to give him an ultamatum. Stand by him if he wants to get better but separate from him until he realizes the damage he is doing and may still do.

 

[Ham Murabi]

Stay away from that shit. Nasty, nasty stuff.

 

[Monazwx]

He hopes that she'll enjoy the meth enough to stop bugging him about it.
Sounds like he doesn't even care whether she gets hooked or not.
Don't give in to this manipulation.

The drugs always win.

 

[Thin Man]

Never want to do it alone.

If he gets you to do it, then that becomes validation for his addiction and the beginning of yours.

Crank is the worst drug to shake. Seems to have overtaken coke as the drug of choice.

Why, oh why put shit in your body made by some of the weirdest dickheads around.

Its a lowlifes drug and if your not when you start, you soon will be.


It is as addictive as crack and just as hard to shake.

 

[Olivianna]

Stay away from meth - regardless of the circumstances. Besides, you don't get someone to quit meth by rewarding them with a wonderful meth experience.

Listen to Mona. Listen to what you know is right.

 

[bknight2602]

Ain't no such thing as an old junkie, or a rich one.

Run, Honey, run.

Well stated and very true.

 

[Jimi]

Run, Dear...

Run very fast, Please!

I am an "old fart" of 52, but in the Early '70's shared a house with an ex-Junkie who was on The Program at the time...

Hell, Ted'd bang anything - Up (Meth) Down (Smack) or whatever...

We used to have a saying, Love.

Speed Kills, Don't Meth Around!

PM's are welcome. if more support is desired.

 

[Chantal Marchon]

Ingredients in Meth vary but include things like ammonia nitrate and sulfuric acid. Meth is a posion that destroys brain cells and the brain stem.

If he is mainlining he is strongly addicted already. that is done to get high faster and stronger. Very, very nasty.

Until he truly sees that he is dragging himself into a pit of nastiness and wakes up and wants to quit for his own sake, he will continue ruining his life. He will spend all his money, all his time and all his affection on a drug.

If she lets him, he will drag her into this pit also so that he feels validated and it will enable him to keep taking the drug without any hinderance.

People have lost families, possessions, children and jobs over drugs and the only thing that they truly care about is the next hit.

She needs to respect herself enough to be with someone that will be devoted to her not a drug.

 

[rosco rathbone]

I used to slam when I lived in SF. It was fun for a while but started to feel real unhealthy so I gave it up.

Hard drugs are just like anything else fun and dangerous: guns, heavy equipment, extreme sports, rough sex. Know what you are getting into, keep safety in mind and always look out for #1.

I think the automatic "Drugs always win/Don't even look at the stuff" line is bullshit and minimizes the potential for responsibilty, freedom and individual action. Life is dangerous, if you can't handle it then stay indoors and don't whine.

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[Lancecastor]

I need an opinion or two. I'm at a friends house right now partying and she asked me a very serious question. I gave her my opinion but I want to know what other people think so I can show her. Her s/o mainlines speed. she hates him doing it, he won't stop. He tried to make her a deal, this is it. He told her that sex is unbelievable when you slam and if she would slam with him one time and try the sex that he would quit. I told her NO not to do it. Don't let him talk her into anything she does'nt want to do. What do you all think? She is going to be reading your answers so be gentle because she loves him very much.

Sorry to hear about your friend.

 

[tyme]

If he cared for her he would no even think of asking this of her. I agree Run far far away as fast and far as you can.

Meth is some bad shit to be getting into. I would not try it for anyone.

 

[april-wine]

Just imagine if HE was clean....The sex could be spectacular....


You know what the right thing is....He is lost in addiction to Meth....The worst part, he is trying to sacrifice you too....Get away, as fast as you can....

 

[Monazwx]

Hard drugs are just like anything else fun and dangerous: guns, heavy equipment, extreme sports, rough sex. Know what you are getting into, keep safety in mind and always look out for #1.

I think the automatic "Drugs always win/Don't even look at the stuff" line is bullshit and minimizes the potential for responsibilty, freedom and individual action. Life is dangerous, if you can't handle it then stay indoors and don't whine.

Many times, people aren't always thinking about the consequences that accompany taking drugs.
Her (the poster's friend) first thought is getting her man off the stuff.

How choosing not to risk your life minimizes the potential for responsibility and action is beyond me.

 

[Desert Amazon]

 

[rosco rathbone]

How choosing not to risk your life minimizes the potential for responsibility and action is beyond me.

I wasn't referring to this particular person. I have a blanket dislike for blanket statements such as "the drugs always win". It is simply untrue. They didn't win with me, for example. I am not minimizing their dangers.

 

[eagleyez]

Addicts THINK they are having fun, or better sex, or better whatever,

Because their brain chemistry is whacked...

I used to drink like an MFer, addicted for sure, and thengot sober and found out what fun is...

how good life is....great sex, sunsets, a good meal, music, those heavenly curves....a good curveball...

My advice ...Get some help- Alanon or Narcanon for you

Medical attention for the shooter, if he's willing...

if not...think of yourself.

Good luck!

 

[Monazwx]

I wasn't referring to this particular person. I have a blanket dislike for blanket statements such as "the drugs always win". It is simply untrue. They didn't win with me, for example. I am not minimizing their dangers.

I understand, so you're saying that drugs win only if one allows it.

You're lucky that you overcame. This girl may not be so fortunate. She's at the crossraods of deciding whether or not to play a risky game and in her case, the "prize", may not be worth the trouble.